Why do girls want excitement in everything?

[gtex1991]

i see women complaining about how bored they are, or how quickly they get bored? some leave men because they are bored?

it you life makeup for it, also in life there is time for everything

i'am college student, 3rd and 4th year get tough, students are preparing for grad school, studying MCAT, LSAT, and engineers doing project, people don't understand on top of classes, life gets routine and free time is used for rest

but women will complaining about wanting excitement all the time

[toulouse]

what do you mean excitement. you mean how they feel about each other, or what they do.

im excited by life, I am perfectly capable of entertaining myself. I feel excited around a guy I like because I like him, it makes the world that much bigger & brighter just from his living room. I like to do a lot of things , so I do. it has nothing to do with liking a guy. we can do something, we can do nothing. I just like being around him, and we don't have to do everything together.

The logic is, I did not rely on a guy to entertain me before we met, I'm not expecting it after, what am I 5. no.

people who need / demand other people to entertain them probably have no goals or no real appreciation for life. I can't think of why else they would be so needy & dependent,. I think there are limits to what you should expect in life from other people and that def crosses boundaries imo. its pathetic.

[Apodyopsis]

I think it's sort of unfair that a guy has to provide all the excitement in the relationship. It's supposed to be a two way street. Usually, I tend to be stuck for the opposite because I go for rather quiet and calm guys, while I'm very hyper and bubbly. I tend to be the one injecting the excitement in the relationship most of the time.

Like I said though, it's supposed to be a two way thing. Besides, a person who can't either participate in spicing up the relationship, or counts on the other person to do so (even going as far as blaming it on that person) probably isn't worth dating.

[jwooz1]

Sometimes excitement isn't about doing something special it's about feeling a certain way...like when things are a bit dull with me and my boyfriend I like to hear him say things to me about how much he loves me and stuff...I know it sounds lame to a guy but honestly, it's so nice to hear how much your boyfriend loves you, or how he thinks you're beautiful, or the things you plan to do over summer or something...it's isn't always about DOING something it's about a gesture...however small that may be!

[moviedude714]

and girls say nice-guys are boring,well they won't be boring if they gave us guys a chance

[goflipaburger]

I'm at the top of my class as a third year, and when I do have free time, I enjoy the heck out of it.

And relationships shouldn't be boring, if they are, there's probably something wrong. I'd never settle for a boring life or relationship. Then again, studying for the LSATS and classes are things I also find exciting, so I don't need to complain. The only time I'm bored is during the summer.

[Anonymous]

Because it's fun and as the name says EXCITING. And not that only guys have to provide the excitement. Girls should be spontaneous as well.

Boring guys rarely ever get our attention, unless they're on the cash register.

[gtex1991]

cash register? you mean paying for you stuff?

[Opinion Owner]

No. I mean if they are working on the cash register.

[titanette78]

What's a relationship without excitement? If it doesn't come naturally, it wasn't meant to be.

[gtex1991]

true but there is time for everything, also the man has to generate the excitement, why is that