Never trust a beautiful woman, especially one that's interested in you. True or false?

[Anonymous]

[rjroy3]

I wouldn't say never, but you should take anything that sounds off with a grain of salt. Like if a girl talks about her ex, all you really need to know is her actions.

Regardless of the positive or negative remarks she had to say about him. At the end of the day did she stay with him afterwards? Then obviously she didn't feel like what he did was bad enough at the time and you shouldn't either.

To me if a girl shits on an ex that she was with fot years, it's not that I never believe it. But I will take everything with a grain of salt. Because at the end of the day she dated him for how long? He did that and she stayed? Then I don't want to hear her complaints about it now.

Especially when I know most girls just completely leave out the shit they did in the relationship as well. a lot of girls just lie so they can be perceived as the victim in their breakup.

It's a fucked up quote, but it's true for a lot of women. It's from the movie "As Good as It Gets" when a girls asks the writer how he writes women so well. He says, "I think of a man, then I take away 1. Reason and 2. Accountability"

Kinda fucked up but kinda true in many cases lol.

[hellacray]

I wouldn't.

When I did they let me down. Or just want something for themselves.

[Femmefatale97]

That’s ridiculous- this guy with whom we had awesome chemistry ran for the hills because he didn’t trust my intentions. Because I’m good looking and flirty and he though I was playing him. He didn’t trust our connection and ruined it, out of fear. He lost in the end when it could have been something absolutely amazing, something he was craving his whole life. It’s a ridiculous mentality - don’t be afraid to put yourself out there and trust your instincts.

[Floppy2112]

Uh, sounds like you have a high opinion of yourself. I don't care what for what the OP said, but perhaps the guy you were trying to get with saw red flags before he ran for the hills. I am sure I could ask just a few questions and if you answered them honestly, I would see the same red flag. Funny you say he didn't trust your connection, gee I wonder why? What were your expectations and what does he want out of a relationship.
It's weird, a guy would never say, that the reason a woman doesn't want him is because he is too good looking. That requires a heavy dose of arrogance. Maybe that was the red flag, arrogance. That would make me run too. Last thing I need in my life and yet another entitled woman.

[Femmefatale97]

Not entitled at all. I do recognize my value though and act accordingly- because I’ve let too many people walk in me for too long. I am not a door mat either. He is the type of guy that is “never convinced enough” - I don’t have this time to waste. It’s either his way or the highway - talk about arrogance.

[Femmefatale97]

* walk on me

[Floppy2112]

What value do you bring a man, besides sex? A man brings resources and security to the table off the bat, what do you bring?

[Femmefatale97]

Haha if I was so self entitled, I’d say I am the table. But instead, I’ll tell you this- were in 2021, and even though I am younger than him, I make more than him. I own my own business. My sex is amazing. So is my infinite love and care that I have for him, unconditionally. I am willing to blow his mind, be his partner and potential mother of his kids. Oh wait, so ultimately - I am the table.

[Femmefatale97]

* we are in 2021

[Floppy2112]

Sex is good. Men don't care about your education or money. Love and caring is nice, but it's very vague, I am not sure what that means. Would you submit to him? Are you a place of peace? Or do you 'hold your own' argue? I sense you throw off masculine traits. Masculine traits: I own my own business. <- We don't care. It sounds like he would have to get on your page, rather than you get on his.
You say infinite love? That sounds nice, but having been married for 20 years, it take a lot more than love. It take commitment and duty. The infatuation will fade. And the quirks you find cute now, will irritate the living hell out of you 2 years from now.
And it's good that you are pretty, your 23, you are at the best looking you will be in your entire life.
Are you fit, feminine, cooperative and submissive? Do you cook? Do you clean? When you are pregnant how much of the family expenses do you want to be responsible for? If he was to make average money all his life, would you stay? 80% of divorces are filed by women. Mine wasn't, I filed, but she ended it, by hooking up with her high school sweetheart.
I appreciate you are willing to discuss, because I am talking about brass tax. If your just looking to date around and be casual, then go nuts. But if you are looking to the altar, reality has to be taken very seriously.

54% of modern women will never be married and will die alone. And of those, 52% will divorce, of which like I said previously, 80% are instigated by women.

[YouSloppyLady]

HAHAHAHAHAHAH. You call yourself femme fatale, he saw right through your corny ass and flew for the hills, you dolt. Why in the hell would he want someone with your personality type. Nobody does, you nutcase.

[Alyssa11]

False. You’re judging someone based off of their looks. Do you know how many beautiful women haven’t been treated right/are seeing nobody/borderline depressed?

[Asker]

Don't we all judge based off of looks

[Alyssa11]

Not really. Someone’s looks isn’t really telling of how they are in relationships. If you believe that, you’re missing out sometimes.

[Asker]

What if i only trust myself at this point

[Alyssa11]

Then there’s an underlying trust issue u have that goes beyond people’s looks. People disappoint all the time cause we’re humans. Use your good judgment to call out behaviour you don’t want to tolerate and pick and choose wisely

[Asker]

People can act the way they want to. I can't control that and even if i had mind control capabilities, i still wouldn't do that. But because a lot of people have sneaky intentions, i won't ever trust anyone

[YouSloppyLady]

DELUSIONAL

[Floppy2112]

It depends why and your past experience. Pretty much every girl I ever dated, like relationship-wise were pretty. So, I would be flattered, but not second guess a pretty woman's intention if she showed interest in me. All the girls I dated seriously, showed interest in me. Some even asked me out vs. me asking them. And sometimes I screwed up the relationship and sometimes it was them. Now if a female who is attractive and previously hostile to me, suddenly started showing interest, then maybe I would question motive. But I am not going to be suspicious of a lady, who happens to be good looking and interested in me.
The problem these days is finding a woman who isn't incredibly selfish. I was off the market for 20 years and coming back in was a shock to say the least. People have gone nuts, especially in the dating world. And I am just flat, not in a hurry. Something in my brain flipped, where I went from wanting to get with somebody to, tending not to want to put up with the aggravation. I got used to and started to like bachelor life. After being married to satan's daughter, I am content to be at peace for a while.

[VanillaSalt]

Never trust a woman period. Look I’m not saying every woman will screw you but every woman CAN screw you easily without evidence and they will almost certainly not face consequences for it.


Furthermore it seems to me that most women will willingly overlook you for their own needs. You’ll never find a woman if you don’t try but understand... the rate of divorce exceeds 50%. And 80% of divorce is filed by women. Men gain absolutely nothing from marriage they didn’t already get prior to it. Sex is cheap and easy now. Almost no investment necessary. And women see to think traditional roles today are demoralizing for them but required for men.


If your gonna date date but I highly recommend against cohabitation or marriage.

[virtue2332]

False obviously. You should never base your level of trust on someone based on their physical appearance. Just because the x amt of beautiful girls that were into you ma have had character defects doesn't mean the next one will be the same way. You also shouldn't start a relationship being skeptical of their intentions. You can only control your actions and even then the control is not absolute control. There is honor in letting your guard down and not holding back how you feel. If they can't receive it while being respectfull to you then that's on them. It shouldn't change your character.

[oldasIfeel22]

Ahh that’s tricky. Attractive women (especially attractive western women) are given an incredible privilege. Some choose to use it and others choose to abuse it.

There have a been a few blue moon moments in my life when I was hit on by a very attractive woman. I’m not a bad looking guy myself (especially in my 20s). I’m tall and athletic. But I’m realistic that I’m no 28 yr old Brad Pitt or Ryan gosling.

Anyway I got suspicious that she was maliciously using me for something else. The paranoia wasn’t always unwarranted. I have had hot women give me attention for the sole disgusting purpose to make some other guy jealous. There is a special place in hell for women who do that.

However there were 1 or 2 who were genuine. But it was so intimidating I didn’t follow up on it. One is now a famous actress.

[slatyb]

So I am walking in to a wine bar, on my first dress-up date with a woman I have met a couple of times for coffee. There is a woman at the end of the bar with her back to me and I think "wow, she looks great! Shapely legs, trim waist, great hair." Then I start searching the room for my date. Can't find her. Then I realize -- the most beautiful woman in the room? That's my date. We're married now, and she is lovely and as sweet as can be. We never fight.

[Jamie05rhs]

Lol. How did you not know that was her?

[slatyb]

@Jamie05rhs I couldn't see her face at all and hadn't known her all that long.

[Jamie05rhs]

Oh, okay. Gotcha.

[hahahmm]

No. More like... never give anyone something they haven't earned. So you don't give loyalty & trust unless she has shown herself worthy of it. You don't make her your girlfriend unless she has earned it. A lot of guys run into problems because they're in a rush to give, give, give. They act like beggars & then are surprised that they only get crumbs.

[ChiTown33]

I wouldn't be that cut and dried about it. But most definitely if she really beautiful and this hasn't happened to you before. You best keep one hand on your wallet and one to protect your heart. Because there's a 99% probability that she's either going to steal you blind or will stomp on your heart.
Do what ya will man but I just joke around with such women. Because I know I'm just a game to her.

[FlutteringFeelings]

Games can be played by a woman that a man see’s as beautiful or not. There are genuine beautiful women out there who aren’t so invested in their looks and lacks personality. The bad exists in this world as much as the good.

[Asker]

Then hopefully the gods of luck come my way and show the good ones

[supercutebutt]

That's not true but it's also not necessarily false. For example, James "Spider" Marks was just saying that Michael Flynn used to be awesome and trustworthy. Now he is a "dumbass." And that is a direct quote from Mr. Spider. So you may be able to trust a beautiful woman or a military dude in one part of their life but then something malfunctions in their brain that turns them mentally Trumptarded and then you can never trust them ever again. :(

[Somoneelse]

false. "beautiful" is something that's different per person. One can think someone is beautiful when the other thinks someone isn't beautiful.

But I see what you mean. When a populair and extra-hot (someone who is hot, knows that and acts like it) is interested in you. I would get suspicious too.

[Azura_88]

How hypocritical of you. Then you'll reject an average looking or ugly woman for showing interest in you.
Then on the internet you will rant that how 8/10 girls never give average men a chance. Because you're not worth it lol.

[Asker]

I don't complain though. But if a beautiful girl initiates something with an average looking guy or below average looking guy, im going to be suspicious. Especially when you usually don't get any attention from women in general

[BakedBeanieBabie]

If you want a dry weenie and have that low of self-esteem, then I guess not?

[Asker]

Low self esteem can be beneficial sometimes

[BakedBeanieBabie]

... to what?

[Asker]

You maybe have loe self esteem but if a beautiful woman is interested, you're on your guard and have a scope on her watching her actions because it's not everyday a beautiful woman shows interests in you especially when you rarely get anyone interested

[BakedBeanieBabie]

And you self sabotage and come across as insecure, untrusting, and looking at her through the lens of a villain...

If I were that girl I'd back away slowly from you with a no thanks, nevermind, forget I even tried.

[Asker]

Because most girls I've put through a lens, turn out to be villains. And that's fine. It's not hurting me in any way. Im looking out for myself

[BakedBeanieBabie]

That's fine little guy, be protective, but if you demonize every woman in your life you're causing yourself a lot of unnecessary stress and pushing people away. If you're okay with that, cool. I for one prefer to go to therapy over my trust issues. THat's just me.

[Asker]

Good for you

[BakedBeanieBabie]

Thanks mate.

[HiveBee]

Dry weenie lol. I like that.

she's right you know. You can't just treat women like they are baseline evil.

They can feel that. They can feel what you believe. It's only screwing you.

[BakedBeanieBabie]

@HiveBee Yup.

[Asker]

Okay cool

[Grubhub]

For some reason your comment was hot.

[Newhead]

I does sound like a huge risk, I hope she leaves him alone.

[Jaysonava]

Hahaha FALSE!

But there are enough horrible beautiful women to make it seem true. because beauty gives them the power to manipulate!

But the exact same can be said for guys but I have no distrust of attractive men... and they have the power to be worse than women!

So there is truth to it, but it's basically false.

[crazy8000]

General. sure.
To many misuse that to get thing's/benefits without needing to go the whole way. (to use you )

You also have those that are within the quality group.
They are a much smaller group within the population.
They can be trusted to a certain degree.

If I was you I would have the attitude that they have to show they are trustworthy just like many female's do to males.
If she is genuin interested in you for you she will show she is bye her actions.

[jasco]

Well depends. A lot of beautiful women are good people. Just look at her daily life, most women in today's world around my age anyway post a lot about their lives and what they do. Base off of that, you can tell what type of person she is. Of course their is always more to uncover from talking to her but yea

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Trust isn't based on physical looks... It's based on the integrity and character of the person.

[thinkLancer]

Unless that person "looks shady." Lol

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@thinkLancer. 😂 haha but even then not all shady people "look" shady...

[Blueeyes81]

If you enjoy self sabotaging yourself around ever corner, then sure why not.

Never trust an insecure man. True or false?

You gotta love people projecting their insecurities onto others.

[frostwalrus]

True. There is an ulterior motive when an attractive woman displays any interest in you - unless you yourself are also attractive.

[Everglow5]

False, if a woman is beautiful, does that mean she has to make herself ugly in order to be trustworthy? Appearances mean nothing.

[michael45]

The thing is... beautiful women usually don’t approach first. So if she does, some men will question her motives. It sucks but yeah it’s a thing.

[Asker]

@michael45 That's exactly it man

[Aethereal]

False. If I had believed that concept, I wouldn't have a girlfriend today. It all depends on her personality. Besides, believing this concept implies that you don't think beautiful women should be attracted to you. Acknowledge your awesomeness!