The same question in the reverse way, can you trust a man who says he wants an honest woman?
Minds can be dangerous, unpredictable, you can say something, but you can contradict yourself afterwards.
We say we want to hang out with a honest person, but uncounsciously we can find attratcive and appealing someone who is either a bitch or a bastard. Why?, because we can be too romantic and insecure.
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Honesty can be loyalty and faith and general trustworthiness in a partner. It doesn't mean if she asks "do i look fat", you bluntly tell her she does. There has to be a milder way of saying it, and I think it's not her problem if you're not familiar with that.
Women only want honesty when your honest opinion follows the script in their heads. If you think anything other than what they want you to think, honesty is the last thing they want. In other words, always tell them what they want to hear.
Whoever said honesty was the best policy was either lying or a damn fool.
Honesty is appreciated no matter what. If she wants a man to always lie to her, leave her be, because she doesn't know any better.
Honesty can hurt and Honesty can reveal doubts within ourselves. The question is, are you able to be honest at all times?
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She wants a man whose honesty won’t piss her off.
No they want honesty. They don’t often know how to handle it when they receive it. Bad past relationships can really screw a person up when they find someone good for them. (That is if the person truly is good and not just painting a scenario. That would be a different response)
Well what are you being honest about is the question? If you tell her that the dress she is wearing makes her look fat, sure, it might be honest, but it also makes you look like a prick. When we say we want honestly, we mean we want open communication. For example, being honest about what we like and dislike about a relationship. Not hiding secrets like wanting to see other people or playing games.
If your mom dies you want to know. You don't want someone to lie to you because the truth hurts. You're also not going to be happy when they tell you. But you'll ultimately prefer knowing the truth than not knowing
Same conceptI take a mental note of her statement and see if practices what she's asking for.
I bring it up to highlight in a future conversation. But I have to agree, if it stings, they recoil with the quickness.Yes true but also there is a way to communicate in a way where it won’t be hurtful/offensive. There’s ways to be honest but in a kind way
There's such a thing as being honest without being a dick about it.
"I think that dress is not flattering for your figure."
Vs
"That dress makes you look like a fucking dog turd you sick bitch!"
See?You may be on to something. I really don't know. I hope that does not describe me when I'm older.
Don't use honesty as a way to put your partner down. But be overall honest.
Well there is a difference between being honest and being a prick, it all about the way you say it.
Yes but truth hurts and some women handle emotional pain very badly
Honesty and being smart are two different things you can be smart and honest. Pure honesty can be cruel
trust and respect are earned it has to grow together
Everyone wants perfect perfect but never want to change themself
Well how many women are truly honest? Hypocrites women can be
a lot of y'all need therapy on this app lol
Women are a fuckin mystery...
Not really no. It's a platitude.
Being honest doesn't mean being an asshole
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