If a girl is shy does she still want you to come up and talk to her if she likes that guy?

[Cosmoseinfled]

[daninewbie]

Yea, definitely. I’m shy and it always a relief if the guy I like talked to me first. It takes away the whole building up the courage thing. Plus, it kind of confirms that you like her back. Most shy people don’t really talk first because they’re not sure if the person likes them or not. If you walk up and talk to her first, it’s a relief for them.
Also, if you like her back, try not to confuse her and never give her a reason to doubt you. I like this guy and he told me that he liked me, but at the time, he liked my friend too, plus he’s kind of a jokester and does a lot of dares to others as well. Obviously, this gave me a reason to doubt him and I didn’t believe him, another reason was my insecurity, which I think is also common in shy people, but I might be wrong.
Anyways, I’m pretty sure she’ll like it if you talk to her first and don’t confuse her if you like her back. Good luck!

[Vikkrram]

This same is happening with me... see i have got some hints but i am not sure of that... Is she giving me hints and she is younger than me... and plus we both are shy kinda... so it's an added pressure...

Sometimes it feels to me that she likes me but... sometimes i think she doesn't give a damn about me...

See it has been said that eyes are window to the soul... and i have seen her eyes... and she has seen mine too...

But i got to be confirmed before making any move... but we barely get the chance to meet... so it is making me difficult... to take any step...

[Vikkrram]

Maybe... i made any move... and she got offended that why the hell will i go up with older guy? And we live in a same apartment..., Society so... it's hard for me to start any conversation...

[tupacs_only_wife]

Yeah. That's exactly what she's waiting for

[Jazquee]

I would say yes... I have never been a shy... or quiet person. Lol

But I would think, if you are saying she is showing interest.. that she would like if you talked to her she probably not confident enough to instigate conversation. I would have to know story to give you best thoughts

[somesoul]

Yes.. very sweet. Marraige Material. Which actress do I look like and how do I look? ↗

[Andres77]

Could I dm you?

[aWes0MeNeSs]

As someone who tends to be shy, I would say yes. Most shy people are just afraid of approaching anyone in fear that they are bothering or annoying them, or that they will say something stupid or come across as odd.

[savage_barbarian]

hell no just go up him and say hello just be nice body language ladylike touches hold his hand, I've passed up so many questionable relationships cause I thought she was out of my league just to pretty to be with someone like me but turns out there's a lot of women that like big men like me... i always wait for a lady to make the 1st move

[Seinna]

Yes, but tread carefully and don't overstimulate her.

I used to be extremely shy... now when I'm approaching shy people I imagine I'm trying to tame a shy critter like a hamster lol

[MinTae]

Yes! As someone who's a bit of a shy person, I really like it if a guy makes effort to talk to me/us. Because we're too timid to make the first move and talk to the guy we like first. Shy people tend to look for confirmation if someone is feeling the same thing. So, I would say go for it! Have confidence when you talk to her, she might be shy at first, but after a while, she will start to feel comfortable enough to be herself, and then she won't be as shy anymore.

[Vikkrram]

I wanna know your whole story if you don't mind telling here... coz i am going through a similar phase...
Let's try to help each other... if we can...

[Newmar612]

Yes... although if she is too shy try and do it when you are alone or in a private space. However, make sure it’s not too intense and try to make her laugh even if it’s baby steps it will help to create a bond that will help lower her guard or enjoy you as a person.

[AdithyaR]

She probably does want you to.
Personally I wouldn't, I'd wait for her to come up to me, just to be sure that she does like me cause I'd be mostly oblivious to the signs.

[Anonymous]

Even if she is shy she will still give you signs if she is interested. So if you feel she is comfortable with you around then the answer is YES!

[Sweetpea1970]

Yes I'm shy and quite till I get comfy around my surroundings

[wildbutterfly17]

Yes, for sure! If she's shy and won't go up to guys how else is she going to meet them?

[Tiptoetamm]

Yes definitely I would

[Question_091]

*Daniel Bryant chants*
Yes, yes, yes!!

[DailyConfusion]

🤷🏽‍♂️ I don’t know 🤷🏽‍♂️

[Iron_Man]

Honestly who knows what they’re thinking

[Shihab91]

a girl and shy? you must be dreaming

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

look at her body language

[Moimaris]

Yes definitely

[Blackcupcake]

Yeah