I saw a girl today staring at me directly at me what should I do?

[lonewolf2233]

First of all the girl that was staring also smiled and I broke eye contact it was creepy as heck. I know a lot of you guys are going to butcher me for this but I also wanted to add I have insecurities of being around girls because when I was 14 a girl told me she would rather die than be with me in front of my whole class/friends. I also was rejected every time I asked out a girl 1.5 years ago so since then I've stayed away from younger girls as I connect more with men or women who are more mature but I ain't gay. And just recently I've been seeing girls talking a lot with me its probably nothing but I wanted to make sure and instead of the usual disgust face or straight up avoid me they've been smiling at me I just want to be left alone and I don't want to talk with anybody I'm more of an introvert and don't have any friends. Now go ahead and butcher me in the comments section.

[Anonymous]

It was rather a tough experience that you had. I guess you attract her. Just so let you know, there are younger girls who are very mature because of their backgrounds and experiences , plus, they will not reject a man and leave him feel unworthy and embarrassed. Personally speaking, I am an introvert as well, and I try to act like an emotionless mute when boys smile or stare at me. I later find that it is not helpful to deliberately close the door which may lead to new personal connection since it doesn’t need to be about romance at all. By talking and connecting with others, I can learn from others regarding a variety of things. Just a tiny recommendation for you: to step out of your comfort zone. You will feel different.

[lonewolf2233]

Yea I'm pretty confused on how to tell girls behaviors and I've had too many bad encounters that I'm afraid or too bothered to talk to a girl. I don't want to be rejected or be called something theirs just too much risk if I even went ahead and came into a friendship that a girl would take advantage of me and use me for her own so I just don't want to be bothered. I appreciate your advice though and I did try forming many friendships when I was younger in HS they all looked at me weird the girls so ye nowdays I don't want to talk to girls and many of the guys working with me also have started to say the same thing.

[Opinion Owner]

I know this will sound bad but be friend with books. (My mother told me this when I was young, and it helped me significantly) Not being liked by others is fine as long as you accept yourself inwardly. I don’t know you well enough, but I believe you have a special trait and skill. Polish those and when you excel, people, including girls;), will come to you. good luck to you.

[Anonymous]

Masturbate

[lonewolf2233]

I'm trying to get rid of masturbation for the moment.

[lonewolf2233]

But I see what you mean 😆