She wants to be friends after the first date? What should I do? (Page 2)
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If she already sent u a message like that then what happened is happened. Dont beg her to "give you another chance" sometimes u just have 1 bullet to take the risk and shoot the target, if you miss it then its gone. I say move on, if u really want to know the reason just ask it but it seems she couldnt get the energy she was looking for.
>we should just be friends
Translation
>I have no desire to fuck you because you're too passive
Your solution is to lose her number and try again with a different girl and not do what you were doing with this one, kiss on the forehead? Fuck out of here with that go for the lips.
Just say “thanks but I’m not interested in being friends, if you change your mind feel free to hit me up. I wish you the best.” And do not contact her anymore
….. sigh……it means that the feelings are unfortunately not mutual. And I’m sorry you’re going through this. Just reply to her “I was actually going to suggest the same thing!” That’ll throw her for a fucking loop lmao.
"I'm all good on friends. Best of luck out there"
Then leave it. You don't wanna be friends. She doesn't really either other than a niceness to you if that's what you want. Easy situation to part on good terms.
Consider what type of life you want to live. Act in a way you can be proud regardless of what it means for the outcome
Tell her stright up you are not looking for a friend and that you like her as a woman.
If that doesn't work...
Walk away and have nothing more to do with her. The friendzone is a dead end.
The best thing you can do is just respect what she is telling you. I know it may suck because the date and everything seemed like it was going exactly how we wanted to until we get hit with the your a great guy in all. The best thing to do is give her that space and if she changes her mind she knows we’re to find you
Pretty much what everyone else said. “Friends” doesn’t mean much in your 30’s unless you happen to have a lot of hobbies and stuff in common. Nothing will ever come of it and you’ll probably end up watching her get married to another guy.
If after the first date, she asks to just stay friends. That is her saying that she still wants to hang out but she realized that she doesn't like you in that way. Maybe it was a curiosity thing. Only she knows. If you still want to have her in your life don't burn your bridges by getting upset or getting upset she didn't wanna pursue that kind of a relationship.
Just say you're not interested and move on. She might be testing you.
The forehead kiss might have given the wrong impression... she probs didn’t wanna be ‘just friends’ but feels that you do so she wants to avoid you friendzoning her, so she friendzoned you
say ull b friends but next time u see her make a real move
Classic tactic by women, she's reserved you as a backup simp, this is a very common tactic women use.
Why would you kiss for head at first date? I mean she's woman she has pussy we have dick we suppose to have sex with them not kissing their forehead. Lips All the way. I assume you're good guy with no much of experiences which not that bad however I think it's time to take the red pill take a look on that link
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If you want a relationship, there's more harm in ''rushing'' than good.
Stay on the slow lane and let things unfold.
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Just tell her how you actually feel. If the feeing isn’t reciprocated then move on. Remember there are other fish in the sea.
Haha
It means she isn’t sexually attracted to you for whatever reason. Move on.
Who paid for the date? Anyway tell her clearly that you're uninterested in being friends and you'd like a sexual relationship. If not then move on.
So she isn't interested in you as a romantic interest. While you don't have interest to be a friend.
Just tell her you aren't comfortable with that and move on.
Just dump her and move on. In the same manner she doesn't have to be in a relationship with you if she doesn't want to, you don't have to be just friends with her if you don't want to
Oh yeah and if course the forehead kiss was bad, don't do that again
Just tell her ok and go about your buissiness. She doesn't feel the same so please don't drag it out since you only seen her once.