I think it's okay... as long as you don't do it because else you would feel insecure, than it's a problem. And if you would flirt with others while in a relationship to get attention, that would be bad too
For me, I would differentiate between those who put on an act from those who are legitimately hurting. Some people who put on an act do so to be able to put others down or lead them on. They are scum. If a person is hurting, and needs to not be alone, that's completely different.
I am talking about extremes only, a little amount of attention seeking ain't doing no harm but sometimes people go to extreme lengths for that purpose which is absolutely ridiculous.
I lose intrest when thats all a girl seems to want. I'm looking for wife/mother material not another OnlyFans girl who's too busy trying to get guys to pay to get a hard on. >.> Its like seriously just use PH its free. OwO.
Jealous? hell no, if you think validation makes you special or feel good your are a diluted and delusional. Chances are people are just walking on egg shells around you cause they know you have a fragile ASF ego. That probably is on the edge of shattering every second. Any real man knows better than to waste time on a girl who's only quality is validation beggng.
There's a reason Only Fans girls can't find a guy to date muchless marry. It is a perfect picture of how money doesn't buy happiness. Why bother with a woman values themselves so little that they are selling themselves for 5$ lmfao. Talk about selling ones self cheaply XD.
It’s people being jealous that you’re getting attention and not paying attention to them. Just roll your eyes at those comments and continue being fabulous.
Oh absolutely true, nobody should need approval to feel good about themselves, or base their mental health on that, because it can turn unhealthy very quickly. Not needing it but enjoying it when it comes your way
I don't think enjoying attention is bad Miss, but seeking validation from others shows you are not confident in yourself, that should not be the case. You should be confident about yourself and then if you like others attention then that's ok.
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Pretty much everyone likes attention and validation, but when someone makes it so obvious that it's what they are trying to get, it is off putting and makes people lose respect for them. It is particularly bad when a woman uses her sexuality to try to get attention. That is toxic femininity. It's the female equivalent of a guy acting like a macho tough guy.
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It sounds narcissistic and needs therapy to fix it.
I would not care, if those people would keep themselves to one topic and only people, who interested in such thing go there, but when I login here some times I see only those 'questions' all over... I'm not here to increase someones self-worth, it is a job for therapist...
You certainly believe such pointless vanity and search for validation without provisioning to be pathetic in men. It's a sentiment immortalized in the deriding expression "he just knows he's so hot!", when ever the average lady see's a man she desires but believes she can't get, and worst, that other women can't help but validate him. (all regardless if it's true or not. His actual mindset is irrelevant.)
Not that it's wrong to feel good when you get a attention but if you're actively seeking attention and validation you have either serious insecurity issues or are a narcissist.
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Because those men are below average human beings in every aspect that don't ever get a chance with pretty and nice girls so they gotta release their anger someway
Sometimes it can be good but if you build your world around what people say you are without knowing what you are really worth (which only God can reveal), they can mar or break you when they want to.
No , provided it is not at the expense of others. I am quite the opposite , and dislike attention , attention seekers would not like me , as I would coldly ignore them , I neither seek , nor give any validation.
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I think it's okay... as long as you don't do it because else you would feel insecure, than it's a problem. And if you would flirt with others while in a relationship to get attention, that would be bad too
Of course, I agree 100%
For me, I would differentiate between those who put on an act from those who are legitimately hurting. Some people who put on an act do so to be able to put others down or lead them on. They are scum. If a person is hurting, and needs to not be alone, that's completely different.
in my opinion living for other or doing stuff just for other's appreciation is indeed bad, not for anyone else but for that person itself.
I am talking about extremes only, a little amount of attention seeking ain't doing no harm but sometimes people go to extreme lengths for that purpose which is absolutely ridiculous.
No, as long as you don't rely on it and have low self esteem without it.
Most of your value should come from how you feel within yourself.
I lose intrest when thats all a girl seems to want. I'm looking for wife/mother material not another OnlyFans girl who's too busy trying to get guys to pay to get a hard on. >.> Its like seriously just use PH its free. OwO.
Jealous much?
Jealous? hell no, if you think validation makes you special or feel good your are a diluted and delusional. Chances are people are just walking on egg shells around you cause they know you have a fragile ASF ego. That probably is on the edge of shattering every second. Any real man knows better than to waste time on a girl who's only quality is validation beggng.
There's a reason Only Fans girls can't find a guy to date muchless marry. It is a perfect picture of how money doesn't buy happiness. Why bother with a woman values themselves so little that they are selling themselves for 5$ lmfao. Talk about selling ones self cheaply XD.
Yep. Jealous.
@Hallo626262 wow. Wishing rape. Reported
@RedRoses1995 i mean I thought you need the attention
It’s people being jealous that you’re getting attention and not paying attention to them. Just roll your eyes at those comments and continue being fabulous.
it's not wrong or bad at all dear.
women are beautiful and they need to remember that every now and then. 🌹
Anyone who says they don’t enjoy attention or validation is lying. Even when in a relationship, receiving attention is still flattering and enjoyable
Yeah but its also like slavery. It has been one of my goals in life to be free of seeking approval
Oh absolutely true, nobody should need approval to feel good about themselves, or base their mental health on that, because it can turn unhealthy very quickly. Not needing it but enjoying it when it comes your way
I don't think enjoying attention is bad Miss, but seeking validation from others shows you are not confident in yourself, that should not be the case.
You should be confident about yourself and then if you like others attention then that's ok.
Pretty much everyone likes attention and validation, but when someone makes it so obvious that it's what they are trying to get, it is off putting and makes people lose respect for them. It is particularly bad when a woman uses her sexuality to try to get attention. That is toxic femininity. It's the female equivalent of a guy acting like a macho tough guy.
It sounds narcissistic and needs therapy to fix it.
I would not care, if those people would keep themselves to one topic and only people, who interested in such thing go there, but when I login here some times I see only those 'questions' all over... I'm not here to increase someones self-worth, it is a job for therapist...
We all do it at some point ( yes including guys ) but it's quite immature and likely linked to low self esteem so not great
It's such a bad thing. By men of women.
You certainly believe such pointless vanity and search for validation without provisioning to be pathetic in men.
It's a sentiment immortalized in the deriding expression "he just knows he's so hot!", when ever the average lady see's a man she desires but believes she can't get, and worst, that other women can't help but validate him.
(all regardless if it's true or not. His actual mindset is irrelevant.)
Not that it's wrong to feel good when you get a attention but if you're actively seeking attention and validation you have either serious insecurity issues or are a narcissist.
Because those men are below average human beings in every aspect that don't ever get a chance with pretty and nice girls so they gotta release their anger someway
Get raped
Sometimes it can be good but if you build your world around what people say you are without knowing what you are really worth (which only God can reveal), they can mar or break you when they want to.
Without attention many women would simply cease to be.
There would be the most monumental ego crisis!
I can’t think of a reason for it to not be okay to enjoy it. That’s not the same as obsessively seeking it out.
No , provided it is not at the expense of others. I am quite the opposite , and dislike attention , attention seekers would not like me , as I would coldly ignore them , I neither seek , nor give any validation.
No but do it in a proper way If you got it you don’t need to dress slutty the men will still look at you if your Pretty