Girl i've never talked to seems to try to get my attention then seems mad at me?

[Anonymous]

There is a woman I see at the gym everyday. I used to give her eye contact and a smile all the time as I used to think about asking her out. I guess I was being flirty in a way. She seemed responsive to it and it appeared she may have liked it at first. Over time I found out she is married and has a child. It was also obvious some months ago she was pregnant. I've stopped trying to "be flirty" with her because of it over the last couple months. Yet recently last week she seemed to always be looking at me in the distance in a cute way. If I walked by her she would avoid eye contact with me and look away but with a smile on her face. Now this week. She seems mad at me when I walk by her and won't look at me and even puts her head down to avoid looking at me and with an upset or negative/neutral look on her face. Just out of no where this week. Why would a married woman with children act like this suddenly after like a year of this and suddenly she acts like this? I don't even feel like I've done anything wrong. I'm okay with her not wanting a relationship with me obviously, but why does she seem like she has to hate me now?

[Anonymous]

I’m in a very similar situation with a man right now.. I think she’s attracted to you but doesn’t know how you feel about her. She wants it to go somewhere but is frustrated that it hasn’t and possibly can’t, hence why she seems angry. in my opinion you should make a move to find out.

Or she just liked the ego boost lol.

[Asker]

I mean she’s married and has a kid and they live a good life I don't know how that could be

[Opinion Owner]

As am I and I’d be literally unable to control myself given the opportunity with this other man. :) If the meeting at the gym part of your story is made up you gotta private message me like 12 hours ago.

I suppose she could be trying to distance herself in order to stop whatever feelings she has after you changed your vibe?

[Asker]

Private message you 12 hours ago?

[Anonymous]

Her husband found out lol

[Opinion Owner]

she's mad you arnt trying for her attention anymore
And or
You took too long to speak to her maybe?

[Asker]

If she's mad at me for not speaking to her, why would it matter anyway? She's married with a child. I just don't want her to hate me it wasn't my intention

[Asker]

Keep in mind i've never really spoken one word to her

[Opinion Owner]

We can never really say what's wrong with her unless you ask

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe she had a crush on you. I'd be pissed too if the guy I liked... who also liked me didn't make a move

[Opinion Owner]

She could be waiting on ya

[Asker]

Do I need to refresh myself on the meaning of marriage these days? Since when are you supposed to interfere with that?

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly. So I don't know why you're so concerned I mean you should brush it off and take it as a compliment?

[Asker]

You think her suddenly looking upset with me or avoiding me in a sense means she probably liked me is that what you're saying

[Opinion Owner]

That's what I think and that's what I'm saying

[Asker]

Well I'm a dude we're supposed to be dumb haha by the way how do you think the husband would have found out? I have a hard time believing she would have ever talked about me to him since I don't know how she would have even known my name

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe he stalks her and watches her I don't know