Crush completely ruined by his attitude?

[Anonymous]

I had the biggest crush on my co worker. But after he was a jerk towards me (twice) Those feelings went away completely. Now, I avoid him and can be more cold towards him. Which has made him change his attitude to being sweet again. But I take no part in this. Was I in the right for changing my attitude towards him?

[daisy_jones]

Absolutely! There is that thing when you like someone's personality, they become like 10x hotter. It works in the opposite way too. I don't care how handsome you are, if you're an ass, you're an ass and nothing can change that.

[Siren777]

Best to avoid the jerk before getting screwed over for the third time. Ignore him besides you don't want this to lead to some type of trouble in the workplace.

[FilmGuy93]

Regardless of whether you were right, you feel whatever you feel. I personally agree with you. I think it's important to have boundaries with people, especially when you like them.

[PrettyPriya]

If he is treating you like that, why be kind to him? You don't have to be actively mean or rude, but just rather ignore him. Be the bigger person.

[Wise4myage]

He runs hot and cold, and who needs that?