I told her I have feelings for her and everything went wrong I don't know why?

[RASPA13]

It's been three weeks since I started texting this girl on Tinder 24 hours! We've met up three times, had sex, and she even gave me her number. She told me it was the best experience ever and that she really enjoyed it. However, the next day, I told her I was starting to develop feelings for her. and she replied that she doesn't want something serious because of my nationality and religion but she said its not about her principle I thought everything was going well since we seemed to match, but suddenly she told me to stop texting her and that she's not interested. I just expressed my feelings!! there's nothing wrong with that, right? it's just really hurts

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Correction : she said it's all about her principle nothing much, However I'm not religious!

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But she knows. That really hurts me because I expressed my feelings and I showed her how much I could love her! Also, it's weird she didn't even block me after that. Is she going to regret what she said? I don't understand... I was so nice to her I really took care of her when she was in my place I don't get it!

[RiseofArtemis]

What did you expect if she lets you hit it within 3 weeks? Nothing good comes from it and especialy not Tinder. Besides that, women need a long time to develop feelings for a person, it takes them months. She was atracted to you which means Lust. Love and Lust are not the same. You fell into the classic mistake.

[Jvenomous]

You have to understand that women can want a relationship with no strings attached just like dudes and tbh if you are looking for an actual relationship get off tinder... it is known as the hook up app so you can't blame her for using it the way everyone else does. Sorry you are hurt but use this experience and learn from it because that was also pretty sudden to spring those feelings on someone.

[LadyKitty]

It sounds like she wasn't looking for anything serious and came up with an excuse.

[RASPA13]

But she knows. That really hurts me because I expressed my feelings and I showed her how much I could love her! Also, it's weird she didn't even block me after that. Is she going to regret what she said? I don't understand...

[LadyKitty]

She is playing mind games, and is probably enjoying the reaction. Best to move on from a woman like that.

[LadyKitty]

But three weeks might be a bit fast.

[Anonymous]

She's was only looking for no strings attachments. She doesn't want any serious relationships. She probably was in a relationship in the past that it didn't work out. No Debates!, move on!

[lorenzomichael]

She is looking for a booty Call brother not a relationship. You can’t hate her though.

[RossyBoi]

Sounds like she just wanted to use you for a quick bang. Should have waited until marriage to see if she was serious.