Does she want my man?

[Anonymous]

My friend talks about my boyfriend more than I do. She always nosey about what we do. She asked where he stayed. She recently added him on Instagram out the blue. She has a boyfriend and told him he should be a firefighter like mine...

[Anonymous]

My mother always told me to never bring my man around my friends. I never understood until I had to experience a terrible situation first hand and since then, it’s once in a blue moon that I bring my new guy around friends and I do NOT talk about him to them. Some Women are shady af. Your best friend could be completely uninterested in your man until you’re doing shit like listing his qualities, the nice things he does for you, how great he is, etc. Then suddenly he’s attractive to her! lol bc who doesn’t want a man who’s going to treat them like a princess? Of course this is not always the case, she could be completely uninterested in him and maybe just trying to be friendly towards him. But she’s getting a bit too cozy for comfort. I don’t think you could make any drastic moves about this without starting an issue between you and her, like asking her to delete him or whatever. Just keep an eye out.

[Asker]

I just have this weird gut feeling and everybody's saying the same thing that she does like him.

[Opinion Owner]

Your intuition could be right! Just a quick little bit of info tho, I don't know who “everyone” entails, like how many people you’ve told, but honestly I wouldn’t share any more about that thought. Don’t take that the wrong way, it’s just that telling other people creates like a messy/boogeyman situation and there’s no way to know if she’s even into him. If word somehow got back to her about your feelings, it will create unnecessary drama between you and her, then make you look bad when you shouldn’t have to at all.

[Asker]

I know, I only told my mom, aunt and brother. They don't be around her but it's just a feeling. Hopefully that's not the case. We barely talk anymore, unless she brings my boyfriend up and that's about it.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh okay, that’s fine then. I wasn’t sure if everyone like included friends and stuff, I was like nooo people are messy! Lol but yeah, let’s hope what I’m thinking is not the case, it would suck a lot if it were..

[CantGetItUp]

That’s awesome I wish I was your boyfriend cause I would definitely bang your friend

[Danny_dan92]

Sounds like it

[Asker]

It does

[Danny_dan92]

What are you gonna do about it?

[Asker]

Tell him to tell me if she does something

[Danny_dan92]

Good girl, that’s smart

[jasco]

More than likely yea

[Asker]

I know it