Does a girl crying turn you on or off?

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SteveSmith1985 · Accepted Answer

That depends COMPLETELY on the context. 99% of the time... like regular life. A girl crying is definitely a "turn off" insofar as it triggers a protection instinct, so sex is gonna be far from my mind.

The only time it's a turn on is... when she's crying because you've decided as consenting adults that you are going to engage in certain sexual activities which... er... well...

But like... in life, generally, I would think most guys are not going to be turned on by a girl crying. Be really careful around any who are...

Shizunk · Accepted Answer

That depends on why. When it is because she opened up and we got to some deep vulnerable stuff she rarely even talks about with people, it is a sign of trust and it's great.
If instead it's overreacting or manipulation, that's a huge turnoff. There is lot in between that could fall in either category or even a bit of both.

fonduegirl · Accepted Answer

Is the asker high by any chance? Why would a person crying turn anyone off or on? It isn't pole dancing, thong, abs or wet t-shirt contest for fuck's sake.  Sympathy is the most appropriate response.

Subarugirl · Accepted Answer

For some reason my husband gets aroused when I cry.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on the situation. If she is crying because she it has something to do with her having feelings for me then I find that endearing. However I once was on a second date (and I hooked the girl on the 1st) and she inexplicably started crying when we walked home. It turns out we walked next to her ex fiancé’s place. She told me he cheated on her while they were engaged. For a split second I felt some sympathy UNTIL she asked me “can we just be friends”. THEN i was pissed and lost all sympathy for her.

Ean1221 · Answer

Of course there's a line for everything , if anyone cries man or woman for a seemingly genuine reason then its just a matter of someone is compassionate or not. I dont have any issue with people venting or being real , in fact i take it as a compliment of comfort

bolverk · Answer

I have four younger sisters, I have become virtually immune to any female turning on the waterworks, after a while you learn to pick up when the energy matches the actions. If I pick up the tear are genuine then there'll be support.
I can honestly say that a girl crying is nether a turn on or off.

Mangospacho · Answer

I’m always paranoid when a girl starts crying because everyone looks over at me while I’m not crying assuming I am the one who made her cry.

Jackblue · Answer

A lot of guys see such women as vulnerable and thus get turned on in a not so good way.

crmoore · Answer

I have always had a soft spot for girls crying. It makes me want to console them and make them feel better. And I know it may seem weird but I actually think girls are extra pretty when they're crying. Not only physically, like tears sparkle and human brains like shiny things, but I find the emotional aspect of it to be very attractive and endearing.

ArchivalMars2 · Answer

Honestly neither, it just makes me think that she has issues (that could be anything from personal to professional or anything else) and makes me think they need space or just friends and I just leave them alone.

Nik1hil · Answer

Serious cry is a turn off.. Due to emotional pain..  Cry due to sexual pain that's a little... Is not a turn off.

Anonymous · Answer

It used to. Because women use it as weapon to get what they want. 90% of the time she's just trying crocodile tears. You get burned enough by women over this you learn it's part of their game.
A women crying doesn't even phase me anymore. She can flood the earth with her tears I won't feel anything anymore.

ritxi · Answer

None of them. It depends on the context. If I notice she's suffering from something she doesn't deserv, it's normal she cries. But if she cries for making someone being sorrow of her, she's a blackmailer, nothing else we need to saw.

Lliam · Answer

Turn on or off implies sexuality. I certainly don't get turned on by a girl crying. It makes me feel bad. I guess I just want to hold her and comfort her.

Mofunfour20 · Answer

Lmao, HUGE TURNOFF.  MY REACTION : "im gonna go for a walk while you cry it out, we can talk about it when you calm down if you want"

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Neither, but a girl who cries over trivial things, things that make no sense, or is inconsolable, is a turn off. Not because of crying, but because thats nuts. Crying for legit reasons is normal.

KasonBader · Answer

I don't know I haven't seen a girl cry but I think I'll be turned off because I want everybody to be happy I don't want people to feel sad or as depressed I feel everyday for the rest of their lives.

Highcountry · Answer

It does not go into the sexual categories. It breaks my heart to see a woman in pain.

Anonymous · Answer

For my fiance my crying means nothing And its fucking sad

Exterminatore · Answer

Depends which girl is crying. If it’s some neo hippie left wing commie crying…. it’s hot. I get off to that. If it’s anyone else it either saddens me or I’m indifferent to it.

Jayplays900 · Answer

Well, it's not a turn-on, but it's not going to turn me off. I'd be worried and try to help her out, but it's not going to make me feel horny.

Crying has no effect upon horniness unless your a sadist or a masochist.

molonski2 · Answer

Massive turn off , circumstance dependent , if just for some minor reason its a joke.

andy530 · Answer

It depends on the circumstances. Under certain circumstances it can be a turn on

pickedcrisps · Answer

It makes me feel very uncomfortable and slightly annoyed. And hurt.

t-8900 · Answer

As in crying when she climaxes? Getting an emotional release? Or she just cries a lot?

Titanic1912 · Answer

It’s not a turn on but it’s not a turn off. If I ever saw a girl crying, I’d go over to her and try to make her feel better.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

No. It would if it happens a lot though. Especially for things that don’t even make sense for her to cry over

TheAfrikan · Answer

It depends on why she is crying lol, buy it better be in bed at least.

David_Bayer · Answer

It doesn't do either. My brain just sort of says *protecc

Anonymous · Answer

Not so much a turn off, but i don't like it because I never know what to do

Anonymous · Answer

Love those tears of unfathomable sadness

es20490446e · Answer

If other human crying turns you on, better to visit the psychologist.

Jay3344 · Answer

Turn on? No, maybe if I was comforting her for a few hours or whatever the intimacy of it could stir up sexual thoughts but crying is not a turn on.

Jintendo18 · Answer

Definitely not a turn on. Rather it pissed me off whenever I feel it isn’t genuine and is being used as a form of manipulation.

54Will · Answer

Neither. It drives me to do what it takes to make her happy or safe or what ever.  I KNOW that it's stupid and makes me easily manipulated by It's total instinct and I just jump in and help.

BobbyC65 · Answer

Seeing anyone cry would upset me and get me crying.

Dan_cColt · Answer

Huge turn off.. why would it turn me off to see someone cry wtf..

Uglyphuck · Answer

Neither... it might be a turn on for wife beaters or abusive boyfriends

Hairylegs222 · Answer

Off. It's annoying when towards something unimportant. When important then I want to comfort her.

ChiPaPa · Answer

Neither. I try to help her unless she's crying about infidelity or some other bullshit against me

Andres77 · Answer

It shuts down anything sexual because something else is going on that needs to be dealt with.

Manchild2018 · Answer

Definitely not a turn on but maybe a chance to get close to her by comforting her.

TimelessWonderer · Answer

Not personally it makes me feel the need to console and find out how I can help her not sleep with her.

EnglishEuropean · Answer

Turn off, I would assume she's not in the mood. You can't even pat them on the shoulder now because Harvey Weinstein. #metoo

crazy8000 · Answer

Sexually off. Does it turn you on if a guy cries?

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

That would be pretty evil if you're turned on by someone's sorrow and pain

EssenceOfLight · Answer

Off. I think she is crazy or tries to manipulate people around her.

Tomsta · Answer

Neither. Kinda makes what to go to another room, im barely equipped to deal with my own emotions boiling over

Honestguyopen · Answer

Neither. It makes me want to comfort her and fix whatever is making her cry.

Yourfriend2021 · Answer

If there's a reason, then it's normal, but not an overly emotional girl that cries for no reason.

Shadox777 · Answer

It would be neither. I would just feel bad for them and try to help them, depending on the circumstances of course.

Guanfei · Answer

Nope. All it does is turn on my overprotective mode, and I then have to help her.

anylolone · Answer

Nope, much to the contrary, it turns me off and sends me into "help mode".

BillyBalls · Answer

Turn on as in sexually? No. Evokes empathy? Sometimes.

tomtom05131 · Answer

I have no issue with it and yes in the right instance it’s kinda hot. Like during sex

Postman38 · Answer

Turns me off generally. Makes me think something is drastically wrong. But if I know it's for a sexual purpose, reason, or role playing then why not.

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't say it's a turn off exactly, but it's certainly awkward and not a turn on in any way.

Anonymous · Answer

Definitely not a turn on. Her moaning in pleasure is a turn on. Crying--not so much.

tripptt69 · Answer

Crying and horny don't have a cause and effect for me

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

Really hope nobody gets turned on by that

jshm2 · Answer

Depends on the reasons, but it's not pretty.

Ailito · Answer

Crying pisses me off. Anyone any age. Even myself.

20yearsolder · Answer

Definitely turns me off

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