How do you feel when your girlfriend cries?

[Anonymous]

I'm always afraid to talk about some personal things with my boyfriend because I'm afraid if I cry, he'll think I'm weird or he'll get really awkward or something. I really want to be more open with him, but I don't know what to do. I don't usually cry in front of people so I was wondering how guys feel when their girlfriends cry

Sad, I want to comfort her and be there for her

Awkward, I don't really know what to say

Annoyed, crying makes her seem immature

Other (explain)

[RedStiletto]

I am a female, but I will take a shot at this anyway.

Men HATE when we cry because they are fixers by nature. When we cry to them about things out of their control they feel helpless to make us feel better. Its not that they don't care.it is sometimes that they care a whole lot and there's nothing they can do.

Also.some men don't like to see a woman cry because they wander when it will stop, and all of us girls are guilty of letting the waterworks flow once they have begun!

Be as open as you are comfortable with, and if you cry, just cry. If he seems uncomfortable, 9 times out of 10 its because he feels his hands are tied, ok~ Tell him you don't expect him to fix anything or make the problem go away, just that it feels good to open up to him and let it out.

[emilygurl591]

Relationships are supposed to be built on trust so I think that if you feel that way then you should cry and if he can't handle it then he doen't deserve you. I had that same question when I first satrted going out with my bf, but then I finally just did it and he was cool with it and he talked me through it and comforted me so my advise to you is to just do it! Plus guys think it's sexy when you cry on their chest, lol.

[Anonymous]

I think a lot of guys become awkward because they don't know how to help their girlfriend or friend when he or she becomes sad and cries. Maybe it has to do with experience at that age. I've gone through a lot since a young age, so entering high school I was always very caring, supportive and attentive to girls and friends who were sad.

I think it might be worth asking your boyfriend, "If I started crying, what would you do?" I think if you ask that he will get the message that you might be sad.

[kyle200165]

well listen if he can't be sensitive enough to comply with your needs then what the hell you know?what you need to do is find a guy that will care for you usually its the quiet type that turn out to be the most sensitive and careing you know?messege if you liked advise and need more help

[wally]

I'll go with A , although it depend on what type of guys you'r boyfriend is , its ok to cry because its human feelings and nothing wrong with it , he should support you and try to be there for you ,

if not he don't deserve you .