I had a Fight at a Halloween party 🎃, with my Nemesis in front of my friends & pears😑, how can I face them on Monday? Please HELP?💁?

[mia1999lomas]

Last night I went to a house party at uni, I was buzzing for it all week😑. It was Halloween themed🎃, I went as a Soldier 💁anyway I get there with my group of friends and we are chilling for about an hour or two when the person I have been having issue with at uni (over me having a thing formerly with her EX) turned up. She started chatting up my friends boyfriend, stroking his arms being over the top and winding her up. So I storm over to her, I tell her she should show some respect, to which point she told me im a hypocrite and to be a "chavey orange" elsewhere to which point I flipped🙅 so as she turned her back I pulled her hair by the tail of the pony tail💁, (I could see the apple bobbing party game thingey about a yard or two from ourselves), I have her hair for about 4 or 5 seconds, I go to Dunk her but she spins me around (half catches my barefoot with her trainer) literally last moment and dunked my face in the bucket instead🙄(filled with apples & Choclate sauce) she held me there for like 10 seconds (im bent over with my hands on either side of the bucket she pressing the back of my head down🤮 ) before letting me back up, I coudnt stop coughing, my friends found it funny and everyone was laughing there heads off🤢 , im now like I dont want to go uni on Monday because it is just going to be brought up all day 🤮 🙄

[Cherry234]

Wow that's a lot of drama. It's not your fault. There's no way you can avoid these people? If you don't have any classes with them then just avoid them as much as you can. If you do have classes with them then just sit as far away from them as possible and try to be the first person to leave when class ends. I would also put in some headphones or AirPods or whatever if you get to class early and pretend you're listening to music or talking on the phone. If those people try to harass you in class you can tell your professor too

[mia1999lomas]

True, thats what is usually do anyway. Yeah she's in 2 of my classes

[SEL195]

You have to act cool. Laugh with them. Don't act embarrassed. Embrace it. That will show the level of confidence you have. Just brush it off.

[Finchie40]

It was wrong on her part to be disrespectful but it was also wrong that you pulled her hair and catching her off guard , so you both were wrong period , I know you feel embarrassed of the outcome but you shouldn’t stop yourself from going back to Uni, people might laugh and gossip but as long as you own up to your mistake it will be forgotten , we all aren’t perfect people but when we admit to ourselves that we were wrong others will respect that

[AviatorTom]

Wow, an interesting experience at a party.

On Monday, just act normal. If they bring it up, just change the subject. Most important thing to do is to put it behind you and move on.

[Vegasrunner]

Good life lesson for you to learn. Sounds like you started this fight.
1) Never disrespect random people you never know what someone is capable of doing.
2) Don't do anything you aren't ready to deal w/ the consequences off.

[mia1999lomas]

She ain't capable of shit

[Vegasrunner]

Point is you should never underestimate your opponent.

[LoveYourself24]

Interesting story. I mean it sucks that all happened to you but you know I think maybe you just need to not overthink and just laugh at the situation. I’m sure people will bring it up but it’ll fade over time

[mia1999lomas]

Iknow but Ill get so much stick for it, plus I had a chocolate face & breath😷

[LoveYourself24]

True but you can’t let that fear overtake you. It happened. People will say things, just don’t let it get to you 😌

[shanesc30]

You should jus apologise to her saying maybe you overeacted when she tried to hype the moment and jus settle the issue rather than being upset and spoilimg your Sunday.

[mia1999lomas]

she dunked me why should i

[chriscdi]

Best way to handle embarrassment is to laugh at yourself, if you can do that, it will make your life easier

[Fuentes]

So you got served its your fault for getting physical first. Are you a bully? Because your friends laughed like you deserved it.

[mia1999lomas]

wtf no. How any of that my fault

[Fuentes]

You ran up on her & grabbed her and got maxed out and laughed at? You was tryna be a bully that was your fault.

[mia1999lomas]

What are you talking about? Like wtf. I confronted her, argued for 30-40 seconds then the "altercation" happened however you wish to phrase it. Got maxed out? what does tht even mean? I made her shit herlself when I pulled that greasy hasn't seen shampoo in a month pony tail back.

[Fuentes]

You ended up in the tank and it means you got beat up and served and over powered. You got made fun of you started it and now your playing victim lolol typical

[mia1999lomas]

Beat up? I didn't have a mark on me? wasn't really a "fight" was it? I didn't start anything she started it by being a bitch.

[Fuentes]

Then if nothing happen why are you so embarrassed to return? Because you did get served up

[mia1999lomas]

Because it was it stupid situation! What do you think happened? i didn't have a single mark on me, she started it behaving like a dick.

[Fuentes]

Lol bro you grabbed her you can't put your hands on anyone you want

[exitseven]

damn that's rough. sometimes you gotta face the music no matter how sour the notes,

[PuNishant]

You shouldn't be planning anything in prior.
Just let it come naturally.
That's what I do.

[PuNishant]

You didn't plan the fight not don't plan thr truce 😂😂

[TexasRed95]

I have been in many fights through school and my young adult life. Just go in like normal.

[EnglishEuropean]

You know what would be funny? If this shit actually happened.

[Effably]

You have a NEMESIS? Gosh I am jealous.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Learning true strength would be a decent beginning

[lycanthrope3]

Just laugh about it if is brought up