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For one thing, she can be the best friend you could ever have. Women can be companions, but unlike a best friend who has their own life but is fun to talk to and hang out with occasionally because you really like each other and get along, your relationship partner has solemnly pledged her life to maintaining and strengthening the special relationship the two of you have.
You live together, so you are companions who do things together all the time, not that you don't have individual interests, as well. You enjoy each other's company, so dining, going to movies, plays, concerts, fairs, museums, and interesting places; exploring, hiking, camping, picnicking, and taking vacations together on a regular basis is a joy.
You trust each other completely and can talk about anything without fear of offense or judgement, including personal thoughts and feelings that you would share with no one else. You can bounce idea off of each other.
Since you live together and are in it for the long haul, you are in a partnership, similar to a business partnership. You share decision making.
Having feminine qualities, she is tender, sweet, nurturing, caring and empathetic. She likes to feel warm, safe and secure in a (her) man's arms. She is snuggly.
Being a woman, she makes you feel like a man because she's small and more delicate. When she slips her little hand trustingly into yours, you know that you make her feel safe. She thinks you are big and strong when you open tight jars, fetch objects off of high shelves, lift or carry heavy items, repair and build things.
The idea that all a woman brings to the table is sex is ridiculous. But the sex IS important. You're open with each other, uninhibited, and can engage in any kind of sexual adventure from tender and loving, to hard fucking, to quickies, to oral, to sensual foreplay stuff to playful games. Yes, you have complete access to her body as long as you are respectful.
Her thoughts and advice are valuable. She helps you to improve and be the best you can be as a person, not by telling you what to do or how to improve, but by being a mirror though which to see yourself.
She works hard around the house and also brings a feminine touch by making the place cozy and pretty with ideas for decorations, furniture, colors for the walls, indoor plants.
She can work or have a career and contribute substantially to the household income.
She can provide the motherly touch in caring for children. She can engage in school activities with, to take one single example, bake sales.
She can engage in school, civic and community activities.
Women have feminine qualities, but they are people, just like men, with thoughts, feelings, hopes, dreams, and values. Why is that so hard to understand?
They are perfectly capable of taking care of themselves and I think some men resent that fact. They long for the days when every woman was desperate for a husband because laws and customs made impossible for them to live without one. Even the lowest piece of shit man could find a wife. Now days, men have to prove themselves worthy of admiration.
I hate the thought that a man brings more to the table than a woman. Guys who believe that will never find a good woman or be in a healthy relationship because they are incapable of seeing women as equals.
A lot of women, don't know if it's most, but it sure is a lot, bring nothing but sex and a desire to set up shop in someone else's life.. Especially if they are Instagram thots, or sex workers. Neither of those things require skill. They rarely know how to be mother's, or to be a wife or a partner.. I don't even mean in the traditional sense. These women feel like sex is enough, like if they give you the privilege of having sex with them, that should be all they are required to do, when relationships are about so much more than sex.. I would wager sex is definitely not enough to keep a man either..
This is why I married a small town conservative girl.. She didn't know how to cook or clean, which is fine, I taught her, and we share those chores anyway. But she stands next to me no matter what, she is my partner in every sense of the word. My other half. She allows me to be a man while at the same time being a sounding board for decisions I must make. I always listen to her, and she always listens to me. She's talanted with music, she's a volleyball official and coach. She's gifted in the arts too. She makes every single other woman I ever dated in my path look like nothing.. She brings not only sex, but compassion, loyalty, intelligence, skills, and a myriad of other things to the table, and I feel like the luckiest man alive to have her.
So there is my take on it lol.
I think you know a little about me, so I don't need to write a long post.
To give you an idea what I brought to the table, my husband worked with and for my father a year before we started our relationship. He lost both his parents before he turned 16, and he got a wife but also a father figure, a bigger and more loving family, many opportunities, and a bit more, a few years later when we found each other. We were also childhood friends, so in a way, we both found something old, very known, and very precious.
I remember when we were just 20 and (roughly) 21, dating for about 5 months. I skipped uni for the first half of the new year, travelled to Germany with him and stayed with him until summer. He was just 21 and studying hard, met my father frequently for work and advice, sometimes skipped classes for business travels and we also travelled to Sweden to deal with lawyers and courts. I sometimes cooked and acted like a wife for my first boyfriend, so it wasn't entirely new to me, but this time I did it as an adult and full time. I cooked for him, cleaned, worked from home, turned his apartment into a place you'd like to go to with my designing skills. We had sex almost every day. We went out frequently. I went to courts with him and even found him a better lawyer.
It was glorious. A real wife-simulator experience for me, and I think it showed him how our marriage would look like.
Right now, he gets to keep all his money in his business because the house and all of its spendings are mine and my business. I make money working and trading and investing from home. Generally, he simply keeps his mind and thoughts focused on his trade. And when he looks back, there's a house, a home, and it has a pale spirit. The house is alive and it beats with my heart.
My role, in general, is to follow him, care for him, and help him carry less weight. I mean, I do worship him too sometimes, BDSM style hahahah (yeah I know you hate that).
In short, I help him grow as a man as he helps me grow, find my place and feel great about being in my skin as a woman.
Is that enough, Mr. Cheetah? Do I pass the test?
P. s. I managed to write a long post.
Loyalty, honesty, pampering, a listening ear, affection through deeds cause I'm not good with words, and I'm no jewelry fan so you're safe there
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A good girl to be in a relationship with is one that adds real value to your life that can't be bought.
She should bring:
1. Intelligence. And have a general scientific awareness.
2. The ability to cook delicious and healthy recipes.
3. Love for PEOPLE, not for stuff.
4. A little bit of danger too, but with even more sacrifice and loyalty
5. No manipulative plans to end up with you, the good guy, after being irresponsible with her one and only body, spirit and soul for years
The great, overwhelming majority of women bring nothing to the table, unfortunately. I've lost count how many women say things on their tinder and okcupid profiles like "likes to watch movies, go shopping, and listen to music." As if the majority of humans on earth don't like to do these sorts of things as well.
Kindness caring a home (this is why women are known as the home maker in the relationship guys weāll just throw shit on the floor we donāt care). Iām my experience women tend to be a better cooks then men, of course I grew up in a traditional household which I want for my life I donāt want a modern relationship. Or one with a Christian they of course also bring sex
Itās called give and take. If you like me for who I am and I like you for who i am then to me Thats enough already. Loyalty, pampering (except for treating you like a child and cleaning up after you all the time), quality time, supportiveness, kindness, patience, stability, etc.
Most of them bring nothing more than pussy from the start... then comes the problems.
Most of them don't bring hardly anything good to a relationship.
I donāt want any bullshit tbhā¦ and Iāll be there for you all and give all the love u need. But if you donāt have any intention in being with me, Iām not here for it😐👍
I'd expect it to be a partnership, but a lot of women bring nothing but sex.
Emotional support, companionship and intimacy.
Sometimes itās not about what she CAN bring to the table, itās about if he has the ability to notice what sheās doing for their relationship.
maybe love or something
They dont need to
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