Girlfriend wants me to send her money so she can buy the plane ticket to come here. Is this normal?

[Yuuibtony]

Is this normal? She live in Texas i in Atlanta

A) scam

B) legit

C) that's pretty much normal people do this a lot

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+1 y

She lived in Texas i live in georgia

[Oigit]

The moment people start asking for money, it's a scam. It does not matter if they are in the US or not. For all you know she could be asking you and several other guys for money to buy them bus tickets to come see her. Even though she is in the US the odds of you being able to find her to get your money back can still be slim as all hell.

[Yuuibtony]

Is it possible for her to buy the airplane ticket?

[Oigit]

It does not matter. It's your money. So you will still be buying the ticket. You really need to look past your feelings on this one.

[Yuuibtony]

First time buying a plane ticket

[Oigit]

It's just like buying anything else on the internet. The site will give you a list of departure dates and times to choose from. Don't make it a big deal in your head. Because that is why you could be making yourself a scheme for this mess.

[PositiveNote]

You know... are you a gambling man? I've seen guys end up with a leech who they can't get rid of, but women are curious folk! A woman who really likes what she sees most likely just has an adventurous bone in her body, and just wants to have some fun. I personally would suggest to meet her somewhere other than your home, if possible. Though she could easily track you down, it may help to hide if need be. Meet her at a hub airport like Shreveport!

[Seinna]

She's a girl. You should come to her if you want to call yourself a man and if not then yes, you should buy her the ticket. What has the world come down to seriously.

It could still be a scam but you can just buy the ticket for her, you don't need to give her money.

[Yuuibtony]

I kinda get turn on a woman that one year older then me which is you but if I can get a real girlfriend I going stay watching porn till I die porn will be my girlfriend if every woman I date is a scammer

[Yuuibtony]

I reporting your comments for spam

[Chlo3_2001]

She could purchase her flight tickets and after she arrives and you two meet up you could reimburse her? It's worth you two having a big discussion to make sure you're both happy and on the same page. If you don't want to pay for her flight you don't have to.

[Duckie11]

Mmmmmm, the part where she says "send me money so I can buy a plane ticket" and not just "can you buy me a plane ticket."

Asking a long distance "relationship" to send cash online in order to "get a plane ticket" is a very common scam, especially through dating websites.

[Yuuibtony]

Stop spamming your url on my post you that desperate want a woman to rate u?

[Yuuibtony]

@Ducke11 that creepy ass asain dude literally spam that link to all women on this post including you

[Yuuibtony]

I just erase all his comments he literally went on ever women on here asking to rate him u some desperate loser

[Duckie11]

yeah, I saw

[Yuuibtony]

We might be the same age but I can guess how tall u are

[Yuuibtony]

I going assume u are 5'3

[Duckie11]

5'4" but close

[Yuuibtony]

Lol ur height is cute

[Jessica745855]

UMMMM ONLY IF THIS IS YOUR GIRLFRIEND AND YOU KNOW HER AND HAVE MET HER IN PERSON. A LOT OF TIMES PEOPLE SCAM PEOPLE OVER THE INTERNET. IF THIS IS ACTUALLY YOUR GIRLFRIEND AND YOU KNOW HER AND TRUST HER AND HAVE MET HER IN PERSON; THEN YEAH, ITS NORMAL. TO AN EXTENT.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

Would you pay for a hooker's Uber rides to get to you?

But seriously.. equal rights and all, why shouldn't you both pay half right? Why is it that you are expected to foot the bill?

If you stay with her, I would say you will be footing a lot of bills in your future.

[Aurora1010]

I think a scam. A flight within the same country shouldn't be expensive and if she's working then she should be able to save money for it, if she's not working she could find a job instead of just asking others for money.

[Bside]

Right unless she a single mom I see no reason for it. I don't even let a guy pay for me on a first date. Like don't invest in me yet. I don't know I been divorced a long time and am like a little tired of dating atm. Been yes sinse I let anyone be serious for me. It have to be someone really nice. I can wait. Don't date losers there no s

[Bside]

Shortage of people to date.

[Jackblue]

"She" could be a con artist. I am ashamed to say I have fallen for stuff like that before. She (if she is even a woman) probably used the old "Spanish Prisoner" routine on you didn't she. If you don't know what that is research it and see if it applies.

[Jackblue]

You say that it is your idea not hers but that doesn't mean she wasn't manipulating you to make the offer by playing on your sympathy with sob stories. These con artists are clever people.

[Yuuibtony]

I have a question

[Jackblue]

ok what is it

[Yuuibtony]

How plane tickets work she live in Texas and I live in Atlanta Georgia and she want to come to Atlanta who suppose to buy it and how?

[Yuuibtony]

And she also said if I don't want to do that I have to come to Houston to buy it

[Jackblue]

Well it sounds like she wanted you to send her money for "ticket"

[Jackblue]

she knows you won't come to Houston just to buy tickets for her to go to Georgia

[Yuuibtony]

Why can't she buy the ticket?

[sage2021]

Just pay for her ticket online, but don't send her cash 💸

[AndrésC64]

How long have you known her? That's not normal. People don't ask for cash so that they can then buy something. If you trust her and really think that she is going to come see you, and you can afford it, then it would be much better to just buy the ticket, but make sure that it's refundable. Just in case she changes her mind.

[Yurrasis]

You can just buy the ticket for her and send it. If she demands for money to buy it herself, it's a scam. I believe you can cancel the ticket and ask for a refund afterwards but it depends on the airline.

[TheorionMage]

BUY her a NON-REFUNDABLE ticket to be awaiting her at the airport ticket counter accessible only with ID.
If she balks, the truth will be told~ For better or worse!

[Yuuibtony]

Oh ok thanks

[Bside]

It a risk. Can you go see her? Can you buy a noe refundable or transferable ticket for her. If she objects to that then scam bro.

[Yuuibtony]

I never thought I have women helping me out i thought u guys will want me to get scam by her

[Yuuibtony]

I will ask her

[Bside]

Lol I don't want you to get scammed for sure. We should as human give each other solid advice. please tell me you have video chatted and there is no reason she made up you can't or you for sure are being catfished. Also whatever state she in go to the court records page with her name and birth date and check for criminal record. Do some research. Look for other info online that may not match up with what she told you. In life if it's too good to be true it is. Then if so sign up for some classes of interesting things you like and give meeting people that way a try. Confidence is key!

[Yuuibtony]

Thats why I love about u women u are cute and adorable regardless how old u are u could be 40 and I will still be taller then u I just find it adorable how u cute women be spitting these facts eventhrough we taller then u

[Yuuibtony]

Bside i have a question

[Bside]

Yes love anything. I don't try to come off as harsh I have just been though anything and everything in life lol. I am here to assist <3

[Yuuibtony]

Do women get mad when other women try to prevent a man getting scam by them?

[Bside]

That an odd question. Anytime anyone gets in anyone way they usually have a neg reaction. How many women are you talking to? How would she know what other people are saying to you. Bro how much is the ticket like you are very indecisive. If she want to see you then buy the ticket and send it. If it's too much money don't take the chance.

[Yuuibtony]

In general speaking i did some test and I assume if a woman scamming a man other women wouldn't help because they don't care

[Bside]

Ohh I misunderstood. I though you had a close female friend lol and she telling you it's a scam and the other one is mad.

[Bside]

Like yo men are not as sensitive as chicks. Most often and not always I know some heartless bitches and really nice guys but we more often will be the ones to help ya out as we are wired to be care takers. I am not trying to be neg I understand your young and trying to figure it out I just am trying to not sugar coat the truth for ya. I mean at the end of the day if you have not sent her a lot of money and giflts it prob worth the risk to send a ticket do not send money for any reason.

[Bside]

Boy I know you just like her want a girlfriend and to get laid. You better have done a video call so you know she looks like what she says first.

[Yuuibtony]

I not trying get lay but I need a woman i have to get one I don't care how much I get scam I need a woman

[taylorallen]

Only if you're really, REALLY close to someone would you buy them a plane ticket. Otherwise, that's how people scam people. lol

[Xoxocutekitty]

Buy half the ticket (unless you have a significant income difference and footing it would be comfortable) but don't send the cash.

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[KrisPW]

Protect yourself, this could be a scam. Haven't flown in a while. Can't you send the ticket digitally? or maybe pay her back when she gets there?

[Yuuibtony]

Pay her back? This my money not hers

[kay_nint9]

she is telling to ask her to pay it first and pay it back to her after her arrival.

[KrisPW]

She could pay for the ticket and you pay her back when she actually shows up. You said somewhere that her coming was your idea, so you should offer to pay for the trip. But you shouldn't be expected to just send money to someone you haven't met in person.

[slatyb]

“girlfriend?” Don’t send her money. Tell her you will pay for a plane ticket. If that’s not acceptable, then it’s a scam. Have you had live chat (with camera) with her? Has she shown you iD?

[DarkCarousel]

Have you actually met her in person? That makes a whole lot of difference to me.

[Orne24]

Is she has money she can buy her own ticket with her own money, and this is not normal maybe for some girls but others no

[Yuuibtony]

Oh wow so technically she can buy her own ticket and fly here? She told me stupid and not smart when I ask her why can't she buy her own ticket she then said because she the one flying not me

[Orne24]

If she has financial issues then I get it , if not then she's just on of those girls who like the man to do things for her.

She is also the one coming to you not the other way around. If she can afford the ticket then she can buy as well

[Yuuibtony]

She told me she like to be treated like a princess

[Orne24]

Well princess or not she seems to be one of those crazy spoiled brats who like to demand things , thinking whatever they ask they will get. She can become a huge problem in your relationship

[Yuuibtony]

I desperately want a woman in my life so if she is not scamming me but just some spoiled brat I will take it it hard to find a woman that will date me last time I touch a woman was when I was 16

[Orne24]

Well it's your choice but the only thing I can tell you is now days finding good woman is hard same goes for men.

If she's meant to be with you then it will be if not then don't force things, get to know her and what type of a lady she is.

[Yuuibtony]

Do u believe she just spoiled not a scammer?

[Orne24]

It depends on how you view it , but have you met her before, like face to face.

[Yuuibtony]

No I didn't

[Bside]

Yeah we all like that but guess what it's not reality. Send me a ticket I actually show up I could use a break <3

[Yuuibtony]

It seem like women are only straight when it money envolve and lesbians don't get scam because women are inherently gay

[Yuuibtony]

Because I never heard of lesbian golddiggers etc

[Bside]

Why ya gotta go there? That not true women try to scam other women on lesbian sites all the time. Your not their so your not engaged in it. Do you hate lesbians or something that a horrible thing to bring up for no reason. Your mad women get laid and you don't. Why can't you go meet a girl in rl and calm down.

[Yuuibtony]

No I thought that women are inherently gay thats why u never seen lesbians get scam because women never scam women

[Yuuibtony]

I can't meet a woman in real life they all call me ugly

[FunkyMonkee]

How long has she been your girlfriend? have you even met her in person, yet? I've run into a number of broads claiming they want to come from far away to see me and it is a SCAM!!

[Datboi65]

Why can't she just drive? Sounds like she's using you homie. Maybe you should get rid of her afterall.

[sheikalana]

but why does she wants you to send her money? is it because she doesn’t have the money? I’ve never been in such situation but if I have the money I would pay for my own ticket.

[Buntyp]

Maybe she's missing you and just can't afford the ticket, right now. She's your girlfriend--what do you think?

[bubbles328]

I would say if she’s putting herself out to come to you, you should offer to pay something toward the ticket. But I would not give her money directly

[JoyGirl]

Well, you can buy it for her, if she can’t afford to.

[annabananna]

You can go online and buy the ticket yourself. That’s what my husband would do before we were married.

[TacosRAwesome]

Why don't you either buy it for her or she buys it and you reimburse her?

[Truthatanycost]

Yes, perfectly normal for a reasonably decent scam.

[OlderAndWiser]

Have you ever met in person before? How long have you known her?

[lightbulb27]

Is it all online or have you met? Seem real video? Drive to her?

[secret1991]

Mmm yeah it could be an scam,
or a red flag for a not really healthy relationship in the future maybe.
It's probably a bit too demanding on her part. If I was interested, I would prefer to buy my own ticket with my own money. Be carefully

[Yuuibtony]

Yo I am dumb I didn't know that person can legitimately buy the airplane ticket to come because I question her and she said because she the one flying not me

[secret1991]

I wouldn't know how to respond to that XD
Her reason doesn't make sense.

[Yuuibtony]

Wow it good to get alive from a sexy woman like u I been scam by women all the times

[Yuuibtony]

Advice*

[secret1991]

jajaja I could be a fat old-lady for all you know XD
But no, seriously if this is a common situation for you,
I guess just rely on your most logical part
and forget all about sentimentality.
In this situation for example, she is not making any sense.
She sounds like she is demanding rather than asking

[JohnHaley114]

Dont send the money. Just buy her the ticket and send it.

[Yuuibtony]

How u do that?

[JohnHaley114]

How long do you know her.

[Yuuibtony]

2 months

[JohnHaley114]

There are two options. One is you go and see her Or buy her a ticket in her name and sent it to her.

[Hellraiser1984]

Depends. How long and have you actually talked to her not text and email. I'd make her pay half or go to her. If you want to go to her and she says no it's probably a scam.

[GlassTop]

have you actually met her in person? If not, scam. Buy the ticket with insurance. See if she’s happy. If not, refund it.

[nawtee_me]

It would be better to go see her first... See if she wants to work that out? If not the may be a scam.

[nawtee_me]

Have you talked to her on the phone?

[Yuuibtony]

No...

[nawtee_me]

See if she will talk to you on the phone or will let you go see her instead of giving her money. Or offer to pay her back if she pays to come see you.

[InferiorElegy]

It is a common scammer thing but If you offer to buy her the ticket and have it waiting in her name and have it so you can only refund it, then you'll find out if it's a scam or not.

[andreasderjuengere]

Most likely this is a scam. You can as well book a ticket for her.

[Alyssa_11]

I accidentally pressed scam!! But I think it’s normal.

[Staximus]

If you already know her and met her in person, it's probably not a scam. If it's just some girl you talk to online, it's a scam

[Twalli]

She wants you to invest in the relationship and since she's leaving her home, she probably doesn't want to foot all the bill for her visiting you.

[SkinTeethHairNails]

Total scam my man. Just buy the ticket for her. This is the 21st century. You don’t need to send her any money. She’s just using you.

[manuzi]

If she is really your girlfriend, and you trust her, and you know her, then just send the money. I would send money to my boyfriend if he asked me to.

[wEiRdG]

Bruh paranoid mfs they lying, this is completely normal, dude, if you don't do it, dude, like what are you doing?

[Deserter]

Have you met her before? Have you fucked? Is she your actual girlfriend or someone you hust talk to online?

[Guido]

Since you said you have never met then it is just a scam. Save your money.

[michael1469]

Oh hell no... she pays upfront and then when she gets here you give her the caah

[cloud9vortex1234]

If she likes you enough then she will pay herself to come to see you.

[Ass_Grabber]

Does she have a big fat ass which you can grab and squeeze?

[Yuuibtony]

I do not know i need to know if she real or a scammer first

[Mediterraneansoul]

Lmao she takes you for a nice guy. Send her job application

[Anonymous]

Don't send her money. That is a scam. If she needs money for a plane ticket then you buy the ticket for her. Don't send her the money to buy it.

[Hotboy_booblover]

If it's ur real girlfriend yes it's absolutely normal..

[Anonymous]

Girls ask guys literally sent me a private message saying this question is great

AWW AWWW AWWWW

[KatherineJ]

Scam! Do not send money to anyone.

[Bside]

Frrrrrrrrrrr girl like omg people no one watches catfished lol

[KatherineJ]

@Bside exactly! And there are plenty of stories of this type of stuff happening.

[Bside]

people try to catfish me all the time lol. One guy twice both times pretending to be the same celeb like you hit me once already you cornball. Someone hacked on of my brother's friends accounts yesterday and tried to trick me. You have to do your research people.

[KatherineJ]

@Bside absolutely right! Sadly, too many people fall for scams, and it isn’t just the elderly.

[Sasha_Gee]

Sounds fishy. I would go to Her instead.

[Yuuibtony]

Oh yeah sorry about that other post those people were being bitches

[Sasha_Gee]

What post? 🙃

[Yuuibtony]

That drawing post

[Sasha_Gee]

O I didn't pay attention to the other comments.

[Yuuibtony]

Sasha u sound short

[Sasha_Gee]

🤔 what does sounding short mean?

[Yuuibtony]

Easy
1) being a woman have the color pink to more emphasis the stereotypical short height of women

[Sasha_Gee]

My height 😂 well that's a first hearing that

[Yuuibtony]

Is cute how short you women r lol so short and adorable

[Sasha_Gee]

Adorableness rules.

[Yuuibtony]

Yeahhh, lol

[douride2]

Have you actually met this person IRL?

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Just drive. That could be a nice road trip.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

This is a scam for sure when they ask for money

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@Yuuibtony You send her money, you will be scammed out of money also you give her personal information you will be scammed , don't press on any links cause she will hack you

[Yuuibtony]

She refuse to brake up with me when she complain that I am sending her money

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@Yuuibtony Well do what you want , I wish you the best

[Yuuibtony]

I mean that am not sending her money for the ticket

[Avicenna]

Doesn’t sound unreasonable to me

[Avicenna]

But buy the ticket for her yourself rather than sending her money to do it.

[Drumlin2001]

Nah. Just book ticket for her, dont send money

[Naimgood]

Watch 90 day fiancee, or just don't do it

[BobbyC65]

I would not do this it's a scam.

[lrina]

most likely a scam.