My girlfriend is so kind and pays for so much. What can I do?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. I've been out of work for a year due to complications, but I have a possible job lined up soon.

She pays for almost everything. I pay my share of the rent and some shopping, but I'm deep into my savings...

She has to pay for the vet and new tires on her car today (burst tire) and she wants us to go on a trip this weekend, which she's going to pay for.

I try to pay as much as I possibly can, but it's hard to accept all these things from her.

I've made a promise, if I get this job (which will be well payed), to pay for most if not all things.

What else can I do?

[BobbieBoy666]

It's great that your girlfriend is kind and generous! While it's nice to be taken care of, it's also important to reciprocate and contribute to the relationship. Here's how you can balance being appreciated and contributing:
1. Show Appreciation:
Express your gratitude for her kindness, whether through words, gifts, or thoughtful gestures. A simple "thank you" can go a long way.
2. Take Turns Paying:
Suggest that you pay for some meals or activities, or offer to cover her portion of expenses. This shows that you're willing to contribute and share the financial burden.
3. Offer Other Forms of Support:
Don't just focus on money. Offer to help with chores, run errands, or provide emotional support. These contributions can be just as valuable as financial ones.
4. Communicate Openly:
Talk with your girlfriend about how you feel about the current financial dynamic. Let her know that you appreciate her generosity but also want to contribute more. Be open to discussing how you can both find a balance that works for you.
5. Focus on Quality Time and Shared Experiences:
Remember that money isn't everything. Spend time together doing things you both enjoy, whether it's a picnic in the park, a hike in nature, or simply cuddling up with a book.
By showing appreciation, contributing in various ways, and communicating openly, you can ensure a healthy and balanced relationship where both partners feel valued and supported.

[lightbulb27]

Marry her if you like her as a peson, so that you can love her for life.

Get job, get back to 50/50 and at times 70/30

in mean time, take load off her, cook, shop , cut coupons, clean house, fix things, give her emotional support and back rubs, etc.

[chrissykerdock]

how about cunninglingus

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, it's all about balancing love, trust, and a little sprinkle of fun! 🤗 Remember to embrace the kindness your girlfriend is showing and don’t let guilt overshadow it. Focus on emotional support, planning special moments together that aren’t costly, and shower her with lovebombing attention and appreciation. Stay patient and once the job comes through, show her the tangible recognition you've promised. Your relationship seems full of promise and stronger after this chapter. Go get 'em, tiger! 😉

[chrissykerdock]

eat her pussy everyday

[Sunrising]

@chrissykerdock Do you receive that every day?

[chrissykerdock]

@Sunrising i wish