Is it creepy to talk to a girl who's always alone?

[Anonymous]

There's this girl in my class in college who's always alone and I think she doesn't have friends, I think she's really pretty and I want to get close to her.
The thing is that she's always alone in class, so would she think i'm weird or creepy or that i'm a bother if I talk to her out of nowhere?
Sorry if this question is stupid but I don't have experience and i'm really shy.

[SueShe]

What is your real reason why you want to talk to her

I fear that you don't just want to talk to her out of sheer pity but that you have a hidden reason why you want to address her. You state yourself that"... she's really pretty and I want to get close to her". Now, to me, that sounds that you would like to get closer to her because you hope that you can reach something since it is her looks that have attracted your attention. Just make sure that you don't mislead her by telling her that you only want to be her friend when in reality you hope for something else.

[DermalPunch]

Guys are usually complaining a girl is always with her friends so it sounds like a good deal. I was this girl. I had friends but I still kept to myself a lot and was just on a different wavelength.

Go talk to her. Hi, I'm so and so is usually good to start.

[DermalPunch]

And like the other people said. If you just trying to get laid by someone you view as desperate for companionship then leave her alone please. We are sensitive and have been hurt enough.

[Mac-One]

Maybe she would really like to have somebody talk to her, You could possibly start by saying, "Hi, do you have a couple minutes to talk about (something that happened in class)?

[exitseven]

Maybe she is just shy. Try and tlk to her. It doesn't have to be cerepy. Ask her about the class or the professor. See if she is receptive to hanging out after class.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

No, it’s not creepy but it depends on your intention of course. Yes, you want to get close to her, but do you want to be her friend? Do you want to date her? Do you want to sleep with her? I think it can be seen as creepy if your intent is to only sleep with her - (coming from a college student who likes to sit alone lol).

[Avicenna]

If you talk to her in class or walk with her after class she won't find it creepy

[Avicenna]

Be friendly but don't tell her she's pretty (it would be OK to tell her she's smart, assuming she is...)

[boobliker]

no we all need to talk

[Iron_Man]

No lol