Yes I do. Not only that but I like myself to. . I am as far from perfect as anyone can get. And that is the best thing in the world for me because everything I think and know. I Know Nothing. And I'm Glad because it makes me a better person wanting to learn more and more. If you love yourself you will u understand this life is a balance. If you are not balanced in your life it means not to many things go right and are right on any given day.
If you want to learn something here about loving your self. Go through the Question and answers. You will come across people you know there happy and love themselves just by the way they answer the question. And then you will fi d the people who Dont. Love themselves or even like themselves or anybody else you can tell that just by the way they answer the question
Try to follow those people and watch and see every answer that they give and you will see exactly what you're asking if you don't love yourself you're miserable nothing goes right you're just miserable follow these people for a while and you'll see exactly what I mean
We AR all teachers and guides one way or the other It's cool to find people that are in love with themselves and better Happy because they will guide you into that just by being around them they can teaches a lot of things
Same with the people that don't like themselves they can teach us who we don't want to be I love you question thank you but if you're not happy within your not happy anywhere happiness comes with love and like you have to remember one thing you're the only person that can do it I don't care what anybody else says it has to come from inside and you are the only person on the inside of you you can blame the outside world for being miserable or unhappy you can blame anybody for anything but that's not the right thing that's not true because that's on the outside of your body
Just like misery love comes from the inside of your body you have a choice if you're miserable and you keep living that way everyday that's your choice because you don't want to like yourself that's your choice you don't want to see things in reality that's your choice
For people that hate other people that's your choice you also hate yourself you might lie so you don't but down deep you really do
We are all born with the gift of choice we get to choose who we want to be by the things we say and do if that comes from the inside of us that's who we really are we're not the person on the outside we are the person on the inside our heart our brain our energy are so our spirit our love
Bc 99.6% of the time, I'd much rather be alone than have to deal with anyone else or their bullshit. I've dealt with being bullied, judged, abandoned, etc. so making something as important as a friend, significant other, mentor, basically that very small tight circle of people you can trust to know that they're there for you whenever you may need them as you are for them. So when that circle becomes smaller and smaller as each day passes you by, you begin to realize just how important the relationship you have with yourself is and that at the end of the day you'll be alone with nothing but you and your thoughts. So unless you enjoy kicking yourself when you're down, but not out, & living in self pity feeling like you deserve to die, or worse you'd rather kill yourself than haven't 0 to deal with the never ending barrage of negativity that's brought on bc of the reality of by little to no self love/care. So before jumping into a relationship, casual friends with benefits or, I'd highly recommend getting in tune with yourself on your own by taking time alone for as long as you need to understand your own wants and needs before going out and expecting other people to know you better than you know yourself.
I love myself. Literally I get dressed everyday for class to look cute and pass by the mirrors or windows and be like “ouuuuuuu who is thissssss” taking care of my hygiene and ensure I smellll amazinggggggg to feeel amazing. I used to not like myself. My stretch marks my little belly my legs my arms. Well I’m still working on loving my arms. But now I’ve noticed I have amazinggggggg legs ☺️ In high school they’d tease meeee because of my calf muscles but now ouuuuuuu I like all things short because they loook nice and I’m number one to compliment myself ☺️☺️☺️
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I’ve seen myself cry I’ve seen myself happy I’ve seen myself angry and throughout all of those times I’ve not once ever had a thought of neglect for myself. I just can’t picture not loving myself? I feel like feeling negative about myself now would hurt my inner child or 8 year old me. I think 8 year old me would be proud of the woman I am today to be honest she’s lived up to a lot of her expectations. It takes a while to truly see yourself thoroughly and love yourself/accept yourself authentically as you are but it’s totally worth everything.
I love myself because I'm above all of you and I'm the best person in the world but I hate myself because I'm a bad person and dont deserve to be loved.
If I didn’t have periods of loving myself then I would have ended up a shape on a shower floor, with pink water swirling around me.
Yes and no. I don't denigrate myself. But I don't really like myself either. I have lots of faults and as a human being I am still full of imperfections and I am aware that I have to improve in many areas.
Therefore, without falling into personal denigration, I am not overestimating my abilities or my qualities. I try to stay as humble as possible.
When I see in the mirror I see a guy who looks like me, there is something in his eyes, they are lost, lonely, he says something's sometime I can't hear them clearly his words are like long lost echo , I saw him crying at midnight when the moon was full and the highest in the sky, he comes and goes,
Not yet but I'll get there. My self-esteem used to be much lower than it is now. Everyday I do what I can to improve my relationship with myself. It's not easy but it's what I need to do since I'm the only person who will be always be with me, so I must be kind to myself.
generally yes. but right now i fucking hate myself. i dug myself into a hole and my life got stuck in place without me learning or gaining anything, just because i kept taking the easy way out and ran from respinsibilities. when i get myself out of this situation, ill probably forgive myself and be ok again.
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I don't like how I look at all. I'm oddly proportioned I guess as I've naturally got like well muscles legs but Toros and arms are just skinny. I refuse to go swimming cause I don't want to take my shirt off. More so now due to the scarring on my arm. I can't easily get to a point I'd be happy with due to health issues, depression and constant exhaustion. And well I hate myself pretty much. So yeah I avoid mirrors don't even use one for shaving. I just use the metal shower frame cause I don't have to see myself.
Yes but it's not something I think about, it's more like, I wanna do x thing, and then if I ever bothered to ask why, its because I enjoy that, and then if I ask why I want to do something I enjoy, It would have to be self care.
Aside from that I don't really contemplate my worth, be it positive or negative, too busy enjoying life or reaching goals.
Yes, but I have many regrets and that bothers me. I wish I could start over w/all the things I have learned from my mistakes but I can't. So all I can do is spread the word to these kids today to stop worrying about being cool, caring about wut other people think, and just do u!
I love myself because I'm above all of you and I'm the best person in the world but I hate myself because I'm a bad person and dont deserve to be loved
I adore myself, It doesn't look like it to people but I genuinely believe I love myself so much, I choose my comfort in all types of situations, I don't even properly assign blame to myself because of my ability to find infinite excuses and justification and most importantly "life lessons" in whatever situation I'm in
There are some things I really love about myself and some things not so much. I really wish I had an easier time staying on track or paying attention. I also wish I didn’t get nervous around new people because I really do like people and like having people close to me but when you move to a new city and get nervous around new people it makes it hard to make those connections.
People dont love themselves unless they know someone else loves them. We like to pretend it doesn't work like this but deep down, we need love from other people to love ourselves
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No If I made things that easy, nothing would get done Self loathing, bitterness, self-hatred and plain old spitefulness are great tools to keep you going
If you want someone to talk to and help you through this I'll give you my number. I won't judge you about anything, I just know how hard everything is when you hate yourself, I've been down that road and I can help you off of it.
@Tjw78 honestly, I don't know why I hate myself man, it's like for reason... Actually i think it's because when I used to try and talk to my mum and make jokes.. her replies was always negative like "stfu, that's not funny you idiot" And she always mean to me and calls me names and destroys my favourite possessions and jus makes me feel worthless, also because I was bullied in school and the friends I tried to have ignored me a lot
Also a lot of rejection from people online when I try to make friends or talk to people, which results in sadness.. so I feel it's best to jus never speak and avoid people
It is best to avoid some people, and online groups but you just haven't looked in the right places. Just focus on you, don't accept how someone else thinks of you as your truth.
@Tjw78 thanks, don't you think it's true tho that I'm an invaluable person if my own mum hates me? Cos if even my own mum hates me there must be some truth that I'm a shitty person
@Tjw78 like I try to be the best person I can or not annoy her.. but I keep making mistakes for example I do the hoovering wrong and she shouts at me and I feel like a downsyndrome retard who can't do anything right
What helps me the most is rejecting negative thoughts. As soon as they try to pop in my head I just try to think of something positive. If you stop thinking about them within a few seconds they won't linger in your subconscious and continue to pop into your head.
the poll ended up higher percentage of women not loving themselves than men. Which is what I would have guessed, women seem to deal more with mental health and self-esteem issues.
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