@LovingLoverReturned I am not going to talk down my wife, whom I love more than can be said. But I'm also not going to sit here and tell you, finances are a 2 way street in marriage. I do in fact make many times more than she does, and is likely to make given the nature of my high demand scalable field and vs hers.
I do not expect a woman to contribute any meaningful amount to marriage, That is not the proper role of a woman in my opinion. Her money exist to provide her with a greater sense of security and proof of her own accomplishments in my mind. I meanly stated that sometimes as with any relationship people forget that at the end of the day it all belongs to the team. This is normal.
If that’s the case.. you pay half the bills, she pays half.. if there is child support and he is a great father.. his money his money.. she has to go get hers
Not what she was asking: she's specifically asking if the money women earn is NOT to be shared (i. e., it's only hers), but a man must give all his money to the woman.
@ArchaicArachnid First, a man should not give all his money to a woman. Secondly, the woman should of course spend her own money for the needs of the house.
@Teztmd That sucks, can I have your pokemon collection? I'm missing all of them, and I can't save narnia from the one ring if I don't use a team lead by charizard to beat ganon and save the galaxy from the dark side of the moon.
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You sound like a man. I haven't heard any woman say this. Get a life sir
@douride2 it's so obvious when a man hides behind a woman account 🤣
Your skills of obseeving gender really suck. It's very creepy that you express your opinion with such confidence when you are wrong.
Sir, it's *observing. I stopped reading after you misspelled observing.
What a petty thing you are.
In my marriage it does seem to work that way sometimes.
Maybe it SEEMS so because you have the higher paying job? Even so, hopefully, it is not her actual mindset...
or maybe you don't know how she spends the money that benefits you doo, like in the home?
@LovingLoverReturned I am not going to talk down my wife, whom I love more than can be said. But I'm also not going to sit here and tell you, finances are a 2 way street in marriage.
I do in fact make many times more than she does, and is likely to make given the nature of my high demand scalable field and vs hers.
I do not expect a woman to contribute any meaningful amount to marriage, That is not the proper role of a woman in my opinion. Her money exist to provide her with a greater sense of security and proof of her own accomplishments in my mind. I meanly stated that sometimes as with any relationship people forget that at the end of the day it all belongs to the team.
This is normal.
Nice
This is why a lot of couples in the west stay broke. Put both piles of money together and you can achieve a lot.
Well some women are absolute leeches and bloodsuckers so it depends. If she is sensible it’s fine.
I've gotten used to it.
That's why I meanwhile keep something aside.
There's no abundance, but we always have what we need.
She better enjoy it while she has it. Can’t take it with her.
My ex was like this. She was shocked when we divorced and she had to pay her own bills, she had no idea what anything costs.
If that’s the case.. you pay half the bills, she pays half.. if there is child support and he is a great father.. his money his money.. she has to go get hers
this is a wrong point of view. The money earned should be spent jointly at home.
Not what she was asking: she's specifically asking if the money women earn is NOT to be shared (i. e., it's only hers), but a man must give all his money to the woman.
@ArchaicArachnid First, a man should not give all his money to a woman. Secondly, the woman should of course spend her own money for the needs of the house.
Stupid not cool at all very selfish all about herself.
God Bless
my money is my moneyhis money is his moneymy money is not his moneyBECAUSE I HAVE MORE MONEY
That sounds like the mindset of the majority of women from my age group and older.
That kind of mind set is basically a gold digger mind set.. It's bullshit and best avoided.
Women are working more than men now, but men still have to pay and Women still win half our shit in divorce. Spain dis to me
That thankfully it's not the normal, but it's a sign of financial abuse and control of the guy
I know several married couples who have this problem. It’s caused a lot of resentment.
I think it's a mindset that will make her be alone for the rest of her life.
I’m dead 💀
@Teztmd That sucks, can I have your pokemon collection? I'm missing all of them, and I can't save narnia from the one ring if I don't use a team lead by charizard to beat ganon and save the galaxy from the dark side of the moon.
Yes I of course it is. I don't see the question dose his credit cards in your purse count also 😀
No. Thats called trash. Next.
Trash is still useful
Yes for casual sex only.
No. I meant real trash. Lol
As for casual sex such women shouldn't be used. They don't even deserve to be used like a toy lol.
Agree to disagree. Thats the whole point.
Ok. Use the trash, touch and kiss it all you want. It's still gross to me
My money is my money, his money is my money, her money is my money, Their money is my money, your money is MY money.
Nahhh, we're gonna fight
@rosegirl08 And I'm gonna win
Nahhh. How)
How?*
I'm the government, so 😏
WHAT? Omg :0
@rosegirl08 Yep, all these bozos disagreeing don't even realize it lol
Might just up the cost of stuff again to show em
Wow :0
@rosegirl08 yeah I know, pretty awesome
Yes indeed
hippity hoppity ur money's now my property