Is it considered toxic femininity to discourage sexual assault victims from speaking up and using “think of how this will ruin him” as an excuse?

[CriticalCatDad]

Discouraging sexual assault victims from speaking up and using “think of how this will ruin him” as an excuse.

Yes

No

[Drewtate]

No but it is toxic femininity to say all women should be believed, that a man should be convicted without evidence, that a woman has the right to withdraw consent after sex, that a man cannot protest his innocence, that false accusers shouldn't be prosecuted and that women would never make false allegations.

[John_Cobretti]

He gave her a good time, why should she ruin his life in return?

[menina]

Yes, I believe it is. It's not the right thing to do. It's a way of showing disrespect towards sexual assault victims and protecting the abuser.

[katiesmuff]

Should never try to persuade a person from speaking up in a case of sexual assault.

[LadyKitty]

If someone is an actual sexual assault victim they need to speak up about it!

[ManInChains]

Absolutely