How to talk to a girl for the first time via Facebook?

[Anonymous]

How to talk to a girl you like for the first time over Facebook for teenagers. What to say?

[lapa5]

Introduce yourself, explain how you know her.

Ask questions about her like: last name, ask if she shares some of your interests, say where you might have met, how you spotted her, comment on some of her statuses or pictures (in the chat, not separately, example:Your summer pictures are so captivating, I dare say you might even rival my handsomeness. Don't stress too much with it, beauty is a burden as much as it is a gift, I would know. xD, try to use humor (even at your own expense)),

prepare an interesting link (a video, gif picture, site, preferably very funny, or in her area of interest) you could offer that she "must" see,

ask how her summer is going,

share your summer experience (it can be minor things like: sitting in front of the bathroom waiting because your brother showers 5 times a day, eating more melon then a normal human should be able to handle, meditating under the air conditioning, I can't give you wit, you need your own imagination. I can only give hints.) ,

scroll up and reference something she might have mentioned earlier,

mention people you both know,

tell her a silly story you might share with those same people (don't gossip),

try to be the one who leaves first ( I say "try", because the last thing you want to do is cut the conversation too short, on the other hand, forcing her to lie about having to go offline, because of you is quite bad.),

finally, only if she seems to respond well to you, and if she is participating in this conversation, try to suggest a place to hang out. Don't ask her out on a date, you don't her well enough to be able to expect "yes". Inviting her to a group outing is also a possibility.

If she stops the conversation, or if she is barely interested in responding (doing so very slowly), don't ask her to hang out. Just say bye and try talking again later.

[awesomelycrazy]

What I did (to the guy I liked), is went on and randomly said 'hi' on Facebook chat (you can add a smiley). If they respond, then just say 'sup?' and let the conversation continue from there... Just try to add things that are more than just a 'what's up', nothing much'... just keep the converstaion flowing, or else it gets awkward, even over the computer ;D

If you can't think of anything else to say, just say bye because that is probably better than no one talking...

If she asks you how you are, you might want to mention that you are very bored, because then it doesn't look right obvious that youare dying to talk to her lol :)

good luck!

[Anonymous]

what's up

hwo's your summer going

did you do anything

[khalidkhan]

hy i snd a reqst to girl she acept that and she message me hi i also message her how r u now what can i do remember i like her

[vishna]

hmm that's tricky, is it your first time talking to her or just communicating through Facebook ?

[Asker]

Talking. But she's a good friend of a girl I used to like and am still friends with. So she knows me but never really talked

[IAmMagical]

There aren't actually any specific rules, start by saying hi, and move on from there.

[Anonymous]

you can either message her, write on her wall, or instant message her.

[InMyHeart]

just say hi