Is it true that Western women do not respect their men?

Question

I heard the Western women control and emasculate the men. And that many western men are now afraid of marrying the women because of of it. How true is this?

shaysh87 · Accepted Answer

Women do not control or emasculate men. I will explain to you why these guys feel this way. There are a lot of beta males who cannot handle a woman with a good job, has high standards and knows what she wants. You need to understand that when a woman can financially survive very well on her own without a man, she can have higher standards compared to a woman who can't financially survive on her own. Poor women without a career or education cannot afford to be picky because without a man , she can't eat. These high standards and a woman who knows what she wants scares beta males. They see it as controlling or annoying or entitled or too loud.

And I will tell you something about men, especially beta males, they like women THEY CAN CONTROL. Vast majority of beta males tend to like shy, submissive , obedient women , because it makes them feel more confident (than they really are), and fill up their void of masculinity that they do not have. The more beta he is, the more likely he's desperate for submissive obedient woman. Even the thought of a woman having full power to leave him whenever she wants, scares him and makes him feel uncomfortable.

This is why many of these beta males say they want to marry foreign women because they're more obedient, submissive, loyal or the type of woman who takes off his shoes and kisses his feet everyday when he comes home. These "foreign women" tend to be raised in a patriarchal society where women are usually deprived of a college education, no opportunity for a decent career and cannot financially survive on her own. This is why these women tend to cave in more to their husband's demands. You can't argue with the man who feeds you. Its always his needs that comes first , not yours. He doesn't see her as an equal in the relationship.

These guys will never be worth my time for a relationship. I'd rather have my man see me as an equal rather than someone he can control or have power over. I dont want to be the only person serving him my whole life. I would like to be served too by him. I don't want his needs to be prioritized over mine. I don't like to be ordered around on a daily basis to do anything that suits him. I am my own person with my own particular thoughts and feelings.

England4eva · Accepted Answer

I’m western and I love men. I have so much respect for the ones employed to take care of us women. Unfortunately, I’ve seen so many cases of women emasculating their men... not to point score or anything, but I’ve equally seen men belittling and berating their women.

I have no other culture I’m educated enough in, to compare with. I always just pressured it was a personality weakness of both sexes. I. e The weak men would accept sh&t from a demanding, vile woman and a weak woman would accept sh&t from a hostile, arrogant guy?

Id be interested to know how other cultures operate on a general basis.

Lionman95 · Accepted Answer

I´d say sort of but truth to be told the lack of respect is vice versa. Western society has overdone the idea of liberalism that led to a point that a clear definition of what masculinity and what feminity is got lost. Like what is a man? I grew up with a father but one that was the bread winner in the family and one that didn´t go dating in modern terms.
I said the lack of respect is vice versa because western society has destroyed any kind of reasons to commit to a relationship. Like seriously with a concept like friends with benefits the whole necessity of marrying has been heavily reduced because friends with benefits or open relationship give a guy that opportunity to have sex as much as he wants with literally no consequences at his side.
Like 50/60 years ago when you got a woman pregnant you married her, now you ask her to an abortion which gives you the opportunity to move on if you like to.
So women loose their respect and in interest in men.
Besides that there is a growing of guys seem to be helpless but they are often introverted, shy and lack social skills or other personal skills that keep them from success in dating.
So I wouldn´t say that guys are generally intimated but there is a split between guys and women otherwise platforms like this would be unnecessary.

bamesjond0069 · Accepted Answer

I mean thats the norm. Not all of us are like that. Some men aren't little girls and aren't afraid to put our women in their place.

Its not the womens fault because women are basically too much of a child to be responsible for their actions. Its the fathers and husbands mainly. If the dad teaches the daughter to walk all over men then thats what she will do. And when these cuck ass men marry women who have zero marriage value it just perpetuates the myth this is ok. But also you have our politicians totally simping for single moms in terms of marriage laws.

Sorry but you could be the most manly of men the way the laws are set up upon marriage your wife now fully controls the entire situation and you are now nothing but a pet. Marriage in a normal country does not equal marriage in the US and some other countries. Thats what i think is so dumb. This "man up and marry its traditional and moral thing to do" but in light of the laws its immoral and the wrong thing to do. It ensures you will most likely divorce.

Jabberjaw · Answer

Yes and no

It's not a Western Woman thing in my opinion, but it is fair to say that culturally at least in America a woman is not often taught to honor and respect her man.

So many women disrespect men unless the guy checks certain boxes for her. Girls like that you don't want to fuck with because it means her positive traits aren't genuine.

They're conditional to her mood and how she feels about you. That's why for me a girl throws up a red flag when she treats other dudes like shit if she doesn't find them attractive or of use.

That's a lot of women actually

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I'm married for over a decade, and I've dealt with my wife trying to, but I'm a real fucking asshole... I'm bigger, faster, tougher, stronger, and smarter. Looking at the dating market around me though that's exactly how it looks. These chicks henpeck the crap out of their men and turn them into male bitches. And chicks can get mad at me for saying that all they want, because I could beat their dudes up so they need to shut the fuck up. These chicks made their men that weak and pathetic. The sad part is most of these dudes that are weak, had no Dad or had a weak buck broken Dad that was also getting henpecked. It's sad. All that femdom bullshit can kiss my hairy ass.

SimpleGuy95 · Answer

I wouldn´t say they are not respecting guys because they often actually are. But due to the development that more and more women step up in nearly all parts of society and due to the tendency that guys that women kind of have over-taken especially parts of society like the whole part of raising children guys have completely left that.
I just think that the understanding of a man and what a woman is got completely lost because it nowadays like women have taken of the role of the providers because guys encouraged and let them so to speak.
Like nowadays it seems like women are the care-takers/providers and also doing the housework and guys are doing something in between also wanting to be the breadwinner while figuring out what masculinity is.
Both are not content with the situation.
But that´s just my view and I think depends where you come from because western culture differs depending on the country and background you have.

TrueConfection · Answer

I think we have become a "ME" society. More and more people are putting themselves first and often seem to forget that other people even exist. My husband and I were just discussing this yesterday. There is an entire generation of people now that are so arrogant, narcissistic, and disrespectful. Women AND men share the responsibility on many levels.

2facedfa1ry · Answer

no, litterally no one tries to castrate & control their bfs unless they're abusive or something. And the only guys who are like 'oh women these days are ruined' are litterally almost always some type of incel (there's lots of people like that on here, but they're a very small minority in real life though)

JW502 · Answer

This is absolutely true...
Females 40 years ago respected their husband's and that's why marriages lasted 30+ years. The females today only care about getting what they want in the moment. I'm not saying it's their fault, but it's a fact. That's why so many Western men are going over seas to find wives, where the ladies are being manicured to be wives by their families.

See in America for the man, there is no incentive to be married. The contract between two people now benefits the woman heavily. If that contract was to break, the man usually has to lose his house, pay child support, or alimony, or both. It honestly isn't worth it to be married anymore for men in the USA.

amandat94132 · Answer

Equal respect , no one controls the other

I saw my Aunt become a shell of her former self when she
became an Independent Baptist , no respect from her than
husband , he called her " the wife" not by her name

No one likes disrespect , not anyone, relationships should
be based on mutual respect not vying for control

Hellodownthere · Answer

True to a degree. Feminism hasn't done western women a whole lot of good. No way I'd ever marry again. I wouldn't even invite one to share my home the way they act these days. They want too much from a man while giving little back to him in return. And this isn't born out of a bad experience I've had with women, even though I've had them. It's purely from observation, from listening to women speak and watching how they behave with other men.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

That is the opinion that gets expressed by butthurt snowflake boys who got rejected and didn't know what to do about it.

Reaper1985 · Answer

in modern western culture there are less males being raised to be husbands/fathers and less females being raised to be wives/mothers. many people would rather just have short term flings over long term commitments.

however the rising divorce rates and chances that a guy will get his life ruined by courts. over outdated relationship and/or parenthood laws also play a role to some degree.

dustybiker · Answer

Some men choose to behave in a way that will get this reaction. Yes. All men? Not at all. Want respect, earn respect. Both sides.

Confusedashell123 · Answer

I am a western woman and I want to be respected to I treat my other half with respect. I only have friends in couples who do the same but I’d say the world is the same the whole world over. If people are going to be disrespectful they’re going to do it no matter their nationality

Anonymous · Answer

Whenever men say stuff like blaming feminism and western women and how terrible or evil women are or that they are gold digging prostitutes instead of owning up to themselves its absolutely no surprise that these men won't earn any respect. Shocking isn't it?

I am way more surprised how women aren't hating men after all that. How do the women manage to not hate men?

Whatever2929292 · Answer

For some women yea that is true and it really goes both ways. A lot of men also don't respect women and women don't respect their man. It ends pretty bad most relationships do because they aren't in it for love. Many people are in it for sex and/or money or are in it only for their own emotional, physical, etc needs

ManOnFire · Answer

Yes and no. We do have women here who are more traditional and women who regard men as men, but in the larger demographic American women don't. The reason being that our culture has been poisoned by Caucasian feminism for decades, which has been about competing with men to prove that women are "strong" and "powerful" to the point where they have little to no regard or respect for who men are.

Anonymous · Answer

I think because attractive women have so many options they want an easy out, and if they’re in control of the relationship, it’s easier for them to exit because they have the power.

It’s pretty effed, especially for us dudes that just want to have and get along with someone. We don’t want drama or any of that. Like if you like me, just accept me for who I am and let’s enjoy our time and get on with our lives. That’s it.

KelleyNice · Answer

There are efforts in that direction. That is why little boys in public school are drugged, supposedly because they are hyperactive, and indoctrinated to be obedient and passive. And, why colleges have become a hostile environment for young men.

Anonymous · Answer

My wife has me in chastity and controls everything, so on one hand you're correct. On the other, She is smarter, makes more money, has more power and influence, and I believe I'm privileged to serve Her needs. Yes, that makes me a simp, but so what? I'm cared for, and I do everything She wants and fill Her needs without Her having to ask. We're both very happy.

BCA6010 · Answer

Pfft. I think there's a very heavy-handed trend of people in general not respecting each other, a byproduct of a culture that celebrates idolatry and self-righteousness.

Intothevoid666 · Answer

They don’t and they refuse to accept they don’t let alone make up for it. They don’t even want to understand how men work because then they’d have to accept responsibility for their shitty behaviors and attitudes

EssenceOfLight · Answer

My teen love didn't really respect me, it was my fault because I was too immature to get respect. Maybe some men in Islamic countries miss this important lesson, because they get superficial respect from girls unconditionally. Nevertheless I think, social norm pressure is one thing but human nature is another. At the end everyone gets they deserve.

MCheetah · Answer

Controlling them and financially draining their men? It's somewhat true.

exitseven · Answer

I think that there are some men who do not deserve respect. How they got that way is still up for debate.

whirled_up_girl · Answer

I can only speak for myself. I would never be in a relationship without mutual respect. A relationship where respect only goes one way would not be a healthy one in my view.

Slartybartfast · Answer

I think they have all been brainwashed subconsciously to hate men by constant male bashing in school and on television.  Men simply aren't valued.

Wonderwhat · Answer

From my perspective I am treated kindly from western women. I think they do respect their men. The only time I see them disrespect a man is when the man is speaking inappropriately to them.

AssholeNumberOne · Answer

No. How much respect a person shows depends on the person, not their nationality.

boxxie2002 · Answer

I feel they take men for granted more and expect things. I found that the more you do the less respect you get and the more that is expected of you

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

The scariest part about it is you can't always know if they're doing it on purpose or if they don't even realise they're doing it.

This_Is_My_Opinion8 · Answer

No idea where you heard that.  1. We are not weak to let them emasculate us. 2. They don't try to it in the first place.

Jackblue · Answer

Proverbs 21:9, women making their man feel emasculated is nothing new or unique to Western women. Women regard their men as lazy slobs, men regard women as nagging scolds. It is the way of the world. We just get along as best we can.

RandomGuy1030 · Answer

In my experience women in Russia are more respectful. Western women, candidly, can be fucking annoying.

Elliegirl · Answer

Not true. I respect my man sooo much!!

MzAsh · Answer

Respect needs to be earned properly first. When men deserve respect, they’ll know how to get it.

Juxtapose · Answer

It's a bit of an over generalization but has a lot of truth to it.

EnglishEuropean · Answer

If a woman can "emasculate" you, you weren't very masculine to begin with.

Abdulwahh · Answer

Well i can't speak for all but in my view most modern women try to control their men instead of submit

Anonymous · Answer

Yes its true. Every step east you take it gets better. If you circle the earth you will be treated like a god. But only if you go around eastward. Go west and you're a demon.

Ghostluck · Answer

Yes, women in the Western world do attempt to do this, which has caused a huge distrust and divide among women and men. It's why men no longer trust women. Women have become the enemy.

sofia444 · Answer

Not an American women but I think they are more opinionated and independent.

anylolone · Answer

I don't think nowdays there's much respect at all in the west. But also in the whole world.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

That is very true and ofc the gals gonna deny it as expected.

Anonymous · Answer

What do you mean by not respecting, emasculating and controlling them?

OddBeMe · Answer

Yes, in america, in our third year of marriage they cut our balls off. Traditons… No fck head.

Anonymous · Answer

Not all women, but some do. We don't fear our men like some cultures do

Anonymous · Answer

Very true, most western women seems to be feminists sadly.

Anonymous · Answer

It is absolutely true. Western women are a total shit show and disrespectful as fuck.

Anonymous · Answer

It's not just western women, that's why there is so much distrust and a big divide among genders after you learn a little bit about the opposite sex. Men don't want to get cheated on and neither do women. But a lot do.

boggboss · Answer

Depends what part of the Internet u vist I guess

Waldoe · Answer

I only find Asian women attractive, this may be the reason...

Shy_Steve · Answer

Any Woman is capable of not respecting a Man, You can't just blame Western Women.

IsoUser · Answer

I personally don't care in what you believe in what you want.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Lol loads of social media bollox 😂😂😂😂😂

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe the men they have now. But I'm still single so I wouldn't know

Anonymous · Answer

Liberalism is a mental disorder.

Anonymous · Answer

women do not care about men  I tell the men just rape them  they deserve it  tons of men are opting out of dating

ArtemisSilver · Answer

Essentially this is the case.

HopefulGuy94 · Answer

Hahahah I am dyin' lol

Xtendable · Answer

That is a generalised perspective

dudeinohio · Answer

In many cases this is true.

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