Girls, Why do most Girls risk Getting Cheated on or worse by a Confident Guy instead of a Nice Shy Guy who most Probably wouldn't?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

”Probably wouldn’t do it”. Yeah right. Only reason they wouldn’t do it would be if they couldn’t because nobody else wanted them. I know ”nice shy guys”, I even know nice, shy, ugly and nerdy guys who were depressed for years because they couldn’t get a girlfriend. Guess what, once they actually found a girlfriend all of them have reached out to me and/or my friends to try to cheat. Asking to meet up, sending half naked pictures of themselves in bed and what not. Yeah shy guys who you’d never think dare do stuff like that. Guys that seem nice, but turn out to be fake. It’s as if they change completely when they get a girlfriend and now think suddenly all women will want them so they try their luck… And mind you I’ve never had sex, kissed or even talked about sex with these guys before and most of them I only went on 1 first date with years or months before. So what you’re saying is complete bullshit. My experience is that the shy, nice guys are the worst kind of guy. They try to fool you into thinking they’re better than they are and they can put on an act for months or even years before revealing their true selves. Sometimes I don’t even think they’re acting, they just legit change their whole personality when they get a partner. Confident/outgoing guys are often shit too but they’re more often honest or upfront about it or show their true colors sooner so they’re easier to weed out fast.

[EllaNella]

yes nice guy syndrome can really fuck a friendship up

[Blackcosmo]

Confidence and shyness have nothing to do with loyalty.

[Asker]

Why do most Girls ignore Shy Guys and go after Confident Guys then?

[Blackcosmo]

Maybe their outgoing nature is more attractive to some girls. There's nothing wrong with having preferences.

[EllaNella]

shyness and loyalty do not correlate

[Asker]

So your saying every Shy Guy cannot be loyal?

Confidence and Trust do not correlate either.

[EllaNella]

i never said that, i said shyness and loyalty are traits that people express independtly from one another
just like loyalty and confidence

[Asker]

You said Shyness and loyalty don't correlate, Now your saying they do, I don't understand.

[EllaNella]

do you know what correlation means?

[Asker]

So a Shy Guy cannot be loyal while he is Shy, So according to you a Confident Guy cannot be loyal while he is Confident.

[EllaNella]

can you please answer my question because i'm wondering wether i should explain correlation to you

[Asker]

a mutual relationship or connection between two or more things.

[EllaNella]

exactly. correlation would mean, that a person who is very shy would also be very loyal, and a confident person would be unloyal. saying these traits do not correlate does not mean that they cannot coexist, it just means that they are not connected.
you can be shy and loyal but that does not mean that shyness means that a person is loyal

[Asker]

It also doesn't mean Confident Guys are more Loyal than Shy Guys.

[EllaNella]

i never said that

[Asker]

I know you didn't say that, But why are most Girls known to go after a Confident Guy instead of a Shy Guy then, Because as you said there is no Correlation between Confidence and loyalty and/or trust?

[Anonymous]

Shy guys can and do cheat too.

[Asker]

I didn't say they don't, But there would be more Confident Guys that Cheat than Shy Guys.

[Opinion Owner]

Based on what evidence?

[Asker]

Based on every Guy I have ever met.

[Asker]

I have seen more Confident Guys than Shy Guys Cheat and I have seen more Shy Guys who are really Nice get ignored by Women.

[Opinion Owner]

So only anecdotal evidence which cannot be proven true, nor represents anyone at large. So, you have nothing.

[Asker]

What, So they just act like that in front of me do they?

[Opinion Owner]

I can't even verify if they exist, much less how they act. So without actuwk evidence, your argument means absolutely nothing.

[Asker]

That's probably true, But so does yours.

[Opinion Owner]

I haven't made a claim, I've only ststed objective fact that shy guys can and do cheat. That's beyond contestation.

But you however, did make claims that cannot be verified and even if verified, are at best anecdotal and are not sufficient to draw proper conclusions.