How to not let it bother you when a female stranger acts like you’re a danger?

[Anonymous]

I have anxiety so I get nervous when that crap happens

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+1 y

I guess some girls are scared in public because of some stuff what happens on the news, so how can I let this not bother me

[irmaavila301]

Why would a girl be randomly scared or a guy. Are you scary looking? Do you stare? I’m confused

[Asker]

No but I have dark skin and there’s no hiding prejudice. Today a white man was starring at me, I could care less about that. I gave him the look wtf are you looking at. The girl I wasn’t looking at her but she kept getting out of her seat. Maybe she wasn’t paranoid maybe she just kept moving

[irmaavila301]

Are you sure you are not just being paranoid? Of course I don’t know how it is to be a dark skin male so I don’t know how you get treated. But if people are acting this way towards you, that says a lot about them and it’s their own issues they need to work on. No one should ever make you feel uncomfortable because of your skin tone.

[Asker]

I’m also a huge man and quiet so. 6”5 250

[Asker]

No I’m not paranoid. A few days ago I went out to eat and the waitress didn’t even serve me. She served the white people.

[Chaser3232]

If you’re minding you own business, then that’s their issue!