If a girl has a high body count and I reject her entirely that reason alone, is that okay? (Page 2)

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Recently, I started dating someone new and we have gotten along very well. We started clicking on all levels, built chemistry and then she asked my body count. I said “only 3” and then she started laughing and said “20.” I then sent her a message the following day about deciding to work on myself and she accused me of being misogynistic and hypocritical “typical guy.” Then called me an “a$$hole.” For obviously rejecting her due to having a high body count.

Miristheiss · Answer

You can reject someo e for any reason.

Fleeing women that sleep around is wise. What is special about being number 21? Nothing. It is kind of gross. She is most likely lying anyway.

Double the number a girl confesses to.

Sebby84 · Answer

I think you both of you are somewhat wrong…. she had no need to call you those names. Its good you were honest nobody can fault you on that however if you liked her and there was a spark id have let it go. But if you can't get past it thats totally your choice name calling wasn’t necessary

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not quite sure why this is so hard for people to grasp, but you reserve the right to reject anyone for any reason at any time. There is literally no moral concept for a "wrong" reason to reject someone. ANY reason is legit.

If you don't want a girl who's fucked 20 different dicks, that's cool. Next time, maybe ask about that sooner then.

AvaW359 · Answer

Why do you imagine that you will get the real number? She could have said 2.. This is a question only a dumb asshole could ask.

LazerBean · Answer

I wouldn't date anyone who slept around either. It's okay as long as you don't have a high body count yourself.

Joris1998 · Answer

In my opinion the bodycount matters. I want to be with a woman that never had slept with another guy before. But on the other hand, I find it hypocrite if a promiscuous guy would demand what I just said. Women may have gotten more promiscuous these days, but it'll never compete with the promiscuity of men. That's why I want to keep virginity until marriage. My partner and I share the same opinion about that.
Virginity is in my opinion the most beautiful gift a wife can offer.

LexiXide · Answer

If she treats you well done you shouldn't have let her go

Sour-rose · Answer

well that's not very nice to call you that... buuuut it ain't nice either to judge someone like so.

vald9inches · Answer

I mean you should have been straight forward with her and told her that you are conservative and have religious beliefs so she would know not to spend time on you but instead you wasted each other's time

Sarahplus2 · Answer

Let's be honest here. Are you looking for a virgin? At least she is honest, i think less history and more mystery is the way to go.

Anonymous · Answer

Ha. I bet you are not the first guy who rejected her cause of that. She got agressive with you quickly. I dunno why some girls think that having a high body count is some positive thing that men should admire about them. Guys totally want a relationship with hookers..

So, yeah, why wouldn't it be okay to reject her because of this?

She'll end up dating someone who also has a high body count and doesn't care, or someone she lies to about it and he believes her.

Anonymous · Answer

You have every right to reject any girl for their sexual past if that's a dealbreaker for you. I will say just be nice when saying it. Some guys call out those girls badly to their faces.

But she also has rights to her life so you cannot judge, you two are just not compatible. Now, most people can't handle rejections well, especially girls who always make huge deals out of rejections.

DirkCoenen · Answer

Consider me old fashioned, but I am, and will remain a virgin untill I get married. I will reject any girl who does not share those values.

jhl_x · Answer

It's your preference, and you should be able to act based on it, no matter how bad it might be. I don't need to develop it any further.

Rainstorm2022 · Answer

She's accustomed to a different lifestyle than you are. If that means you're incompatible, then you're incompatible.

LeeannaDD · Answer

You have the right to choose who you want ro have sex with for any reason. Even if its a silly one.

litty · Answer

I mean, ultimately, you rejected her because you don't respect her. In it's own way, laughing at you for having slept with 3 people is judgmental on her part.

Sum1Else · Answer

I enjoy when women have a higher body count than I do, which is most iif not all of them. I like their "expereince"

Phoenix98 · Answer

That's perfectly acceptable no one wants to be with someone who's slept with half the city you live in.

affectioncrave · Answer

That's okay in my opinion. I mean that's a rather telling sign about their relationship with sex.¯\_(ツ)_/¯

TacosRAwesome · Answer

You can reject someone for whatever reason you want. Seriously you can reject someone if they eat pizza wrong if it bothers you enough.

Anonymous · Answer

You are completely free to reject anyone for any or even no reason. The sign in the picture is ridiculous; you dont get to choose how other people value you.

genericname85 · Answer

20 isn't that much if you think about it. you can rack that up in like one month of being promisquous.

Becky316 · Answer

I don't judge on body count, I judge on character, personality and how they treat me and others

Sixgunsound · Answer

You can reject anybody for any reason before a marriage contract.

collie22 · Answer

you should date who you want for your own reasons :)

AviatorTom · Answer

There's nothing wrong with setting standards for yourself, and then following them.

MikeInHawaii · Answer

Keep in mind, though, one time, unprotected, with a guy with herpes may be worse than 20 guys who all wore condoms.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

If she has a high body count than just keep her as a play thing until a real woman comes along.

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

Well your body count is not high.. So when you want a girl in the same range... There's nothing wrong or douchey about it..

DarkWinterNights · Answer

You only have 3. Why can’t that be important to you?

Anonymous · Answer

I reject any woman with a high body count period. Don't feel bad about it, she'd reject you for wearing red shoes.

exitseven · Answer

Everyone has preferences and expectations. You like what you like.

Kelly6 · Answer

You are not wrong in doing that because it’s your choice

Lickmymeet · Answer

There are truly some sub human disgusting pigs in this world who voted A that’s nasty Lana Rhodes , Mia khalifa that high body count shit catches up with you and most men with even a grain of self respect are repulsed by it

Anonymous · Answer

Regardless of what sluts and whores want to tell people to believe with stupid little signs and whiny posts online... A female loses value ever time a new dick is put inside her.

AimeeKyle · Answer

You do you. If that is disturbing to you, then I would ask those questions fairly early in a relationship.

smilelots · Answer

At the very least she has experience right ,, If you like her or him really should it matter as long as there safe and clean.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

Clearly someone with a body count of 20 isn’t that dedicated to finding a suitable partner for marriage. And so for that reason, we just have fundamentally different interests at hand.

Chthou95 · Answer

There's nothing wrong with that. You can reject her for that. Even if you had a high body count yourself you could still reject her considering getting laid as a man takes a lot of work

NoUsernameSelected · Answer

You can do whatever. I wouldn't marry her. But I would date her.

Pohjolan · Answer

You are free to reject a woman because she doesn't own a tractor. How sensible that is is another question.

msc545 · Answer

That girl dodged a bullet - you. You judged her on things that happened long before you came along, dumbshit.

OddBeMe · Answer

Logically or morally, no. Its like being sexually attracted to a race or not. Its a preference thats influenced by your upbringing/society.

anton_dee · Answer

It's your choice.  If it was the other way round would she? If you are poor, would she accept be with you?

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

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Tornado92 · Answer

I slept lost count that's why I only date younger 21 year old woman they r fun !!!  I joined threesome with college girls  Unlike 30 year old Karen's boring!!!

Stevefiveo · Answer

How can you take a girl seriously with a high body count?

animesenpai · Answer

You're entitled to have preferences. Other people don't need to like it but you are entitled to them

dolemite89 · Answer

of course it’s ok, a lot of girls now a days won’t take any accountability for their bad decisions

Mgtow1990 · Answer

No because the likelihood of her cheating is much higher

TallAnon · Answer

Nah, do what you are comfy with, fuck anything else.

Joker_ · Answer

her body count must be exceptional if you rejected her entirely for that reason

noohair · Answer

At this point, you are still free to think whatever you want, no matter how stupid it is.

captain_voidwalker · Answer

Its 100% fine and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Zolly99999 · Answer

You have absolutely ever right to do what you did. You are a re not happy why be with them...

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Not wrong. You are entitled to your preference assuming you don't have a high body count too.

Slim57 · Answer

That's fine no-one wants an animal with no self control

Anonymous · Answer

I'd definitely get a 20pt inspection before putting my dick anywhere near that kind of millage

Anonymous · Answer

No, that is weak and childish.

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