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If a girl has a high body count and I reject her entirely that reason alone, is that okay? (Page 2)
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I don’t get why people care so much about body count, in my opinion the only relevance it has is when it comes to sexual health, and sexual experience, but as long as somebody had been regularly tested while sexually active with several partners and aren’t pressuring you into anything you don’t want to do, then why do people care?
If I was dating a boy tomorrow and he told me he’d slept with twenty girls previously (which honestly wouldn’t happen because I don’t think I’d even care to ask) I’d be like ok and?
And it really doesn’t matter if it’s a boy or a girl who cares
That’s just my opinion
Sorry, my young man. If you had grown up when I did, it was still okay to have standards back then. It was called preference, which in today's world, if you have a preference you are deemed a fascist. Think for one moment, you live in a world where if you as a straight male, say you will not date nor even consider dating transgenders, you are homophobic or some other radical term. So, if that makes you homophobic, what does something as small as having an issue with how many people somebody has slept with make you? Damn her for you not wanting to risk sleeping with somebody who has a much higher chance of having a sexually transmitted disease than you do. Don't worry about it, man. I have been cussed out for simply telling a woman I wasn't interested before. Get used to it, as much as some women claim men can't take rejection, you best believe that women can't either.
I think this is very interesting idea, but your question may be flawed.
What if her body count was 1, but her ex was swinging a huge dick, and rough fucked her every day, multiple times a day, for several years?
In terms of use, 20 guys, 3 times each, doesn't even compare.
If use was an issue, I would avoid people who were in healthy, long-term sexual relationships. It's every day for those people, especially at our age range.
But yeah, you can reject her for whatever reason you want. The hell? It's your choice. Also, there are far less trivial issues than sexual history, and this is coming from a person with a body count that is way higher than hers.
On the flip side, you may miss out on an amazing person. Body count may not be as important as you think it is, but if that's a make-or-break for you, then that's what it is.
@youngmix exactly!! 💯💯💯 Like you said what if she was only with one guy with a really huge cock and they had rough sex non stop every day and night for 20 years? It would be hypocritical of him if he didn't date her
@vald9inches LOL
He wouldn't find out until it was too late.
How about this? Since she has only been with one guy, this is all that she knows, sex *is* this. She expects sex to be huge dick rough sex. If she got into it, and this was the way she has sexually developed, and this is how her body defined orgasm causing behavior, then she probably won't even know that she needs to tell the new guy what she likes.
The new guy will just give her an underwhelming experience, and she's going to have to readjust greatly.
In a long-term relationship, people get *deep* into their kinks. So we're talking about some pretty extreme domination and intensity. I think the new guy would be playing catch up from day 1.
For me, that is a challenging act to follow. Someone with a kink that is fine-tuned to another person's kink for a long period of time, especially if the majority of their sexuality is defined through this one person. It can be a very specific set of desires. It would be like having sex with that other person as well, their kink is radiating out of this person that you think is inexperienced, but they are not inexperienced. Their experience is just focused upon a very specific path, and it revolved around a single other human.
I would much rather be with a person who has a wide array of experiences, as I believe that can create a far more flexible position to explore from.
@youngmix yup hahaha his small dick won't even compare she will think he has some kind of medical problem or birth defect! Lmfao 😂🤣🤣
More than likely she will just cheat on him with a man that has a huge cock and fucks her hard and rough the way she likes and is used to
@vald9inches
I think if the old guy comes around, then she's going back. New guy better hope that the other dude never wants to give her some side action, because she will be creeping.
@youngmix oh you know her ex will definitely be wanting to give her some action on the side especially with how unsatisfied she will be with the new guy lol
He is going to beg and wish to find a girl with a high body count after that lol
It is perfectly fine. But it's also fine for women to reject men for their high body count as well. Simply because hook up culture has made many people outright stupid about sex. Pretty much no one sets out to get a STD or have a unwanted pregnancy. Yet both men and women can be so damn stupid about sex they are basically asking for both. So men and women can sleep around all they want. Just don't expect me to not think you are a dumb ass for doing so.
You can reject anyone on any basis you want. Some things we're rejected for we have control over and others we don't. It just means that person isn't for us and that's ok. Personally for me a high body count would also be a reason to reject a guy, it tells much more about a person than just how many people he slept with... it shows his morals and attitude to life, love and his own body.
Depends on what your own values and must not haves are. I think it's fine if you don't like country girls. We all have our preferences.
Hmmm, the down voter must like girls who sleep around and have taken on the whole football team. You might also question what their own body count is.
If you have a belief that living a moral life is one of the best things to do then obviously elicit sex does not meet those standards. No one wants to but sometimes it is necessary to make those decisions. I think you are doing the best thing for your conscious and your general welfare and health.
In my opinion It's really just personal preference it's perfectly fine if you're not comfortable with being with someone who is premiscuious and/or have had a lot of partners. If you were to have deliberately told her that you didn't want anything to do with her BECAUSE of her sexual history than yes I would consider this extremely rude. I agree with the comment previous to mine, age is definietly a factor the older you get obviously the more partners you will have had so you should definietly take that into account. I personally care about how many partners someone has been with if i'm considering getting involved with them. I'd say i'm fair but if it's a ridiculous amount i'll politely decline. It's just a major turn off for me plus I feel like the more partners they've had the more likely it is for them cheat for whatever reason.
IMHO I think you're okay to feel that way. You have a preference, just like someone can find someone attractive, but someone else might think they're not. I've always been in long-term relationships, so I don't have a high body count. However, some of the guys I dated did. I hope this doesn't sound conceited, but I've dated many good-looking guys, so it was a no-brainer that they'd had multiple partners. It didn't bother me, though, and I didn't want to know how many there were. I don't know. She kind of sounds off anyway. Why call you a "typical guy" and laugh about your body count? It makes me think someone else probably had an issue with it, and that's why she got all butthurt.
I do know matemathics, if you have an equal amount of guys and girls, and we don't count gay sex, it would be the same average. If you actually did include the full population. When you start excluding people you will she changes in one direction or the other. And then you need to ask what are you really trying to research? Because you are only proving the difference within a group. Not the whole population.
I do belive the context on it is importent
But if someone switch a lot for there age I guess they can't seem to hold a relashinsip for long that can be a red flag if you want more
And I dont think its worng man or woman to be effected by there past and deciding based on that
If you read the books of acient jewish law, you will find it was considered shameful to turn a women's request for sexual attention down. I think it was based on you not being willing to help her fulfill her punishment after being evicted from the Garden. With HPV concerns there is some creedence to the shoe concept.
Is she applying for a job and be working for you? No. There is no law saying that you are not allowed to reject someone based on how many sexual partners they had. It's acceptable in full. It's not misogynistic and it's not descrimination by law.
1. You did nothing wrong.
2. In answer to your question, that is a perfectly acceptable reason to reject. Almost ANY reason is an acceptable reason to reject. Your rejection is your business no matter what the reason.
3. She was an immature, bitchy slut. Dumping her is the right thing.
You're not wrong and, in my opinion, it's the correct thing to do. Sex for women evolved for it to be a bonding activity, women can be usually more emotionally involved in sex. Which makes sense since women historically had more to lose (pregnancy). If a woman has slept with 12 guys, it's possibly going to be harder for that bond to be there.
It’s a personal choice really.
if it’s what someone wants then they should stick to it.
They should however have a specific number if doing this.
if not it’s just hypocrisy in the end.
What is your max body count number, 3, 4, 5 ?
its your choice, if you dont mind then happy days, if it bugs you and you can't deal with it then happy days. you dont owe anything to a person youve not long met.
not trying to cast aspersions but her reaction to your reaction is the reason I would be happy to walk away, if someone can switch and call you an asshole and typical guy just like that, well, that says more about their personality than how much sex theyve had.
You can reject a woman for any reason you want, regardless of what anyone else thinks. If you didn't feel comfortable dating her because of her body count, then it would have been a mistake to do it. I will tell you this- I've never asked a woman for her body count or been asked for mine.
I think it's fine to judge bodycount if there's good reasoning behind it. If the guy/girl who judges has a high body count and judges someone for also having one for example then they're in the wrong for sure. For me, I view sex as a very intimate thing, and I wouldn't go that far until we are in a comitted relationship. I couldn't date someone who didn't share those views.
It's your decision cos you alone why you did reject the fellow. Probably I would in some cases cos I will think she is loose, cheap, a whore, or f*cking bitch but unfortunately love sees beyond all these things. Human past should not determine their present situation.