Whether or not she likes you is unclear. What I can say is that she is being really rude and disrespectful to you. The best case scenario, provided that her friend knew of you beforehand , is that the friend liked you but was scared to initiate —so this girl got you to meet up with them for her. The girl who invited you is playing games and no matter what the intentions are, someone who tries to play games with another person will not be a good partner to date. I wouldn’t give her your time
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You seem to like her but she’s hot and cold, bipolar, don’t know what she wants type. So beat it and Never look back. Unless you wanna be her friend 😑
Females that want a partner in crime will talk a married woman into cheating, you didn't have friends for her friends and that was probably why you got cock blocked all by itself. She may have turned you down directly due to her friend's influence... women tend to go along to get along.
With all that said, what was the group setting for the meetup... were some of the same influences around? If you want a chance you got to get with her 1 on 1, simply put.
My guess would be that she expects you to initiate the convo with her, and in a group bro you have to act like you're a G, like you're the main guy, just be smart and loud and funny, that's it, but to ease your mind a bit about what she thinks in terms of liking you, I think she likes you but not enough, so again she's still unsure, do what I said in the 1st 4.5 sentences I typed and you'll be good my man
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She invited you out then never spoke to you?
Move on. Best case scenario, she's so unsure of herself she can't make a move - such a passive partner isn't fun to deal with. Worst case, she's only invited you out as a dare and is using you.
Just firmly tell her you're not interested.She could want to keep you as back-up while she pursues other guys and eventually make herself available to you when it's convenient to her (all else has failed). Assuming that you would still want her.
Perhaps she genuinely is not romantically attracted to you but she likes your aura and feels like you two could be good friends.
The only way to know for sure is if you ask her point-blank.
She’s playing with you. If you like being a toy, play along. If you don’t, ignore her. She obviously doesn’t respect you and she’ll either grow bored of you or she’ll dump you when she gets a better offer.
She seems wishy-washy, immature and untrustworthy. She doesn't know what she wants, changes her mind every day and listens to her friends too much. Move on while you still can, before you end up getting hurt
Bmemes you said she Rejected you, you also say than in a group setting, she never spoke to you at all. I see 2 options, 1 walk away and forget about her. 2 tell her straight out you wanna date her, and ask her out. If she says yes, good work. If not, and she gives you the "i think we should stay friends" spiel, tell her no thanks, and walk away. Don't cop Girls coming and going in and out of your life, they'll do that shit if you let em, it just messes with your head
A woman's "friends" don't want what's best for her, they want what's best for themselves. If they just got dumped, then seeing their "friend" single too makes them feel better
She’s a waste of time. If she were interested she would have given you attention with the group. She just wants your attention when she’s otherwise bored.
No. She's a narcissist and wants the attention from you but she'll just string u along, she won't care about hurting u or your feelings
She sounds extremely rude, but I don't know that she's friendzoned you. I would take that as a cue to leave though. You don't need or want a head ache like that.
She wants to keep you orbiting in the Friend Zone until she is done fucking the bad boys, then decides that she is ‘ready for a good man’.
@bmemes listen to the advice from the ladies. They know what they are talking about.
Ah, what you have here is a time waster. Unless you have something non sexual in common that's worth your time you should probably decline.
If a girl invite me and didn't talk to me cause of her group then I would forget her. Sounds like she is playing games with you.
If I were in Your shoes I would dismiss Her as someone who wants to play head games.
If she likes you she would stand next to you and talk to you
@bmemes This indicates she's either indecisive or an irresponsible person.
Fuck no. She wants to fill her friend zone/Simp bench. Just walk from her.
Sounds like playing major hard to get or she's just nervous?
Ask her what her expectations are
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