Ia this girl shy or lost interest or what could it be?

[Random45233]

I've been talking to a girl on a dating app usually a few messages a day for the past 2 weeks now, she seems to like me and keeps upping the amount of kisses she sends on her messages to me etc

She told me a few days ago that she thinks I'm cute and would be down to get to know me better so I asked her out and she agreed, however I had to change the location as she doesn't drive and it would cost too much/be too awkward to get to.

She told me she likes the new location and has been before, but when I asked her if she can get there she said "I will see" a few days ago and now yesterday I asked if we are still good to meet on Wednesday (she said she is off work all week) and she just replied saying "not sure"

Has she lost interest or shy etc or what? I told her there's no pressure and asked if anything is wrong too just in case.

She kinda indirectly asked me out herself so I'm a little confused why she wouldn't be more enthusiastic about it all?

[Guy13]

You waited to late. You move to slow in general and she’s not sure if you are man enough. Decide and Do…like in 2 days after decision like it MATTERS to you.

[Random45233]

I asked her out the same day she said she wanted to get to know me better.

I also gave her a day and location for the new place the next day after finding our she wouldn't be able to get to the first location

She also told me yesterday that she likes the new place and has been before so I'm not sure how I could act faster for future reference.

She seems quite shy too based on the interactions so far so I didn't want to come across as too pushy

[Guy13]

Make decisions for her. That’s what I mean. Act. Shy expect you to do. They see you as strong. Stop asking her Fin opinion….

[Eternallylucky]

You'll have to ask her ny saying do you definitely want to meet up? If not, I'll move on. That will clear up things

[laraWM]

Maybe you could ask her to choose a day to meet. So you'll see if she's really interested

[Random45233]

I sent her a message this morning after she said she wasn't sure if Wednesday was good asking if she was ok and I told her she can talk with me about it more if she likes and if she is nervous there's no pressure to rush into it and we could talk a little more first.

At this point I should wait to see if/when she responds first before asking her to choose a day instead right? I feel if I message again I'll look desperate if I don't already

She usually replies to me pretty quick and this seems out of character and I can see she has been online etc so I'm not sure what's up and if she has just changed her mind now and is going to ghost me?

I don't really want to chase her but she seemed nice and I was interested in meeting her so I'm a little confused by it all

[laraWM]

Just tell her you like her and want to go out with her the day she wants. I thing girls usually like simple guys

[Random45233]

Thanks, that sounds like a good idea and would remove the possibility that she thinks I'm not interested much too.

I'll wait until tomorrow night or Monday to give her some time in case she is thinking or busy and so I don't seem needy but I'll use that as a last attempt I guess if she says nothing

[laraWM]

Yes good

[Avicenna]

She may think you aren’t interested

[Random45233]

I was thinking this too yea, although I've asked her to meet me and go for dinner and a walk so I'm not sure how else I could show interest, should I be saying something else too?

[In_Trance]

Lost interest