My girl doesn’t give head. I’m not saying how do I change this but should it be a problem?

[Anonymous]

I, like just about every other man on the planet, love getting head, and giving it. She gets it every time, and seems to expect it, but has made it clear I can’t even ask. very occasionally, she does, but not for long and if I actually mention it, then there is no chance. Is this just a bit selfish or should I just learn to live with it. It’s not really a deal breaker but I would enjoy more, and it would be nice for it to be about me sometimes.

[PrettyPriya]

No, it is not a problem at all that she doesn’t like to do that. It is called a preference and everyone is entitled to have likes and dislikes. I’m sure there are things you don’t like in this world and wouldn’t expect someone to make you do it, right?

So, just respect the fact she is not a fan of that sexual act and move one. You already said it isn’t a dealbreaker so not sure what the issue is. There are much more important things in a relationship and I would focus on those. Be lucky she likes to be intimate with you in other ways.

The worst thing you can do is dwell on it and keep nagging her about it. It will get you nowhere and only serve to strain the relationship and possibly your sex life. Best of luck to you.

[Asker]

It’s not so much about getting as much as it is about it being expected the other way round, whether I like it or not. She’s also told me about it with other guys so it’s not like she hasn’t with others.

[PrettyPriya]

Right, then you are fully within your rights to not perform those acts on her as well. All about respect. She has to respect your wishes as well.

[Curiousexy]

many girls that don't like doing it, sometimes they do just to please, if that's the case you don't want her to do something that she's not comfortable with. However have you tried talking to her about about the reason she doesn't like doing it? Because maybe she had some sort of negative feedback in the past That you could help her overcome by giving some positive feedback.. or maybe could even be that her jaw gets very sore, lol... then she could limit it to the "tip" ... Or maybe it could be something more related to the odor or taste... Anyway just try talking to her

[NamerOfStars]

Has she said why not? If there's a specific problem, you might be able to do something about it.

If it's a problem for you, try to solve it- everyone's free to set the terms of their own lives, but a partnership is a PARTNERSHIP, and your should BOTH be satisfied.

[Guy13]

That needs to be a serious bu light conversation. Every guy has this at least once. Meet halfway kind of thing…

[Guy13]

How long you two have been together?

[Asker]

A year.

[Guy13]

Yes, it is time for her to give. You are serious. I know guys who have chested over this. And one…this girl worked for him. Wife had the opportunity to do her part.
It is a tough topic. You might have to shave that area septic she’s OCD. Not all but this areas where she could get hair in mouth…

[FrenchToastAndHoney]

Not every girl likes it.

You have to ask yourself, do you want your partner to perform sexual acts she doesn't enjoy? Or would you rather everyone do what they are comfortable with?

[Anonymous]

stop giving her head. And if she asks for it just say "after you"

[joeldalton]

yeah, it's a deal breaker.