Am I screwed now that I moved to America?

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Girl wise.  I moved to the USA for my studies. The impression I get here, is that girls are just shallow, fake and superficial.

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

Yeah, it's fucked here. I moved here from Japan where I was doing much better than any of the girls I got here. Here they're usually cheating on a guy to begin with on the first date... and she won't even give you a chance unless she sees a chance to monkey branch from that guy to you... by chance I mean relationship-wise because she'll gladly just have sex with you.

I'm an American white dude by the way, I just lived for a decade in Japan. Money was a thing there too, but here the money alone will get you by and you don't even have to be physically fit. Obviously, that route will get you bullshit women, but unfortunately, it does work. It's been some years though and I've learned to just hit the weights and pretend I'm poor. Like they have no idea that I have a couple of houses here and 2 condos in Japan. I do that on purpose because I don't want to be a target for their financial reasons. The last chick I got pregnant hid it from me and had her boyfriend thinking it was his for years just because she thought she'd get more money out of him. Meanwhile, I find out, and even though I didn't deal with consequences, I did learn a lesson from that. Imagine if she knew... I know what she would've done.

In Japan it just felt different. Most, not all, were actually considering a lifetime with you as in living together and spending your life together. Like they'd still have sex for their lust reasons, but the were actually considering a more permanent type of status as they did it. It wasn't just that you're worth and leave mentality if that makes sense. Also they usually didn't have a guy on standby just like you where they were just weighing their options or outright telling you they have a man so don't post this sex video on facebook.

I think it's the deceptive nature of the chicks here that turns me off to women. Like I've always been a player type dude, but being a MGTOW type player never became a real thought until I moved back to the states.

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

some are and some are not but Citizens like the term plastic. there are places to go to find a woman of substance and depth... Where have you been looking and what is your country of origination?

SueShe · Accepted Answer

If you moved to the US solely in the hope to find a serious girlfriend, then it was one of the worst moves of your life.

Of course, you will find the occasional pearl but this one will be rare and extremely hard to find.

Concentrate on your studies rather than to find a woman for the sole purpose to fornicate with. The US is certainly not the best place to find the most decent women. I would suggest that you move back to your home country once you have finished your education. Not only will you be more useful to your country but also, you will most likely find what you are looking for in your home country.

It is always a bad idea to go to a foreign place or country in the hope to find what you could not find at home. In the US, you will always be a third class citizen behind the white supremacist race and the Afro-American and other Latinos.

NotTacocaT6969 · Accepted Answer

You’re new here and don’t understand where you fit in socially yet or what all of the different social groups are like.

It sounds like you’ve been trying to hit on the preppy bitches…bad move.

exitseven · Answer

If you move to a city with a democrat mayor you should get some body armor.

TroyDT · Answer

Some are, some aren't. Get away from the university. Maybe go to a museum or classical concert.

Avicenna · Answer

Many of them are, it’s true

In_Trance · Answer

yeah, pretty much

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