If the girl never initiates communication does it mean she doesn't like you? (Page 2)

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if the girl never initiates texting, does that mean she doesn't like the guy? if she never initiates any conversations online or on text

angel_grl · Answer

Well, I dn't initiate the convo but it is because the guy that I text always starts the convo...so I assume that if he doesn't text me he doesn't want to...I have initiated once or twice but otherwise I wait for the man to make the move ;) If you start a convo and she doesn't text you bak theh she prbbly doesn't like u..

9teen · Answer

Not necessary. I never initiate even when I like someone really bad. It's rare to see me ever initiating a conversation. I like to be pursued, not to pursue.

winterfox10 · Answer

If she never does it, then yes that means she is not interested. But some girls like to try and play it cool, one of the ways they do that is by not reaching out all the time.

tyt_2012 · Answer

Not at all. I don't like bothering people for no reason so that's why I don't like always initiating.

justhat1chick · Answer

how long have you been "talking", how long have you known her?,  do you know her in person?,  is she generally a busy person?

bill_towers · Answer

That means she's busy chatting with Guys that have Higher value than you. They keep you around them If they need something from you.

If she is not interacting with you with the Same Energy as yours then you should Look for the next Woman.

bubble_tea · Answer

Yes, or it means you don't give her an opportunity by texting her too much.

BluesheepOwl · Answer

Definitely doesn't like you. This is what I do before ending it.

girlfish · Answer

Nope, it doesn't mean anything, she's probably waiting for you to initiate the conversation.

DenizLikesTennis · Answer

Lol Girlsaskguys... a good question that's over a year ago. Most legendary plattform in the world.  Y'all ludicrous.

Anonymous · Answer

Guys typically don’t women well when women initiate plus society expects guys to do the pursuing. So girls often don’t initiate. But if initiate and she responds in a positive way then she is interested.

Jan_Classic · Answer

If she would be interested in you, you would notice. They don't need to text you, there's also body language and direct action tactics.

LickCurlyToenails · Answer

Nah, I rarely initiate. I'm shy and sometimes I feel like I have nothing to say or I'll just be bothering him.

ladyrara26 · Answer

could go either way..  she could be shy/nervous and waiting for you to make a move, OR she could just not be interested...

labbie87 · Answer

Hell I have the same question about guys! lol Anyone wanna help me out? ha! I almost always initiate (and try SUPER hard not to) with the guy(s) I like(d) and I wish I knew if he liked me or not...

moviedude714 · Answer

unfortuneately most girls want guys to initiate every single damn thing

yourwinglady · Answer

Usually. If you have been talking for awhile and she never initiates, it's not a good sign.

slatyb · Answer

Have you asked her out on an actual date, you know, the kind where you plan the activity and then ask her if she would like to go?

Bananaman177 · Answer

I don't know what it means, but if I don't like the cut of a girl's jib, I forget about her, no matter what she may have secretly "meant" by it.

Anonymous · Answer

Most girls are terrified of pestering a boy too much! And some are shy and would prefer you to make the first move :) as the saying goes I wait for you to text me to show me that you miss me!

if she seem genuinely positive and happy to hear from then she is more than likely likes you. I hope this helps and try not to read into it too much! Because when people over think things they put 2 and 2 together and end up coming up with 5!

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe. But she's probably just nervous of being clingy and maybe thinks you were just texting her  because you were bored. The important thing is to pau attention to how she reacts in the convo, if she seems interested and doesn't just answer with one word, then don't sweat it.

thatoneguy88 · Answer

she is probably playing hard to get.  remember that two can play at that game though lol

amberstone · Answer

i don't always text guys I like  because I want them to b chasing after me

virtualwasp · Answer

how do you communicate? i come on here to answer questions not for a social.

sheikalana · Answer

If she texts you back when you text her but doesn't initiate communication she's probably waiting for you to text her.

Unit1 · Answer

Ja. It is so. Watch how women create 100 rules in dating for us and then "forgets" all the rules if she is very attracted to the guy.

BryanGomez · Answer

For me it’s always the girls who initiate the conversation. I’ve never had to do once

ritxi · Answer

I don't think so. There some girls who are introvert and they never initiate communication just for it.

Kaneki05 · Answer

I never do and i still don't for the one i like so i would say no.

JimRSmith · Answer

On some occasions, on others she might just prefer that you do the chasing.

Anonymous · Answer

ugh i know its so annoying when a girl does that. Im totally the opposite I would start conversations first cuz its a 50 50 communication. I think that if a girl does that its because she thinks guys would like her more.

Anonymous · Answer

Well what If you're in a relationship with the girl and say she'll usually start the convo when she finishes work etc... And then she stops and I ask her "are you waiting for me to start it" and she says yes and why not and cause I wanted you to. You see it shows me that she doesn't care to talk and she told me she is over always txting and talking on the phone

m3aLman · Answer

Read between the lines man. I believe that she'll guide if she like you.

briven · Answer

she might be busy...you better start the texting as evidently you are interested..

Anonymous · Answer

I initiated it for my boyfriend before we went out, however that doesn't mean a girl doesn't like you if she doesn't initiate, since many girls are taught to wait for the man to make the first move

Corrupt_Others · Answer

no, I usually don't because I'm shy. I will occasionally tho.

Massageman · Answer

No. Maybe she is just as confused as the guys who don't follow through on asking out/meeting/ saying hi to the object of their affections.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I'm assuming you've talked a few times. If you always have to contact her first, either she's playing hard to get or is not interested.

remsterz · Answer

no, I wouldn't say she's not interested. She might just be shy to say anything. . Or she might not know what to say at all.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

She might still like you but is shy, or she might hate your guts, or she's just indifferent.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Chances are high she isn't that into you nor is worried about losing you.

missy90 · Answer

it could mean that, but most of the time I think some girls are shy/scared to do so. how is the conversation once its been initiated? does she talk to u, or barely say anything?

red324 · Answer

This is why guys never know if the girl is interested or just leading us on because they'll rarely initiate on their own.

DJZest · Answer

She's got things to do - you know, living her life and all. Her not contacting you means that you aren't really on her mind.

oliviapetri34 · Answer

Well A, a phone works both ways. AND B, maybe she's waiting for you to text her because girls mostly like that.

BryanTheLion · Answer

If you send her random texts, or funny gifs to show you are thinking about her and she NEVER does the same... There's no other way for a guy to take it. She is not interested

Anonymous · Answer

some girls tend to wait for the guy to start a conversation through txt

Jazz_92 · Answer

even my friend girls don't initiate conversations with me lol

AdamED · Answer

If on phone then probably she's not interested. If in person but she still hangs out, then she's probably not very social.

Justagirl2011 · Answer

Haha no... It's a Test .. She wants to make sure you're really interested in Pursueing her before she does, you. And that's how it should be I think.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't really initiate communication with anyone.

Lakeshow12 · Answer

Generally speaking some can be just shy and don’t have the courage or guts to say what they want or are too hesitant to approach someone they like so don’t take that as a sign of disinterest

daniel_99 · Answer

Depends bro, you should try to communicate with the girl, if she keeps ignoring you then it means she really has no interest in you. Block her and try another girl.

Vegasrunner · Answer

Obviously, why would anyone think any different?

jwmiller95 · Answer

Never? Yes she's not interested. The busiest woman on earth if she's interested will at least say hi

torwulf · Answer

It means she's interested. But doesn't necessarily like you yet.

Abbas1996 · Answer

I don't know about you but I can't stand such girls even if they like me bad

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

It means that she views the guy as a beta, to reply to or ignore as she chooses. Best to move on and keep your dignity.

Anonymous · Answer

Online/text doesn't communicate squat. Face to face is real communication. The show Catfish wouldn't be in existence if that weren't the case.

Heolurt · Answer

It means she doesn't see you as worth the time.

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