Don't get to down about it. Girls have a strong sense of wanting to be pursued and don't want to be the first to budge. Some girls are very confident about themselves and would initiate first. Others play the little game of seeing if you are genuinely interested or not.
Girls have a big fear of rejection cause when it happens, it hurts their self esteem. This is why they let the guys do all the work in the beginning. It's selfish, I know..but it's the way girls are and you're gonna have to get that in your head right now. Study it, memorize it, know it...that way when it happens again, you'll know exactly what to do. More times than not a girl will start to open up and initiate contact with you, but you'll have to show increasing and consistent signs of interest before they ever do that. It's all about how comfortable they are with you...that will dictate whether they'll start chasing you.
So yes, most of the time you'll have to initiate contact first. Try breaking the ice and things will go a lot smoother. Don't smother her, but show genuine interest and then leave it be. Text her every couple days and only ask her for a date maybe once a week. Let a few weeks go by, and by that time if she truly likes you, she'll be the one chasing you.
I think this guy is right about why a girl may never initiate communication/texting.
Not necessarily. She could be shy or be wondering if you really like her.
I, myself, have a long history of guys not liking me, calling me ugly, and telling me that my skin is too dark. In middle school, guys even used to threaten to physically assault me if I even looked at them. Every relationship I've ever been in only lasted a few months, with the guy leaving me for someone else. Also, I'm a 26-year-old virgin. All this has caused me to believe that I'm undesirable and makes me very hesitant to initiate conversations with guys I'm interested in.
U will find some guy, who like the way u r
Well it's like this.. If a girl initiates conversations and shows that she is interested then the guy loses interest or she gets labeled as clingy! If she ignores him, he either goes away or continues to pursue. If he is a player, ignoring will not feed his ego and he will beat it sooner or later. Ignoring is a good weeding out tool for the ladies. Unless she is shy and that is whole different ball of wax. :)
what?...if a girl ignores me I think she doesn't like me and I forget about her
I'm answering your question from a girls perspective.. You can try initiating conversation a few times but she doesn't warm up to you then sure you can walk.. Why did you rate me down?
I didn't
different ball of wax? lol nice.
Good point, never thought of it like that. A lot of things girls do is to protect themselves and weed out people they deem inappropriate. One thing I have always found is it pays to be more persistent and start the convo's. At least you get to talk to her and learn more about her.
That is the way to talk to most girls.. Lol just how mother nature intended I guess.
Guys go in the "friend zone" unless they standout somehow. All this and still no guarantees that the girl doesn't end up getting played! Sorry of this sounds cruel but we are here to hear truth not what we want to hear right?
@dox1842 agreed.
Lol. I do find the idea of being a “player” hilarious. I don’t think any girl has thought of me as a player. I would be the worst “player” in the world...
I assume most girls aren’t interested; but that’s because they don’t ACT interested.
I read a post recently on Facebook: to paraphrase: “Action is the indicator of interest.” Very true.
This seems to be accurate as far as I have experienced. A lot of conversation normally ends up in you just becoming friends, and normally it's for the better.
I agree to Eva's testament of lonliness
But how can a man tell if she's hard to get or Just not interested and replying just to be polite?
Why do women have to be so complicated
Ima marry myself :v
@Syrian_survivor Dont worry im pretty sure once they mature they're more straightforward
Smh gotta get myself a 30 yo woman xD
There's a much bigger problem here. You're putting all your eggs in one basket with this girl. If you regularly met more girls she would be irrelevant because you could choose the best girl and not have to worry about one that sounds like she doesn't even like you.
Love the down votes from guys. Haha
This means they don’t respect a woman’s opinion if it doesn’t somehow strike their ego.
So be it. Continue being an angry young man. 😅
@Deft_maiden you're making it sound like all guys are egotistical pricks, hint, we're not.
If I got ignored by a girl I love so much and I wanna treat her right forever, I'll just get the hint that she isn't my type and leave peacefully to find someone who appreciates me, playing ignore games is childish and stupid, only those in casual relationships do that, they're called casual because they don't last long, because both people in it are too immature to hold a relationship seriously.
You're not respecting neither men nor women in your opinion, so we're gonna downvote it, logically.
@Deft_maiden Nah, I prefer clingy. If she does not initiate, I don't take interest in her to begin with. I'm far too absorbed with work and play and my art and whatnot, she has to "butt in" and be a bit pushy and posessive and direct for me to notice she's even interested, and this is coming from a person who wants a commited relationship and thinks ego is worthless.
Women talking to each other about men and how they THINK men think is like 90% of the miscommunication between the sexes. I can't tell you how many dumb things women believe about men simply because they REFUSE to ask an actual man. Case in point, some lady on Tik Tok said:
"You know how men look at the color of our lips and imagine what we look like down there?"
No... no we don't ~99.9999999% of the men in the comments
Like who told you that ish? ANOTHER WOMAN probably! "If I go over and ask him out first he's going to think i'm d̶e̶s̶p̶e̶r̶a̶t̶e̶ ̶a̶n̶d̶ ̶a̶ ̶l̶o̶s̶e̶r̶ ̶ " cute? Sincere? Not playing stupid high school games?
Thats just bitterness right there. We can't be wrong about something, they must just hate women!
So childish. Wear that childishness on your sleeve so guys can know up front. www.google.com/url
*STAY AWAY*
@Deft_maiden from experience, i believe your response has valuable merit. I notice however, this tactic being utilized more regularly in eastern cultures. Asian and indian women are more likely to use this weeding out tool, which is quite an effective way of determining whether a man thinks of her or himself. The guys who make it past this barrier emerge as men who are willing to lay down their ego and understand the I woman of their desire.
But in my experience, most western women do not behave like this.
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Try never to read into any one thing to much. Take a look at all the responses you've received. Everyone would have their own personal motives for doing such a thing.
The best way to approach this kind of thing is to take the mass of your interactions and basically keep score; "she's interested" and "she's not interested".
The girl never initiating the im's is 1 for the "she's not interested" side.
Where you award the points just takes common sense. If a girl is interested in you she will want to talk to you. Ignore all the rules of playing hard to get.
That's what I do. I generally score them on three separate interactions; three points each interaction. Once for the introduction, once for the conversation, and once more for the good bye's.
If she's shy I look for some of the signs she might give. In the introduction she might have a hard time keeping eye contact or maybe she blushes. Check one for the "she's interested" side.
If she's confident and during the conversation phase she ensures to include you in the conversation you can again check one for the "she's interested" side.
If she's again confident and during the good bye's she addresses you directly, check one for the "she's interested side".
Tally up each interaction and then again when you've got three interactions. If she's given more signals towards then against, ask her out. You really have no reason not to.
Now this is sometimes hit and miss. It probably does me 40/60 in terms of odds for success. However, that's not taking into account that some of the girls just aren't available, not that they weren't interested.
Wow girls, the responses are shocking. I don't text so I'm so glad I don't have to go through this. Regardless of that I still call the guys that I am interested in because it makes sense that I would want to get to know them. If the guy thinks I am too clingy and loses interest then it's his problem and his loss not mine (there should be no reason for him to think that anyway if I only call every three days or so). I understand that you don't want to bother them but if they truly like you then they will be flattered. If he has no time or something he usually says I'll call you back later, and again if he is truly interested he will call. I never call a guy unless I am really interested because I hate talking on the phone.
See it's very unfair for a lot of us guys because it's kind of like a game to some people. We are literally just trying to get to know you more and if you do not want us to go beyond friends, just flat out say it. Having a guy constantly be the one to initiate it when you know damn well his intentions, is just wrong in my opinion. If I knew a girl was texting me BECAUSE she liked me and I didn't feel the same way, I'd just break it to her nicely. That's all I'm asking for. I'm 23. Not looking for games. Highschool is supposed to be over with.
I saw some girl said that they fear coming off as clingy. I don't see that as clingy, I just see it as you being you. Why deny yourself if you're wanting to talk? If you get clingy and the guy is a nice person, he'll just tell you. It won't be the end of the world. Just my take on it.
Traditionally, girls are advised NOT to initiate texting. It makes them look desperate and "nice"/"good" girls should not appear desperate. According to most guidelines for young ladies (at least in more conservative circles), it is the young man's responsibility to initiate communications.
Realistically, this puts a heck of a lot of pressure on a guy. It also drives girls nutty waiting for the shy guy to show some sign of life... And yet there it is, a ridiculous clause in the social etiquette most likely designed by upper class men to help them select demure wives...
Sigh.
No, I don't agree that guys should always initiate. However they DO have much less to lose if they initiate and are rejected. A little droop in their pride isn't too bad. Girls, on the other hand, have the potential to lose their reputations by being marked overly flirtatious, forward, and otherwise inappropriate. The social connotations for the girl get pretty drastic depending on what culture she's from...
I disagree and think guys have a lot more to lose then girls. Guys that get rejected enough will eventually stop initiating all together. Not to mention the loss of esteem that will affect the guys career potential and subsequently affect the money he makes and since girls expect a guy to initiate and be the financial provider still it damages the guy far more then the girl being rejected.
Guys are never called "sluts" or regarded as being "too aggressive" for initiating. In some countries a woman can still actually get stoned down for gaining the reputation of being "too forward" with guys.
Loss of esteem/pride -- a stung ego -- is the worst a guy'd suffer. He can choose to let it get to him or to move on. Counseling can take care of what you're talking about in terms of the guy's exp. There's no way to "recover" a girl's lost reputation (which is associated with her virginity).
If I recall guys are never called "sluts" because women force them to initiate instead of waiting for suitors. Where as a woman just has to wait and then select a male of her choosing. There are countless more articles about women doing more men then the other way around.
Here's some examples:
Girl praised for sleeping with 1000 guys: link
Then there's ones like the following:
I specifically don't condone it.
You seem to like reading about sluts, however.
My literary tastes are much more diversified, and don't require me to continue reading the rubbish you are so generously offering in these posts.
"In some countries a woman can still actually get stoned down for gaining the reputation of being "too forward" with guys."
Ahhh the good old days! 🤣
Personally, I legitimately do not care. If she's the kind of girl where I have to be the first to do everything then I don't want her. Your relationship with her at the beginning is the framework of anything down the road. Setup a situation where you work, she sits back doing nothing and you will quickly be in a nightmare with the "girl of your dreams".
Maybe she likes you or not, but the outcome is effectively the same. If she doesn't. Move on. If she does, then you probably don't want to be with a girl like her. In my experience, if the girl likes you she will go out of her way to hit you up at some point. Even busy women are down to set up plans that you could join her on, with the hopes of seeing you. I've met maybe 2 girls in my life her were legit busy as fuck to the point of not being able to really do anything else. But you know what both girls had in common? The ability to call or text me and both made it a point to do so.
man let me just leave you some of my advice: if you think she is the type of girl who would initiate contact with a guy she likes then, she doesn't like you. but I have dated girls who are very shy or are kind of new to dating or never had a real boyfriend and sometimes these girls are just really shy and need you to kinda push everything on them. But yeah if she talks to you a lot and goes out with you and you can play touch her without her getting wierded out or pulling away then your in otherwise move on.
Just watch her body language and stop trying to use the Internet to hide your own insecurities.If it's a "future long distance relationship" you will need to meet face to face at one point.
If she knows you are interested in her and doesn't even look at you or has a blanc expression when she sees you it means she is not interested.
If she blushes,avoids eye contact but if you catch her eye and she changes her view it means she is too shy to approach you and that you need to make the first step.
Probably. In what context. Someone you just know casually but you are hoping to make a move and ask her out or is this in a relationship, your girlfriend never initiates?
A lot of girls still live by the "a guy must pursue me, I don't pursue guys, I just sit back and wait to be approached" so unless you've made your move, asked her out let it be clear that you like her than she may never reach out. Usually after a guy initiates some dates and takes a woman out several times and she starts to feel more relaxed with the guy and that they have a thing starting up she'll usually be the one who initiates a lot of the talking and texting.
Is she still doesn't after dating a bit than I'd say she isn't into you.
Sometimes that might mean a girl isn't interested,but I think some girls just want guys to initiate communication.Its part of the chase.If I were you,i would stop and let her step up to the plate.If she doesn't,she wasn't that interested in the first place.
What about looking into men´s perspective? Why in this modern era people still behave like w are in the ancient times. Times changes what is wrong a man or a woman initiate a conversation. Why the man always has to be the one, why a woman can't be responsable to take taht burden out of the guy.
That was beautiful, Bravo!!!
I agree
For me, no. It doesn't always mean she don't like you. She just wants you to initiate the conversation first.
Honestly me, I prefer it if the guy initiates the conversation first. Sometimes I do, but most of the time, I will wait for the guy to initiate the talk first. I'm shy, or wondering if you even want to talk to me in the first place.
If she always reply to your texts, then yes she likes you. But if it takes her time to reply, short replies or no replies at all, then no, she doesn't like you that much.
Dude don't listen to what people say on here. If a girl never initiates conversation then she is not interested.Don't waste your time on her. I have never known ANY girl who has been interested and does not want to initiate conversation.As a matter of fact girl who is interested will leave clues so that she can initiate conversation with a legitimate reason.
Whenever a guy texts me I always text him back. I like talking to people! I really do. :) But, there are three reasons in which I wouldn't:
1) I'm genuinely busy, and told myself I'd text him back later, but forget to...
2) I'm going to leave for something soon, and I don't want to start a conversation, then just say bye. that would be kinda sucky.
3) or, I don't have time.
those are the only reasons. If I don't like a guy, or don't want to talk to him, I wouldn't just ignore him.
Your kind is rare. Good for you.
It is not so important if she initiates or not is it? In any case women love it to feel wanted and special so if you stat the convo you will make her feel better. Just talk to her if you feel like it, if she shows sign that she is a bit bored when you talk to each other then maybe she is really not so interested. Don't take online friendships/relationship too seriously. It is just not as easy to read feelings through text.
I personally pretty much never initiate a conversation online or text a guy if I really like him.. and as strange as it may be I'm more prone to initiate a conv online with a guy I don't like that way cause I don't necessarily care about whether or not I'm annoying him anyway.. lol.
If you wanna know if a girl really likes you you have to meet her live and read her body language and everything... a lot can be hidden behind the texts and online convos..
well put
agreed
Lately if it is a guy who I enjoy talking to, I only initiate if the guy has a initiated a few times prior. I’ve had many one-sided relationships and friendships so that’s how I do things. If I am not interested I won’t initiate even if he has initiated in the past.
Usually, it depends on what your conversations hold... if she acts like she's interested any other time you initiate a conversation... (talking back to you quickly, talking to you for long periods of time) it usually means she's just wanting you to keep up the pursuing of her... A lot of girls really dig guys who aren't afraid of starting a conversation, and pursuing her.
not for me, I feel like I'm bothering the guy if I start the convo so I just wait for him to talk to me 95% of the time...on the other hand, when a guy starts talking to me and I only responed with yea, OK, sure, you 2? that's kinda my way of saying, get lost, without being so mean about it lol :)
I initiate all the conversations and ask pretty much all the questions and stuff her answers aren't short though most of the time
hmmm, in that case I think she's looking at you as being more of a friend. I mean like if she never asks any of the questions. Cause that's what I do with my guy friends, I let them think of the questions and I just ask them back lol. with a guy I like I try to ask questions too, to keep it going. with guys that I don't like at all, that's when I let them ask all the questions and give crappy respones in return lol. are her resonses easy to keep the conversation going with or is it constant questions?
I'm not sure, sometimes the conversation rolls, other times it's constant questions
sorry to say, I think you have entered the friend zone...
/sigh
why the f*** do I even try anymore?
because you like her duhhh lol. you know you can get out of the friend zone, just stopped acting as justttt her friend. maybe bring up the subject of dating. see where that leads. it can't hurt anymore then giving up right?
I have tried all that, she doesn't say no but she doesn't say yes either.. I have no more hope :l
well then forget about her and move on to another girl who actually would be giving you an answer. from the sounds of it, you sound like a nice guy who just wants a nice girlfriend. good luck to you!
I don't ever text him first, even if he gives me his number, because I'm still unsure, so usually I give him my number back so the ball is in his court. If he talks to me and seems to carry a conversation, I will text him first sometimes from then on out as long as he seems to enjoy talking to me. If I get the vibe that the conversation is dying or feel like he's not interested such as taking a long time to reply back or he ignores my texts then tries to talk the next day, I'm more skeptical about talking to him, because I feel like I'm just an annoyance to him. So just because she isn't texting you first doesn't mean she doesn't like you, she may just be shy and still nervous to text you first, as long as she talks to you and laughs, you have a shot. Best wishes :)
It doesn't necessarily mean that, but it isn't a good sign. She still may like you which you should see from the way she reacts to you when you initiate communication.
One more (important) thing though. If by "like you" you mean she has romantic interest in you, you need to calibrate her responses correctly. There are LOTS of actions that she may take that would be consistent with her having romantic interest in you but which are ALSO consistent with her NOT having romantic interest in you. Being polite, laughing at jokes, etc. So you need to find actions that she can take that actually REVEAL INFORMATION. That would mean that they are consistent with her having romantic interest but are INCONSISTENT with her NOT having romantic interest. Kissing (on the mouth, with tongue) would be a great example of that.
Generally, Yes! If she's playing games or not putting in equal effort, it's because she's not that into you. If she's giving you 20% she thinks she can do better. When a girl is really interested she will through herself in front of you and trip over babies to do it. =P
Yes 🙌 ! Well in my case. If I don’t initiate communication, it means I am not interested at all. Unless I told you beforehand I’ve been busy lately and I’m going through somethings. If there’s a will, there’s a way for me. I will not let the guy I like think I’m not interested in any way.
It depends on how well you guys know each other.
If she's a classmate, go to the same school as you, the same parties etc. She probably would've found a way to initiate contact online, if she was interested - it is so easy nowadays, and girls seem to always find a way, either through a like, a message or a follow.
I don't actually know.
I tend to initiate a lot of contact if I like a guy and if I just see the guy as a friend or I don't like them I tend not to say much
however girls like it when a guy initiates conversation (I know I like it) so she could be waiting for you to initiate or she might not know what to say. I also worry the guy won't have credit or won't respond
You'll have to look for other signs to determine whether she is interested. Or be direct and ask her :P good luck!
I would start the convo 2-3 times in the beginning and if she does not start the convo the 3-4 th times then I would leave her and I would go and find another one...SIMPLE...
I know a girl can be shy and she might not start a convo the first couple of times , so I may start it the first couple of times but then I expect her to start a convo else I would feel like a Jerk...
That' s ME...
Shes probably trying to play hard to get. It seems like theirs an unwritten rule for girls that guys are supposed to initiate everything. Girls enjoy being chased. When guys initiate things we presume their interested so its easier this way. Then worrying that were annoying a guy by even talking to them.
Not necessarily. She might not want to seem like she's bothering you or desperate, so she'll wait for you to get in touch with her.
If she seems interested when you see her in-person, go by that. Actions speak louder than words and in-person interaction trumps online communication any day.
No true at all. If she is responding to every communication intiates by the guy, she is somewhat interested. A girl usually don't respond if she's not interested at all. Don't take lack of contact initiation as a sign of disinterest.
For her to finally initiates communication, it will take a while when she's comfortable enough with you and know for sure of your intention.
Texting, I don't know.
But real life, I like this guy and when he jokes I just laugh, don't say anything.
It could be because she's shy. I am shy and I don't initiate conversations with my crush. Later I think that I probably should have but whatever
Its not always that the girl doesn't like you if she doesn't start the conversation. With me, I rarely ever start the conversation with a guy because I'm sometimes afraid I'll come across annoying if I do. Girls like it when a guy will pursue them, and initiate the conversation. So yeah. (:
well I initiate it too much... every time so I'm just not going to talk to her anymore
I'm absolutely scared to initiate calls and stuff! At the beginning of a relationship I might call first, but after a while I don't like to seem really clingy or pestery. Cause in past relationships I've been this awful, insecure crazy girlfriend who's just so clingy, and I don't want to be desperate so I like to wait for him to call.
I would figure either that or she’s shy.
Honestly I’m not much of a texter. Even when I text friends it’s to just do shit and that’s it. I prefer having conversations in person or over the phone.
That being said if a girl consistently doesn’t initiate or contribute, I move on. It shouldn’t be 100% my responsibility to carry the conversation.
If a guy is really really hot, she won't STOP trying to get his attention.
If the guy is eh, then she won't put much into it, if anything.
You know, it's a continuum.
From the ugly as hell guy who gets charged with crimes for talking to women
All the way up to the extremely good looking guys who don't have to do anything at all to slay.
Not at all. There’s no general rule that fits all. I myself really like this guy for example, but do I trust him? Not enough yet, no. Hence why I’ll respond to him to see what he’s all about, but I won’t make myself too vulnerable just yet. Guys lie all the time! Sometimes you just have to take things slow and test the waters.
I could be wrong since I don’t know enough details, but my thoughts are that if she feels you’re genuinely into her, she’ll initiate too. If she’s not interested enough because she doesn’t know your true motives just yet, then no she likely won’t.
She wants you to be "the man" and initiate the talking. Try calling her, it'll surprise the crap out of her. Texting is the easy way out. When ever I get a phone call, I find the guy much more attractive. I think that's the way it should be.
I would call a girl if I knew she was into me... but I don't know in this case
lol p******? Why don't you be in our shoes once? all you have to do is look decent, and wait for guys to come to you.
You're a pretty arrogant ***** to have the audacity for guys to do everything for your ass.
@lucyloo2 you're right. Calling a girl will surprise the crap out of her. So much so in fact she won't pick up because she's too nervous to talk to a guy she only just started dating or texting. When I've called a girl early in the dating phase it goes to voicemail and they'll message me straight away saying "Did you just call me lol". Girls are too shitscared to talk too soon.
im doing that right now actually.. I like having him think.. but I do start some conversations so he stays around and doesn't think I don't like him.. so my guess is she's either playing hard to get or doesn't like you.. there's one way to find out... don't talk to her for couple days and see if she talks to you ::)
No it doesn’t mean she doesn’t like you. Could be she’s shy and heard that a guy should be chasing a girl. And making sure you’re really interested before she does something. But if she likes you text her a lot and stop for like a few days and see if she texts you. One thing is if she likes you back she wants you to be kind to her
Yes and no.. it just means she’s a girl.. girl feel entitled enough to never have to initiate a conversation. They want to be equal, and what not, but still cling to the ways it was then they were seen as lower (I. e. traditional, where the man doesn’t everything for her). It’s sad, but at the end of the day they have to learn that actually starting something with someone will get them further in life!
Usually when a girl doesn't initiate conversation with a guy it's because she does like him. ahha for a lot of girls it's the two extremes. talking to you all the time, or not at all. she'd rather you work for her than she for you. I'd say she likes you.
really? that's a weird way to look at it
Means she could care less if she talks to you or not or probably likes someone else better who she is talking to. That looking desperate is bullsh*t, if she liked you she would initiate at least sometimes. Take it for what it is.
Well put t this way, I dated a guy and we both put effort in. His effort started to drop so I dropped mine. Now he’s the one always initialling, I just keep it friendly and follow his lead, I’m polite btnfocussed on myself now - his actions tell me what I need to know, if he wants to make an effort and be straightforward about things, he will, if not, he won’t.
Very possible. Don't waste time on a girl that never initiates. If she doesn't, it's very likely there are other guys in the picture, which is why she doesn't care if she talks to you or not, hence why she never initiates, because there's the other guys she can talk to.
She might also be using you for an ego boost. She has no interest in you, besides the attention you give her. Texting or calling you first doesn't make her feel wanted.
If you’re always the one texting first and she never initiated and doesn’t really try to keep the conversation going then yeah, I don’t think she’s interested. That doesn’t mean you have to give up; try talking to her in person if you can, but if you can’t do that for whatever reason, I’d move on
Not necessarily. Could be that she is shy or that is her communication style. I'd talk to her about it and said you'd enjoy getting texted by her sometime or something like that which hints that you'd like her to do that.
Nah, I wouldn't think so much of it, most girls generally rely on the guy to message them first. I believe that this is just a natural thing. Who knows, maybe once you two become a lot closer, she'll be the one hitting you up for messages :) GL
Judging from the women's answers I have one thing to say.
Christ, women are lazy. Not even making an effort to talk to a guy they're interested in.
Well to start off with when you've never texted before, shy girls will usually not initiate the conversation (like myself). But once you have texted before, usually if a girl likes you she will either start the conversation around half the time and try to keep the conversation going for a long time. If you feel like you're always the one starting the conversation and she doesn't try to find new things to talk about, then she probably doesn't like you.
Sometimes girls are so terrified of becoming a pest they won't text you. I would say if she doesn't brush you off, reacts positively, and doesn't quickly say "Hey I gotta go" every time, then she's into you but afraid or unsure of herself.
Some girls are afraid to make any attempt at initiating for fear of looking desperate or needy or I don't know the millions of reason but they are there.
:( I don't think she likes me, she never initiates
need more info, it could mean a lot of things, generally something is wrong, she should feel comfortable to say anything to you(If she's your gf)
shes not my gf
I'm not!
You women want to be treated equally in the work force, equal pay, everyday life and in the world. Maybe the guy is sick or something. At least call and show that you care if you haven't heard from him in awhile. It would be no wonder that a guy would move on.
Depends, if she is an outgoing person yeah she is probably not ingested, if she is shy oh well could mean anything lol
No I don't really initiate texting or a convo online because I feel like I might be bugging that person too much or they may not want to talk to me and sometimes I just don't want to talk to that person or anyone that day... but that's just me
Hi i have this girl that i met at the gym and i have a crush on. Apparently, she never says Hi to me when she sees me, she just walks away like am invisible. But where i get confused is when she intentionally brings herself close to me and anytime i initiate a conversation, she is always more than willing to engage. Should i also start assuming her of should i keep pursuing her?
honestly, i just feel as if i text first he will ignore it and possibly think that its his opportunity to feel more powerful to ignore since i texted first. i also dont want to get too attached and thats it. i just feel like hell think "oh! she texted first might as well leave it for 20 minutes so that she can worry about me." like no. i dont like that feeling
If this girl is attractive, guranteed there's a number of lads smashing that inbox, social media has made it to easy for them. She likely has a number of options, If she's replying and doing her part in carrying the conversation then she most likely has a degree of interest. From my experiences anyway
I never initiate conversations with guys because I don't wanna make it so easy for them because then I think they'll just lazily try and get at me and be with me because I made it easy and not because they genuinely like me. ...but that's just me. not all women are like this.
She might be playing hard to get I agree. It could be possible she likes to talk on the phone or in person more as well. Try to possibly text her yourself or call her.
I usually wait for the guy to do that honestly. I would probably initiate a conversation online but probably not text. But that's just me. It also depends on the guy.
Itt doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't like you. Some girls do prefer the guy to start the convo. Like how a guys suppose to ask a girl to dance, I believe the guy should start the convo. And maybe she thinks that too. I knw most of the time I never star the convo. Juss focus on body language, and how she acts when your together.
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