Don’t you agree you need to be extremely good looking to get a girl?

[Anonymous]

I’m like a 7-8/10 and tall. To get girls you need to be extremely attractive. To get a pretty girl that’s really sweet.

I’ve tried tinder. I had no matches from girls and 100 likes from men in less than a day. Wtf.

You can see the frustration of many men. Whereas as really good looking men will get 100s of matches from girls.

I agree

I disagree

[SueShe]

Perhaps that your views apply in the US but certainly not in civilized countries where such trivial things are not as important.

Do you honestly think that the 2+ billion married couples worldwide did it just because the one or the other partner was good looking? If that was indeed the case, you would have less than 1% of those that did marry because of looks.

In civilized countries, what matters are not so much the looks but compatibility. But it takes more than just compatibility. It takes also a good character and personality. Looks alone don't make a long lasting couples because looks fade with time while the character and personality of that person stays a lifelong.

We all know that superficiality is what rules relations nowadays, mainly in a country known to be superficial.

[LazerBean]

Most toothless methheads I've seen have girlfriends, so that's a no.

[restop99]

In fact, you could argue that someone who keeps complaining about being to ugly to get girls/guys should just completely change their environment and start hanging at crackhouses or whatever to get company

you could..

[MrOracle]

No, but you DO need to be extremely good looking to get hot girls ON TINDER.

In the real world, it's mostly a numbers game - you need to spend a lot of time out in the world and you need to approach a lot of women and exchange some kind of contact info with them (as much as I detest Facebook/Meta because they are the most evil of the big tech companies - which is saying something! - Instagram is usually what women use for this). You will get rejected a ton, but you have to not care about that and just move on to the next one.

If you are single and you aren't approaching at least 2 women every day, you aren't trying hard enough. And if you are, you will have a girl in a month or less.

[Guy13]

I do not agree with that but one must have a prevailing and charming Factor about him. The freakiest guys I know have big brains 🧠 and the wind can blow them over.
They are fun to keep up with, out think, go down rabbit holes of ideas, and smack talk abounds. This is fun and attractive to all people. Stunningly beautiful and truthfully deeply insecure women…that I know get tickled.
And, if you ever see or experience the shared twinkly eye of a brilliant MIT guy and hot Babe with enough brain for reproductive purposes…THEN Beauty and Beast will mean something to you. Get off your computer and stop digesting Junk that internet says and live. Failure is part of life.

[Avicenna]

It helps a lot to be attractive, but you can still get a girlfriend if you aren't attractive. Get off the dating apps and talk to women IRL.

Also, don't only talk to the attractive women. Women of average attractiveness are just fine too.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I think trying anything online is the first mistake. You could fake it, but then again they could be faking it as well.

[BobbieBoy666]

You don't need to be extremely good looking to get a Boy. ?

[TroyDT]

Hell no. That is a defeatist attitude. You just need to take a lot of swings.

[Pohjolan]

Go sometime for a walk in a crowded areas and look at guys of couples.

[rachel776]

most guys i've been with are average

[TroyDT2]

I'm a 5 and I have no problems.

[In_Trance]

Not the case at all