Ever regret dumping someone, ladies?

[Anonymous]

He wasn't perfect, he made mistakes.. But he was so incredibly good to you. Covered all the bases, both big and small stuff.. You broke his heart when you left and never looked back. Are you gone for good? You're 23 and it's been about 6 weeks.

[Anonymous]

To my knowledge I've never broken any hearts or bones, lol, Amicable breakups are always more helpful because you can basically figure out the logical reason why something isn't working -- learn from your mistakes and move on. It's just healthier...

In situations where the guy and/or the girl were trying to be logical but were emotionally hurt by the breakup, there is a chance to get back together to test the waters, but this does not guarantee that the relationship will actually take off and soar... It just depends on the two people!

In situations where one or both people involved starts acting vindictive and immature because they're hurt or resentful, there's probably very little chance of getting back together...Obviously no one wants to be in this sort of abusive relationship.

[Babygirl1014]

i've been in the same situation. I broke up with my boyfriend, and I regret it. I try to call/text/email him all the time, but he ignores them. I made a huge mistake. I miss him like crazy. And if I could take him back, I definitly would.

I even tried to get him back through jelousy a couple times. I would go out wih a guy for a while, hoping he would get jelious and take me back, but he never did.

I should have never let him go, and to tell the truth, I can't even remember why I broke up with him.

[Asker]

I deserve better than my ex. She gave me nothing of substance. I see this now after our time apart. She is young, immature and all about herself and partying. I will find better. She's out there somewhere.

[Babygirl1014]

Thats so true. You will find someone else who cares about you, and who loves you as much as you love them. She doesn't deserve someone like you! Your awesome, and onviously very caring!

[Asker]

Thank you. I am far from perfect, but I am a hell of a person.. I was a hell of a boyfriend, and she just decided to walk away. Not one word from her, she just left.. I don't deserve that. Love is something you fight for.. Love is something that you fix and hold on to... Love is something you cherish.. She never loved me, it was an infatuation at best. I hope that she thinks of me after ever guy she sleeps with, and misses the good things I did for her. I would have fought to the death for her..

[Babygirl1014]

Just curious, if she was this much of a bitch, why did you date her in the first place? Just wonderingg<3

[Asker]

I rushed everything.. didn't break anything down enough.

[Babygirl1014]

Ah, I see. Well, you are a wonderful man, and I wish you the best!

[Asker]

Thank you so much. I just hope in time someone does realize that I am a wonderful person and takes a shot at love with me. Not an infatuation like she had, real and meaningful love.

[Babygirl1014]

You'll find a girl. No worries! Keep me updated!

[Anonymous]

I personally would not be gone if I felt something for him at least something strong.

I am in a semi- similar situation but he's engeged to someone else now, he's an amazing person in every way but I'm not going to stop him from being happy either I had my chance and I let it go

[Asker]

How old are you? Do you regret letting him go? I mean I made mistakes... I screwed up. But, we had a foundation, I was a really good boyfriend. My mistakes were minor.

[Opinion Owner]

I am 21 he's going on 22 this year, I kind of do in a way because he was everything I was looking for in a nice/ amazing guy but I didn't feel the same amount of love for him or even like for that matter..If I could I'd probably go back and try to get something going with him, if your mistakes were minor then who let who go?

[Asker]

She let me go. Sent me a text and never looked back. Moved on fast too.. Just heartbroken

[Opinion Owner]

I'm sorry to hear that but I'm sure she will regret it looking back I can almost promise you that

[Asker]

I hope... I think I'll say no.. She had no respect or courtesy for me when she left..

[Asker]

How long until she regrets it and why?

[TheWhiteFreshPrince]

She will care when she meets some guy that treats her like crap, then she will contact you thinking you can be hers whenever she wants.

That's just how I witness it most of the time with people.

[Asker]

I have been told that since she's already moved on and is seeing other people that she'll come running back when one screws her over. No thanks. Damage done. Had she actually been classy about dumping me, and sat down face to face and not just completely ignored me, maybe I'd entertain the idea of being friends, but not anymore.

[TheWhiteFreshPrince]

Good choice my friend. You seemed to have got lucky by her dumping you, in my opinion.

[Asker]

Much appreciation and thank you.

[TheWhiteFreshPrince]

Hopefully the next one will turn out better. I myself like to feel like I already know who the lady in question is before I try to go past a certain point with her, maybe try something like that.

[iXenomorph]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N_UGFLT0VMY

SUCK IT UP AND KEEP ON FIGHTING!

[xxlilshorty221xx]

if in the past I had a guy like that then I would have never left him sadly I didn't tho ... but now in the present I have a guy like that and no he may not be perfect but nobody is and I plan to never leave him and if for some stupid reason we were to break up I would do everything in my power to get him back ...

[Asker]

She just left and has ignored me ever since

[xxlilshorty221xx]

i kinda had the same thing happen to me I was in a relationship with a guy that I didn't get to see often and at the beginning of the relationship he never once told me he had 2 kids...i found out by his baby mama texting me, after that I asked him if it was true and it was and after that he keep tellin me lies and crap so then I got really pissed and ended up breaking up with him like a week later ...not even a few hours later he guilt tripped me into going back out with him and stupid me I did

[xxlilshorty221xx]

then after that he just keep putting me off and slowly stopped talking to me and ignoring me until like 2 weeks later then he texted me and I missed it so I texted him back the next day and I had some girl reply back asking me who it was and then saying she was his girlfriend ...

[mayaGozd]

yeah, every day. but I don't want him back, I've made my decission and it was the right one.

[Asker]

That doesn't make any sense at all. If you regret it every day that still means you are interested and want him back?

[mayaGozd]

I still love him and at times want him back, but this is all a process of letting go my attachment towards him.

Can't go back into that relationship just because I miss him and forget the reasons why we broke up. Wouldn't be good to jump back to a bad relationship for either of us.

[Asker]

Ya my ex just left and never looked back. Never called, never emailed, never returned any contact attempts I made, nothing. Just gone.

[Anonymous]

Yes I have but when I saw how much happier he was with someone else It made me feel better. Because I could never love him like she can and it is better for him this way.

[Asker]

It's nice that people actually do care about anothers happiness... My ex ruined me when she left and she's apparently already dating other people. I hope she's happy and I wish her the best, but I am still crushed.

[The_Supid_Genius]

Doesn't matter how good you were my friend...when they leave they just don't care no more.

[Asker]

Figured.

[Anonymous]

you need to stop focusing on her so much and focus yn yourself