Is my sister headed down a bad path, I’m really concerned/worried about her? What should I say to her? Should I reach out to my parents? I’m shocked?

[WhiteBoyChill]

So basically she posted a photo of herself at a college party and she had her entire body and face cuddled against this ratchedy black girl like they were close friends that had known eachother for a while or something.

But what worries me the most is that this black girl I mentioned looked more like a drag queen to me and appeared to be high on something in the photo.

I’m really scared because my sister probably thinks this is fine and its normalized to her. But if I tell my parents it could damage out family relations.

Part of me wants to post the photo just so people know what I’m talking about, but at the same time though, I don’t want to invade anyone’s privacy without their permission.

That point aside she tagged the black girl in her photo, so I visited the black girl’s profile and she reposted the same photo, but then she also posted some videos too from the party.

And they were in a room of hundreds of people dancing and my sister was next to her, quite visibly drunk.

Anyway, it’s just sickening to me. Her boyfriend is also a ratchedy black and they’ve been together for at least a year.

And now one of her closest friends is as well?

I could never associate with uncultured ghetto trashy black people but that seems to be a pattern of continuation among my sister.

I don’t even feel comfortable around those people so I don't know how in God’s name they became normalized to her.

But nothing good can come of it. I don’t want my sister becoming a part of black culture because its disturbing.

[Exterminatore]

Some of this just sounds like your typical college antics. The young and the stupid.


I am like you. I don’t care to associate with anyone of any race who is uncultured and base and ghetto. I don’t care if that’s where they came from and have risen above it. In fact I’m gladdened to see people elevate themselves. However I do not identify with the values of common street thugs and whores and pimps and drug addicts. Bad associations make for bad habits. These are for people with low intelligence and low values and for those who don’t know God. Not for you and I.


Hopefully she will out grow this. At one time I was 18 and 19, smoking pot every day, sleeping around, associating with fools. Then I saw the error of my ways after 2 or 3 years and grew up and knocked that crap off and started behaving like a civilized human. The military helped me to get back on the right path. For me it was immaturity that lead to experimentation that eventually lead me back to where I started to begin with. It just took a few years to get all the foolishness out of my system.


You should be applauded for staying the course and not getting off the right path. You’re smart enough to see all that may be fun for a season but in the end it’s no fun at all and can carry consequences.

[WhiteBoyChill]

And its not even that its just I’ve never even seen the appeal of partying. I’ve been to a few before and it just seemed like a pointless waste of time

[Exterminatore]

It has little appeal because it is a pointless waste of time.

[slatyb]

Your sister is an adult. You aren't responsible for her. If you want to continue having a relationship with her, leave it.

[Alwayreckles93]

I don't mean to say this in a rude way but if his sister is an adult then she needs to become responsible for her self which means paying her own bills and paying for her own college tuition without her parents help. This is why no one can take Z generation seriously.

[slatyb]

@Alwayreckles93 She's a legal adult. If she's making satisfaction academic progress her parents should have no concerns.

[slatyb]

Your only concern is that you don't like the appearance of someone she is standing near? Someone you have never met and know nothing about? What do you not like besides her race?

[Alwayreckles93]

No I never said that look my whole point is if this girl thinks and calls herself an adult she mind as well pay for her own college tuition and her own bills. Her parents shouldn't be the ones paying for her college.

[Alwayreckles93]

Please what ever you do, You need to tell your parents about your sister where about and what is going on. That's crazy your sister will end up in no good if possible even dead. All those worldly Godless people are all possessed by demons and the devil. This is why your sister should had enroll at a Christian college or at BYU at least Christian and LDS universities had strict rules and restrictions I agree with. You sister needs to appreciate the things your parents do for her. If your sister claims that she an adult well then she needs to act like an adult which means paing her own bills that's includes college tuition without your parents help. Your sister needs tuff love.

[bean2k21]

White girls used to be attended by black folk all the time before the Civil War. I don't see the problem is unless they working for free.

[Anonymous]

Keep your nose out of your sister's business.