Guys, If your girl became fat due to pregnancy, depression, or hormones, or age, would you leave her?

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[Sixgunsound]

Things changed for my wife after having two kids, just like I am assuming they change for Everywoman after kids. With me being gone so much due to all the jobs I have to work and grad school obligations, I understand that it’s not reasonable to demand her to figure out a way to line up a babysitter that isn’t in our budget just so that she can go to the gym. And before anybody gives me crap about well there are other ways yada yada you know what yourselves. I am not so shallow or vain that I would break up my family because my wife doesn’t look the same in her 30s after having two of my children then she did at 23. anybody who would consider let alone follow through with that for that reason is dead to me.

[Anonymous]

no.. the fucked up part is yesterday for the first time in months i took some photos with my shirt off and posted them on my insta and she goes on a different platform a church prayer forum and bitches saying i'm fat and have a rash on my body etc. this was after me spending almost an entire year since the beginning of 2022 steadily working out hard with tons of heavy weight lifting. i felt like shit really awful after reading that knowing how hard i been busting my ass to get in shape. she doesn't know i saw that even though she went under an anonymous account to bitch. nothing i do satisfies her for whatever reason she hates my damn guts and has since day 1

[Opinion Owner]

but no i wouldn't leave if she gained weight or got fat

[Opinion Owner]

the fucked up part the guy she's with is skinny as hell covered in tattoos and is the skinny fat but yet me who actually has abs and muscles she bitches at and curses out

[Opinion Owner]

even though i never once said a negative thing about her physical appearance not once if anything i always praised her for taking care of herself and for being beautiful both inside and out and loved her unconditionally even when i'm mad at her

[mickmrly]

No. In sickness and in health is one of the marriage vows. I’d help her as much as I can and I’d hope we could get through to a positive outcome as soon as possible. While weight gains can be serious, the main plan would be to make sure she is healthy and in a good place mentally. I think a little weight fluctuation would be normal throughout life, but if it’s a serious problem then it should be worked out.

[TroyDT2]

Depression, hormones, or age, no, I'd help her through it. Pregnancy, yes, because I'm sterile (CBAVD) so that would mean she cheated.

[Asker]

😢😢😢😢
Damn sorry to hear that.
Why are you sterile?

[Sparkie460]

My wife of 30 years has gotten heavier and her health has declined but I wouldn't think of leaving her now. We have been through a lot together. She stood by me when I had problems, I'm standing by her with her problems. The vows says " through thick and thin, richer and poorer, in sickness and health ". Real love follows those vows.

[exitseven]

yes, till death do us part.

[Sparkie460]

Absolutely.

[lucas262]

If she got fat and decided yo not work on it I'd tell her I'd lost attraction to her. I don't know in my book the vows said till death not till she tipped a scale. Would I cheat? I'd sure be tempted. Would I leave? I sure hope I wouldn't need to.

What would you do if your guy just quit taking care of himself, got fat didn't have hygiene and didn't provide? Would you cheat? Would you leave? If he said he'd never work on himself? I would.

[HaveNoName]

You don't leave your wife just because she became fat due to pregnancy or some other hormonal changes. It just takes your pretending to another level of difficulty. Pretending that "You are the most perfect person in the world to me and I am the happiest person on Earth". Without that pretending married life cannot go on.

[AdithyaR]

Nope, that's not something that would bother me.
I'm a certain level of demisexual and attracted to intelligence as well. So changes in their body wouldn't make me lose attraction.

[Noahzaid]

Every scar, every wrinkle is a story of the days we had and sacrificed to be here.

so, why would I leave her?

[YourFavoriteFriend]

I don't have a problem with little chubby to begin with. If she's on the obese side, then I would express my feelings for her to loss some and I would be in her side helping her as much as I could!

[ByNature1986New]

No, i married person to share my life with.
If I would need someone other person to jerkoff to I then it’s time to wife and see what am I missing. But leaving anyone just because of change of appearance is sick

[kespethdude]

All I can say is anyone who does is a scumbag and the woman should milk him for every single dollar for child support.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I like fat girls too, but if I married a skinny girl and she ended up looking like that woman, I'd be a little pissed and feel disrespected.

[Chazmatazz269]

Not immediately; i would start inviting her to workout with me and suggesting better dietary choices. If she refused, i’d definitely leave.

[jshm2]

Depends on what the relationship was for.

If it was sex, then as long as the sex is just as good (if not better), then it won't matter.

[nawtee_me]

well according to some guys on here looks do matter, so, I guess they would leave. I am not one of those and I believe that looks don't matter and will certainly change over time. There is more to a girl than her looks...

[bamesjond0069]

No. I'd just put a lock on the pantry and make her wake up at Crack of dawn to run the yard every day until she was acceptable. Obesity kills and obesity is a choice. And I sure as shit would hope she would kick my ass if I ever got like that.

[Mofunfour20]

Yeah, that implys that Im not qualified to help her

[inhua]

I'd be taking steps to prevent that from happening in the first place

[HighValue]

No, but I'd lose interest in intimacy due to losing attraction to her.

[art84]

Probably not just depends, she can always lose weight if she hated how she looked cause of depression or having a baby.

[Mangospacho]

No way. That’s part of the deal. I would stay with her.

[Cubus]

Pregnancy, depression - no.

Hormones - depends what you mean by this

[Pohjolan]

Please, none of that makes a person get fat.

[OddBeMe]

That wouldn’t happen to my girl. And she’d confirm if she wasn’t in her cage. “Good girl”…

[Anonymous]

That dragon is totally screwed! That dude is being motivated by HUGE tits!

[Anonymous]

No man wants a fat wife. Not only is a fat women physically unattractive she is also embarrassing to be seen with.

[Summeroflove]

No. Not if I loved her I wouldn’t

[soe11]

No, why should I?

[Mcarlier84]

I like bigger girls

[Imsmurter1]

Hm maybe I dunno

[Anonymous]

Possibly. How fat we talking here?