Would you leave your wife if she got fat, cut her hair and was unwilling to look feminine?

Question

Let's for example look at this couple, Vegan Gains and his girlfriend Jasmin. She looked like this when she was dating him Now looks like this She also wants to be referred to as Harry now.

Qdbrown · Accepted Answer

You date and marry people for who they are and how they appeal to you.

If they should change, then they are moving targets, and everything is for not, because had you met them after changing, you might not have ever talked to them to begin with.

Which is fair, and the person doing the changing should expect all their friends and maybe even family to treat them differently.

Rockstarrrrr · Accepted Answer

I think couples should keep up with each other... If someone let themselves go for a while and decided not to do something about it... The other one has the right to leave... Having doubts about your sexual or gender identity is another thing and should be discussed and closed before getting into the relationship

OlderAndWiser · Answer

If my girlfriend wanted to "transition" and pretend to be a guy, I would be saying "Adios, MF" in a heartbeat! I'm not homosexual, I don't want to be with a man, and I don't want to be with a woman who would prefer to try to act and look like a man.

RolandCuthbert · Answer

It reminds me of an American Dad episode.

Stan is only attracted to Francine because of her looks. She gets angry with him and stops taking care of herself. She becomes fat and gross. Then he wants a divorce.

But he solves the problem by having his retinas removed. But he can't work because he is blind. So Francine has to work instead. She begins to hate that and she wants a divorce.

Nothing is wrong with being shallow. But if you are not honest, you are lying to your partner. If women want men to pay the bills and men want trophy wives, nothing is wrong with that. You just have to know the truth.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/JIcMlpRQYTg

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

Lmao, you mean if my wife transitioned? That's kind of its own thing.

That's Harry, now. That's his husband.

And yeah, I have no problem with that. I'm bisexual and non-binary, if my partner is living their true life being true and authentic to themselves, I'm happy.

But I see why cishets get threatened. Sexuality when you're obsessed with the default setting can seem threatening if you're not fully realized as a mature adult.

letuswaltzforthedead · Answer

By the look of those pictures, she transitioned. That's different. I'd want to know if my partner was experiencing gender dysphoria and was considering transitioning to a M2F before the relationship happened. Now if the guy is just a feminine male or a Roseboy, that's different. There's a difference between a tomgirl and a trans "male".

Rania05 · Answer

If my husband started to be feminine and even dressing like a woman and paint his nails, take care of his hair and grow it up, etc... I would stick with him as long as he didn't truly forget his gender and started to reject sex and wants to turn himself into a woman... I'm slightly asexual straight but it would still disgust me if he began rejecting normal couple bed activity because he doesn't feel like a guy anymore.
If he wanted to be a woman then don't marry one who wants a man!

BlueScorpio · Answer

If my husband started transitioning, I would not to be happy with that at all. I married a man, if I wanted a woman I would just got one but since I'm not gay I chose him. So yeah would be a deal breaker for the both of us.

fonduegirl · Answer

As long as they still look good, I won't have a problem with this. We fall in love with a person's soul, not their choice of clothes or hair length.

And I'm antinatalist too, like him. I think humans have overpopulated the place. Sigh.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Uh.. the last post almost outright states she is transitioning to a male. So yes I would leave- I’m not gay nor am I attracted to men or biological women who have transitioned to men. I may love her still but I didn’t sign up for that.

Anonymous · Answer

I dislike this couple so much
Ofc being into their slave diet eating soy milk and beans all day caused all this mess.
He loves animals but hate humans! He once claimed babies have to be killed.. because like world is so overpopulate. They are both mentally ill.
Scums of earth. And people follow them. This world is so f up

Anonymous · Answer

Unless we somehow had children together, then very much likely.

I am not attracted to anything even remotely close to a male (or in "Harry's" case, a prepubescent 12 year old boy), so any attempt to get affectionate or intimate will start to feel strange. And the relationship will start to crumble from there.

SamIam96 · Answer

I wouldn't leave her if she got fat or cut her hair. Stuff happens. But, if s/he want's to be called by a guy's name, Harry, and/or is transitioning to being a guy, see ya!

Wade12345 · Answer

How fat are you talking about anyway? I have a fetish to have sex with a Pregnant woman someday. I'm not into fatties, but pregnant is not bad fat. Pregnant is HOT!

Guy13 · Answer

It would be difficult for me as I am sort of ocd. I would have a huge issue with it. Would you pack it up?

genericname85 · Answer

absolutely. but i understand that vegangains would stay with sucha girl. cause he's a sissy soyboy. that's not even an insult. that's just the effect of too much soy causing too much estrogen in a man.

VanguardTitan · Answer

I'd be okay with that, my partner would still be the same person i fell in love with, their identity doesn't change that. And if understanding themselves better helps my partner feel more comfortable then why wouldn't I be okay with it?

Anonymous · Answer

Only because I tell them this from the start. So for me it isn't bogus. I told them it from he start. NOW THERE IS A DIFFERENCE from wanting to look like how she is looking vs I let go and I need some help getting back to where I was.

SlothySlob · Answer

She realized that someone needs to be the man in the relationship, and Vegan just didn't cut it.

Ligerzzero · Answer

If girl I was dating went from being a woman to a man, I’m gone.

exitseven · Answer

The deal is till death us do part. I knew my wife would not do that. That is why you really got to check them out.

Anonymous · Answer

He never should’ve dated her even when she was in her original form. She’s not hot at all or anywhere close to being attractive. Guys need to stick to strippers! Only date women who get paid to take their clothes off!

Light909090 · Answer

If a person isn’t Harry I’m not going to call them Harry.

Anonymous · Answer

I would. When a couple marries both sides have Cartain expectations. If she stops being the woman I married, then I'm done with her.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Im not dating anyone who is trying to turn herself into a dude.

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

Your question doesn't mention transitioning to the opposite sex whereas the rest of your post is about transitioning.

Agent_Elflord · Answer

Most likely. Don’t care about weight, but am not into boyish looking women or trans women.

Thotkiana · Answer

Um if my husband stayed transitioning I’d divorce him immediately

goodgirlsteven · Answer

You should have talked before hand and let him know you were feeling this way its unfair to him

Dazzler1983 · Answer

Don't think she is fat and she is cute with short hair. I don't see what the issue is

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

From what you showed that is a transgender man so yes if my wife came out as trans I would leave her

BLP11520 · Answer

My wife is chunky again, she hurt her back so what it is still her.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Absolutely. I would leave her ass in an instant. That is disgusting he stays with her.

Anonymous · Answer

She was pretty before, now she's a loser. I'd dump her in a second.

AsaKyo · Answer

So she became a tranny? Lmao..

BeMuse · Answer

Vegans are crazy as shit...

Kaneki05 · Answer

I am not pansexual so probably.

SushiSxnpai · Answer

If you really loved her, you wouldn’t care.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Mentall illness is real.

boobliker · Answer

more than lickly yes

Anonymous · Answer

Fucking Lefties 🤦‍♂️

ProudWoman · Answer

Ewww

coolguy919 · Answer

yeah if she cut her hair hell yeah

Shy_Steve · Answer

It depends how drastic the change is.

Anonymous · Answer

LOL! Yeah--that chick's gotta go!

Iron_Man · Answer

No I wouldn’t

EaterPeter · Answer

Probably

Anonymous · Answer

Fucking nut cases

jimmy2 · Answer

Don't be lame

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