This girls seems to like to be around me a lot but she mentions that she had dates with other men but they were postponed. Why is she doing that?

[Anonymous]

[PrettyPriya]

It is nearly impossible to answer this without some more context to the situation between you and her and some more details about the cancelled dates. Maybe use the update box and update the question with some relevant information so we can better answer.

We cannot guess what is going on in her mind or why she cancelled dates. She could have for a number of reasons. Perhaps she got busy. Perhaps she found out a guy was a jerk. Are you sure SHE cancelled them and not the other way around? That is where more information would be helpful.

As for her wanting to be around you, great. Sounds like she enjoys your company. Again, not a lot of information about who she is to you and when she is around you. Is she a coworker? Friend? Where did you meet? All these things would really help get better opinions.

If you do update, I will revise my opinion accordingly.

[Asker]

I met with her through friends. My friends work at a restaurant with her. I came into restaurant and met her. She always tried to sit around me on her breaks. She tries to show off her body to me. She gave me her cell phone number and gave me her work schedule. She texts back always but sometimes cuts off conversation suddenly. She picks me up and we go out. We last went out with her coworker and her. She however looks at photos of other men in front of me conspiciously on her phone. She talks about her ex. She also says she went on dates recently but they fell through and mentioned that she was gonna go on a date the same day but she had to reschedule it. Her games confuse me a bit.

[PrettyPriya]

Ah, okay then. Thanks for the extra info. Sounds like she is trying to get your attention. Have you thought of asking her out? Maybe those dates aren't even real and she is testing to see how you react. Very real possibility there. Perhaps why they always fall through... ya know? She is hoping you will ask.

[Bethany22]

Sounds like she's sabotaging her chances with you. I don't know why she would do that either

[Avicenna]

Well, the most likely explanation is that she is nudging you toward asking her out on a date, by indicating she's still available. I'd ask her out and plan a fun date.

[mlvrjohnconnor]

She is either trying to push you making a move, or she friendzoned you. Only one way to find out

[Guy13]

Because she’s either not bright or inexperienced 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Asker]

What is she trying to achieve?

[Guy13]

I don’t know…it’s nonsensical from every perspective. MAYBE, she’s trying to say that you are most important 🤷🏻‍♂️
Cancelled other guys for you 🤷🏻‍♂️