Why a girl who likes me, ignore me unless I give attention to her or talk her, so she talks me back and stop ignoring me?

[Anonymous]

[XHopelessRomanticX]

Do you like her back? If so, does she know you like her back? It's possible she is shy and is waiting for you to make the next move. She may be trying to show you she's interested, but isn't quite sure how you feel and is therefore backing off in case you don't return her feelings.

[Asker]

What should I do i like her too? I have her number but we don't text, we just see each other in the college, she smile and say hi, but continue walking alone or with her friend, so I don't know if she want stay and have a conversation

[XHopelessRomanticX]

Have you told her you like her?

The reason I'm asking this is because I used to do the same exact thing. I like a guy, but I like him from afar or I hold him at arm's length because I don't know how he feels about me. The fear of rejection is strong.

[Asker]

No, I've not even told her a compliment, she gave me a candy the last time that we crossed

[XHopelessRomanticX]

You already know the feeling is mutual, so go for it! Take a chance and have fun!

[Izzy_3991]

Has she said she likes you?

[Asker]

Her friend

[Izzy_3991]

Hmm... I don't know. Perhaps she just likes the attention you give her or maybe she has jealous if you don't pay attention to her?

[Asker]

But I have approached her, I asked her for her number, now she just pass in front of mine and say hi and smile, she haven't texted me first yet, we've just texted a bit (some specific questions) and I am the only one who sent her message first. She used to stare at me a lot before meeting her. I don't know if she wants me to ask her out or what

[Izzy_3991]

You could ask her out. I would be curious to know what she says 🤔

[Asker]

How would you feel if a guy that you don't know well ask you out? It's strange for me

[Izzy_3991]

It would be odd, at first, but I think being as honest as possible is important. Tell her your feelings and intentions with asking her out.

[Asker]

we just see each other in the college, she smile and say hi when we cross after class but she continue walking alone or with her friend, so I don't know if she want stay and have a conversation or she just is being kind, the second time that I texted her, I said I was waiting after class, she came with her friend as always and told me "let's go", she always accompany her friend to the bus stop, we were talking there till her friend is gone and we continue walking together to home. That's why I don't know if talk her to get know her more or what.

[Izzy_3991]

It seems like she's being friendly and polite to you.

[Asker]

Really? There is another girl (b) who is doing the same, this girl b saw me talking with the girl a and now the girl b ignores me and act serious with me 😅

[slatyb]

She's shy? Have you asked for a date? Do you want one?

[Asker]

She is not too shy, but she acts kinda shy with me sometimes. I haven't asked her for a date because I want get know her first.

[slatyb]

How do you think you will get to know her if you don't spend some time talking to her? What do you think a date is? It's an invitation to go somewhere and talk.