So recently my female friend got broken up with by her boyfriend and a few days later my girlfriend broke up with me. (I swear it's a coincidence) We both talked about our situations together. Then all of a sudden she asked if I would like to "hangout" and "get rid of this bad energy out of our heads". This would be our 3rd time if it does happen. (I would also like to mention we matched on a dating app a year before but she wanted to be friends) She said we could just go out and eat and take a short night trip. But the kicker is one of the times we went to a restaurant she told me she had a boyfriend at the end of our get to gather. I told her I still had feelings for her and we should limit our interactions so I don't cause problems. Ever since I confessed my feelings she acted slightly different through texting like she is more open and friendly. Is this even a good thing? Or am I just over thinking it like most guys do?
Well the thing is when I confessed my feelings she said she appreciated it and that I won't do anything to make her uncomfortable. Sex would be nice don't get me wrong but I don't want to ruin our friendship she is everything I've been looking for in my eyes. She would once in a blue moon send memes that kinda relates to sex and dark humor. I'm not sure if there is even sexual tension, I'm not really good at spotting that stuff out.
No (we briefly touched hands when she handed me something), the only time we've seen each other is when she had a boyfriend. So naturally I kept my distance.
At the end of the date, put your arms out and embrace her in a full body hug. Make it last longer than a simple friendly hug, then keep your arms around her waist put pull your face book to look into her eyes. At that point, the way she returns your gaze wil probably tell you if she wants more. Start moving your lips towards her lips and if she turns her head to the side, you will kiss her on the cheek, which is not being too forward for close friends. If she doesn't turn her face to the side, you will kiss her on the lips. I'm sure you can take it from there.
I feel like that's a bigger bite than I can chew 😂 even though I still have feelings for her I'm not sure she does for me because I believe she still considers us as good friends. I'll test the waters and rest my hand on my shifter to see if she wants to hold my hand. You think that's a good idea? I just don't want her to be uncomfortable or make her think I'm trying to take advantage of her.
Yea you are right. But I guess I'm confused if she is actually interested again or still want to go out as friends. I'll have to read her body language I guess.
I have an update. We did go out and we both had a blast. We went out to eat first since neither of us had eaten. We both talked about what's going on in our lives and also funny stories with many laughs (She laughed at some of my unfunny jokes too). We talked about sushi and how I haven't had it before so She said herself we can go somewhere and you can try my piece (already planning 2nd date?). She was also very engaging in the convo's and locked eyes. She then suggests we go rollerblading. I haven't done that in like 14 years so I was rusty and slow at first but she still waited for me. 2 times I almost fell and she touched my arm but it was like a touch where it wouldn't have done anything if I did fall. We sat down and she sat so close our legs were almost touching. Then on my way to drop her off she wanted to hear me sing solo and then complimented my music taste (She has the same taste) and my voice, she said it was deep? Never heard that before from someone lol. Then she wanted to sing together and so that's what we did until I dropped her off. We didn't hold hands or kissed because I wasn't sure if that's what she wanted since she got out of a relationship.
In conversation with her, refer to the next meeting as your next "date." If you go out to dinner and you are seated in a booth, sit on the same side as her and close enough that your legs touch. At some point, she will have her hands resting on her legs, and you can reach over and put your hand on top of hers. When you talk, look into her eyes and make your eye contact last a lttle longer than you would in a normal conversation with friends. After dinner, when the waiter asks about dessert and she declines, tell her that you'd like a dessert but not a whole one and ask if she wold share a dessert wth you. Then you get a piece of cake or pie or whatever she suggests and you have two forks with one small plate between you.
By the end of the date, she will want a kiss! Then you do the thing that starts as a hug, you pull back and look into her eyes, and then move forward for a kiss. If you are not absolutely sure, when you are hugging, you can shisper in her ear that you want to kiss her.
At a certain point, you've got to take a little bit of a chance to show her that you are an assertive male. You've already proved that you are a gentleman. It's time to prove that you are a man.
Do you think any of her signs are a good indication that she has some feelings for me? When I was taking a break from rollerblading she kept going and when she went by smiled at me. I don't want to make a move if she isn't ready.
Well you've got more experience than me. I told her I had a blast and we should go out soon again and she replied with "For sure!". I guess I'll man up and make a move. Thank you so much sir!
It is a phrase suggesting that you enjoy the Ride. New relationship ought to be wild with some explosive moments... potential violent strikes given how interconnected you guys are. The timing is eerie like the Perfect Storm...
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