Is this a good sign?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been crushing on this guy that I work with and we’re kind of friends. I finally got the courage to ask is he wants to hang out & he said “lmao yea and we could prob get food after work sometime”. Is this a good response and what should I say back?

[prettyfacegoodtaste]

he probably knew that you liked him. in my experience, always stay light-hearted and fun when w your crush. men need peace and appreciation, since the relationship is new and you wouldn’t want to come off too strong, too early, just be more of a flirty, fun friend, while also finding subtle ways to tell him that you’re into him 💜 make him laugh, and whenever you’re confused about his response or reactions, try to find the comedy in it. yolo.

[Anonymous]

why do you kids always go "lmao yea" when responding to something? so weird. it seems like he's not taking it seriously so I don't know if you two will actually hang out since he put "lmao yea" like he's trying to be like he doesn't care.

you ask him what day and time? because you need to make it asap or it'll just get lost in "we should hang out sometime" "yeah we should" then months go by with nothing.

[nonyabeez-wax]

Start small, food after work. Then keep asking for dates.

Pay half unless he offers.

Take things slow. Most guys are It's cautious about beating these days bevause of the proclivity of women who just want free meals.

You have to put in just as much effort as him to show in your genuinely interested in a serious relationship.

[nonyabeez-wax]

What was I on this morning...

Dating* not "beating"

Because*

Remove " it's " between are and cautious.

Sorry for my inability to English when I wrote this.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Haha take it more slowly about beating, too, though.

[smne35]

You might have to take him by the balls and lead him till the light bulb goes on in his head duh ya think, for a come back should have said yeah yeah that's a great idea wish I thought of that

[Asker]

Well he didn’t necessarily think of it, yesterday we were going to go out w a group after work to eat but it didn’t work out so it wasn’t really his idea.

[Nemesis2k7]

Enjoy the date. And ignore the comment saying:

why do you kids always go "lmao yea" when responding to something?

Its just a troll that is floating around. It blocks anyone who disagrees with it.

[TheGuyYouCrave]

Nah. Us men go after what we want. But why "lmao." If he did not lead, don't bother. Men should lead, if not, they will waste your time. But make sure you display indicators of interest, like hair twirls, what you women do.

[Asker]

I’ve had plenty of men lead, and end up wasting my time. I don’t think it matters your gender; it’s 2023 after all😂 I’m a firm believer of women making the first move sometimes bc it shows confidence. But thanks for your input.

[TheGuyYouCrave]

It matters. Don't lie to yourself. Women should not make the first move, but can in indicating their interest. Stop being brainwashed by modern feminist.

[Asker]

I’m not even a feminist lol I just mean there’s some more shy guys out there and they need more aggressive women go make the first move at first to get them out their shell.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Seems pretty basic. What's the subtle part here? You asked him out, he said yes. So go out.

[Finchie40]

Yes that’s a good sign , if he wasn’t interested he would of said No

[AviatorTom]

He said Yes. Isn't that what you wanted? Enjoy the date.

[Guido]

That is a positive response which is exactly what you hoped for. Pick a day and go out on the date. Hope it all works out for you. Have fun.

[K_Mee]

He probably also likes you and going out with you seems a nice way for him to start things. Plan something nice and beautiful.

[hassan9873]

Take the lead.. you might like how it feels.

[Anonymous]

That's a very positive response.

[Longshanks1968]

Tell him you put out on the first date

[jaskin777]

Yes it is