Blocking her after she disrespected me and led me on?

[Anonymous]

A couple months ago I was rejected by this girl it took me awhile to muster up the courage to ask her out. We never really talked but when I asked her whether she wanted to hangout she started saying things like, "I never viewed you that way." "You're only a friend I'm sorry." Okay I thought it's just a rejection but before that I felt like she led me on. My friend caught her checking me out and looking me up and down and then blushing, she would get very nervous around me and look away but would act cold sometimes. After she rejected me months after she STILL does these things instead of giving me space to heal (she's in the same class as me). Worst of all she has this habit of trying to make me jealous, she would get up close and personal with boys and then look at me or see me in the distance and talk to a boy. When we see each other she talks to me like everything is okay but then the next day she avoids me. She keeps trying to get my attention by coming close to me and starring at me. Many of my friends says that she's a bitch. Is blocking her a right choice to move on?

[WhitneySnow]

It’s probably just a coincidence. Tbh I don’t think it makes a diff if you block her cause I don’t think she’ll try to contact you anyway.

[Asker]

It could be but she's done it many, many times.

[WhitneySnow]

I still don’t think she likes you that way

[Asker]

Definitely could be but do you think she just wants attention and nothing else.

[WhitneySnow]

I think she’s doing it unconsciously. Doesn’t even realize she’s doing that. And def isn’t into you that way.

[Asker]

But let's say you rejected a dude, which you probably many times before. Wouldn't you want to try to give him space not just for him but for you since it's respectful. Why would she even come close to him in anyway. I know she rejected me and it's the end of the story but what she's doing is very cruel.

[WhitneySnow]

Tbh I don’t think she notices you enough to realize what she’s doing is hurtful

[Asker]

Could be so. Still though she just acts really immature sometimes. It's like when she ignores me and I chase she ignores but when I ignore she starts putting herself into my orbit more. It's like a weird hot and cold thing. It's just strange tbh.

[WhitneySnow]

It’s possible. Some girls do like attention. Try ignoring her again and let me know how that goes.

[Asker]

🙏 This was my old question on it, it describes her actions more here. To be honest I should've let go by now. I can't share links but this is what I said:

"There's a girl in my class that I like at the moment and she acts really strange. One moment she would ask me where I live or ask me questions but often she would be really rude. She seems to really like talking to other boys and never me. One day they were talking about a TV Show we both really liked but when I try to talk about it she would act really rude in front of me like she didn't want me around. She also gets really nervous or maybe scared when she's around me that she has to leave and walks away. She would be adjusting her clothes and hair. When she sees me she likes to talk to other boys in front of me and dismisses me. When I walk home with her and her friends she'd stand on the other side of her friends and become 'panicky'. She would also get up close to other boys when she sees me. I think it's really rude. What's going on.

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2 mo
Her behaviour is so confusing. Sometimes she'd be around me like white on rice whilst I'll be avoiding her. I remember once when I was in class and she would sit literally opposite me, she could've sat on the other side of the room also she would stand directly near me and lean in close.
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2 mo
After ignoring her and mirroring her actions. She sat near me in class (Why would you sit near to someone you find creepy) and then butts into a conversation with my friend as we were talking about a girl on my Instagram story I hung out with. Why would she act 'warmer' and act interested in my conversations and sit near me if she is 'creeped' out around me? Playing games?"

[bamesjond0069]

You're too invested. Stop caring so much and move on. No need to block.

[Asker]

You're absolutely right. But it's harder than it looks and her acting this doesn't help the process of healing.

[bamesjond0069]

Go find another girl to be crushing on. Ideally you don't go overboard on your crushes but the best way when you're struggling is go crush on someone else.

[Asker]

👍. It's still hurting me like mad just need to move on.

[Anonymous]

Correct. I wish more boys would do this.

[Asker]

Why do you think she does this?

[Anonymous]

Smart move on your part.