Why did she not like the compliment about wearing stockings?

[Anonymous]

Hi there, I use to meet up with a woman who I was very attracted to after a few years I thought I try and change things around she had some really nice thighs I texted her saying that she would look great wearing some stockings after that she ghosted me why did she not respond or like the comment?

[laraWM]

It was a bit too much, you probably scared her

[Asker]

I didn’t want to scare her off is there anything I could do? But I thought she might of liked it?

[laraWM]

I mean it depends how much you know her

[Asker]

Well I Iv known her for a few years

[laraWM]

I mean if you are close friends. Also you could try to apologize

[Asker]

Well since then we haven’t seen or texted each other I thought I try to apologise after Christmas I feel so bad I loved it when we use to was app I loved her picture

[Asker]

Why wouldn’t a woman like knowing that she has a good pair of thighs?

[laraWM]

I like to know if it comes from my boyfriend, otherwise it can be weird

[Asker]

But I was only trying to get out of the friend zone what do you think it’s the best way to say sorry for it?

[laraWM]

Just say sorry, and ask her for news?

[Asker]

Great what type of news?

[laraWM]

I don't know, how is she doing?

[Asker]

Yeah that’s a great thank you

[Anonymous]

If I was friends with a guy for years and then he suddenly started talking about my stockings I would be scared away.

[Asker]

I know know that but how could I of not scared her away?