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With not getting passed 2 text I mean by 2 texts to open up the convo in a respectfull way
How do women expect to find a good guy when approsching in public is made impossible and on dating apps there is no getting passed 2 texts?
Anonymous
(30-35) 
What Girls Said
Most would prefer it through mutual connections or a hobby or something else.
But yeah, all the creepy, abusive, and in general shitty guys, ruins the fun for everybody now don't they?
Don't shift the blame back to men. You are creating the types you are listing.
No? Women are fucking scared that someone approaching them is gonna murder or rape them or something in between. So we're careful.
It's a reaction to how many men are acting.
Are you seriously going to advocate and defend those abusive men, saying it's not their fault? Because that's super problematic, and that would further my reasoning as to why women are careful.
Well what I am seeing is the abusive men wich I am disgusted by to clarify. Are getting multiple chances from the same woman again and again just because they have some better looks. The general shitty man get the same experience cause and Im qouting litterally every woman here "i can fix them"
People like me wich would treat women with a lot of respect and dignity get called creep or Just ignored if we Just try to say HI or hey. Especially when we at a compliment.
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We are seen as possible rapists and murderers Just because we don't fit the type of look women are looking for and I am talking about average guys.
So then we turn to dating apps we get about 1 match every 2 years. And then we get not even a text back. Not even by the chicks that haven't seen a shower in years.
This results in People like me at the current state asking genuine question cause we are fed up. And when females finally talk to us we take our time not to scare them away resulting in the friendzone. Wich we walk away from. Ending up with 0 People to talk to again.
The "nice guys" those guys that think if a girl talks to them they are allowed to fuck and marry them.( I been here before , if no girl talks to you really really want the girl that does talk you to be your wife)
And actual creeps and rapists does who are mentally ill and Just needed some love but couldn't find it anywhere not even from their parents (not defending these one )
It's kinda impossible if you are a normal guy to get a normal or even a below average girl.
I am speeding to the age of 30 now. I have a stable job, I live on my own and I think I look decent enough. But after getting eww, creep, etc.. thrown at me all the time and after that when I lowered the bar continously got but i don't wanna ruin the friendship I got fucking scared to walk up to women and thanks to women thinking all men are rapist when in realtiy the percentage is really fucking low
(#thankyoufuglyfeminazi's)
I am using apps to try and get a connection cause I don't wanna be falsely accused.
This is a universal thing, not just happening to one gender. Plenty of men are also with a woman who's shitty, either just because she's hot or good at sex or whatever.
I cannot comment on your experiences cause I don't know you in any way, and I don't know how you approach them, what you say or how you say it.
I do think it's shitty when people reject others in a hurtful way when it is unprovoked, especially if the guy actually can respect a 'no' and not continue to bother the person.
Women are just trying to be careful, because honestly, all depending on location in the world, most men are possible rapists. If something were to happen, they get the blame for trusting anyone, saying it's their fault because of whatever reason. Remember they do not know you, they do not who you are or what kind of guy you are. It doesn't say on your forehead.
Again, unprovoked shitty behavior is not okay.
Uhm with the matches, I'm sorry to hear, but of that's the case it sounds like you're not good at selling yourself online.
I know it sucks to get rejected, but a lot about it is about attitude. A lot of unattractive guys pull a lot of women just because of how they behave and make others feel around them.
I already see somethings I wouldn't like about your attitude, "#thankyoufuglyfeminazi's" "you expect others to be into you when you find them unattractive." You see women as a way to get sex, and if you cannot have that, you don't want to interact with them.
And it's not impossible for an average guy to get an average girl. It happens all over the world if you look around.
The thing is you look at someone and already think, "I want a relationship or sex with that person," and many women don't do that.
Look, I know it sucks to be rejected, I've been so several times. When I was a teenager and just tried to poke a guy while interacting with him, he acted as if I was gross and didn't want anything to do with me.
I know that it's rough. But remember that Nobody is obligated to say yes. And yeah, that fucking sucks. But I for one would rather be rejected than someone who isn't into me "gives me a chance" that would suck even more.
Often it helps when you're not desperate and not focusing on having to find someone right now. Just start to focus on yourself, live your life and take it as it comes. Don't approach people with the thought of wanting to get laid or get in a relationship, but with the intention of meeting people, and getting to know them.
We don't seem to have a big problem here meeting people in person at many different places from bars to churches. That would include work or clubs.
I want to find someone who I have a connection with.