Hey there. I've been crushing on a close friend (let's call her "R") lately. R has flirted with me but when I asked her about it, she said she was just complimenting me. When I confessed to R, she told me that she considered me as a sibling. In my opinion, this is very confusing behaviour as half of the time R acts like a normal friend would and the other half like she likes me in a romantic way. What should I do?
Don't do anything about it. She is in a phase that will go away after a while.
At age 14, you really should have other worries than being romantic with boys and/or girls. This is only leading to disappointments and you not being able to concentrate on what is really important in life at your age. That would be to finish your education and studies.
Don't play into her game and remain on a strictly friendly basis with her. She is probably testing you to see how far she can go with you. If you don't show her any romantic interest, she will distance herself and would be the best for you.
Continue to be you and be her friend. She may eventually choose one way to be and that'll give a solid answer. There's a small possibility she'll continue to be confusing -- but you can deal. with that in time. In the meantime be the same you that she's used to.
I suggest you tell her how you feel, and if that changes anything.
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u You’re just a kid concentrate on your schoolwork
Be careful.
Go with it
She might be gay and wants to date you
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