Why am I having this mans kid knowing I'm not happy?

[Anonymous]

wasn't happy before and not happy almost giving birth

Why did I think anything would get better I don't know what's the point

[D_Bone_Steak]

Good question... but you would have to tell me. I'm kind of curious as to why because I've seen tons of women do the exact same thing. ... then they love their kids because that's their kid... but in the end they have nothing from it than a kid... not even child support because the guy can't even pay that.

[Asker]

I think we had Hope's if becoming more or empty broken promises than the women gets fed up and just leaves. I was going to leave then I found out I'm pregnant. Smith I should of aborted but I didn't want to go through another abortion

[D_Bone_Steak]

The choices...
Not all that well thought out before the actions.

[Anemone978]

You should never not use protection... especially with a guy that can't keep you happy...

[Asker]

I feel dumb.
And wasn't trusting my judgment

[Anemone978]

Well I am sure your child will be a blessing though... so don't worry too much...

[Asker]

He is. But momma needs a man to warm her at night too.

[Anonymous]

Things weren’t going well in your relationship, so you thought a baby would help?

[Asker]

Who said that sus?
I wasn't going to abort.

[Asker]

You make it sound I did it on purpose

[Opinion Owner]

Well…. you could have avoided it on purpose.
You said you thought it would get better. Why would you think that?
I’m sorry. I’m not trying to shit on you, I just never understood how people believe bringing a baby into a unhappy relationship can somehow “fix” things.
Children will ALWAYS make things more complicated.

[Asker]

I won't lie I wasn't happy but I feel maybe it was because my needs not being met. To me our relationship is on survival mode and we arnt exploring eachother like I want. How long is the excuse "bills" going to keep me waiting. Not too much longer but you're right. Because I didn't want to go through another abortion and how I got pregnant I felt it was a blessing and I'll be a fine mamma. It's just the man I'm with doesn't necessarily tick all my boxes yet. And I feel bad about it. I know what I'm doing isn't the best decision at all. And tried to avoid it but backfired

[Hangry06]

Preggo hormones probably