Ok, am I crazy or just overthinking?

[Anonymous]

I have this crush/ friend who was always texting me when she didn't have a job and was really into me. Soon as she got a job and a new apartment she stopped texting me. I would always text her first, and she would reply but never text me back first. I stopped hitting her up, and it's been weeks since we talked. I went to the hospital and posted on my social media, and she didn't hit me up, but our mutual friends did. I was totally shocked. I know she probably doesn't like me anymore, but I thought maybe as friends, she would hit me up now and then... Am I crazy? She responds to our friends on Twitter but me. Also, I never did anything wrong to her. I was always there for her. It's quite shocking to me. I'm not really mad. I think I might be overthinking the situation. Should I hit her up or no?

[Anonymous]

It's understandable to feel confused and unsure about this situation. It's possible that your friend may have simply become busy with her new job and apartment, or that she may have different priorities or interests than before.

However, it's also possible that there may be underlying reasons for her lack of communication that you're not aware of. It's important to approach the situation with empathy and an open mind, and to avoid making assumptions or jumping to conclusions without evidence.

If you feel comfortable doing so, it may be helpful to reach out to your friend and try to initiate a conversation. Try to approach the conversation in a non-confrontational way, and simply express your feelings and ask how she's been doing. Keep in mind that she may not respond or may not be interested in continuing the friendship, and that it's important to respect her boundaries and feelings.

Ultimately, it's up to you to decide whether or not to reach out to your friend. Consider your own feelings and priorities, and take care to prioritize your own well-being and emotional health in any interactions with her. Remember that friendships and relationships can change over time, and that it's okay to let go of relationships that are no longer fulfilling or positive for you.

[Anonymous]

I hate to say this man but she probably isn't just that into you and you probably should move on after weeks of no talking to one another.

[emijayy]

Did she seem depressed? Sometimes I take mental breaks for months. No texting no anything. Give her another week, if still no answer/explanation. Then she definitely is not into you. Move on.