Being unattractive and a target for insults and bullying I would say I have low or no self esteem nor confidence. I don’t even know how one gets those traits.
Im still a virgin and women find me repulsive looking
Being unattractive and a target for insults and bullying I would say I have low or no self esteem nor confidence. I don’t even know how one gets those traits.
Im still a virgin and women find me repulsive looking
Dress better, go to the barbers get a fresh cut, do things to make yourself feel confident, hangout with friends more, be social because usually it is your interaction that is a turnoff, not so much how you look. Work on how you speak to people...
I used to think I was the ugliest scum on the planet, because guys picked on me all through elementary and high school. But I finally learned nah I actually am alright, since now days lots of people tell me I'm cute asf, pretty, beautiful, gorgeous.. mind you it is probably dudes just wanting to hit it, but I do think I am at least cute now. Build your confidence, and if you need help to feel better talk to your doctor, they can recommend you therapy or something! Always work on yourself but don't give up.. good things will happen, it might take years but it will be worth it!
No. And if you feel like it does then you need to do some reflection!!! Having confidence and self esteem has nothing to do with other people, it has to do with how you think and feel about yourself. We're all human and of course get upset by the actions of others, but we don't have to let it.. stick! We have a choice of believing in ourself and knowing that the actions/words/thoughts of others don't truly affect our worth and value. And that's it. Get to know yourself, trust your capabilities, be your own cheerleader and be kind to yourself. Never base your emotions, feelings, thoughts and beliefs around another person!! They are not YOU. YOU are YOU. And there's only ONE YOU. So you do YOU and let anyone else who doesn't like you fuck right off. ✨️
"Confidence comes from within" is a true statement, but I won't pretend outside perspectives don't affect it. They certainly do
If girls are constantly rejecting you, how are you supposed to be confident when approaching them in the future?
not really. It sure can be a boost but the base of self esteem comes from yourself
Opinion
2Opinion
The short answer is yes.
The long answer is not exactly.
There are people who you’d think have no business being confident or having self-esteem, yet they have an incredible amount of both.
There are also people who have plenty of reasons to feel confident and have self-esteem, but they’re self conscious instead.
Psychology gets pretty complicated.
I think self esteem comes from your childhood/ what home you grew up in, or learning that how people treat you aren’t a reflection of you it’s a reflection of them and telling yourself that you are worth a lot. Improving your looks, focusing on the things you’re good at or love, being around people who enjoy your company will help confidence
Yes, but it also comes from being self confident and believing in themselves.
You're not unattractive at all.
Most people think so, have you seen my recent post with my photo
Yeah you're pretty cute in my opinion. You kind of look like Shia Lebouf
Not unusual
You can also add your opinion below!