Why do white girls try to show me how big their bums are?

[Anonymous]

I'm curious. A lot of white girls will try to show off their bums to me. I could totally be minding my buisness then there's this white girl bending down in front of me. I think it's more animal kingdom "showing off" not necessarily they are attracted to me.

It's more they see I'm a black girl & black women are known to have big bums... so these white girls will think I care if they show off their asses to me. It's weird. Why do white women try to size me up.

I'm minding my buisness then here's an obnoxious white girl with a large ass walking my way. It's 2023 anyone any race could have a big ass these days🙄

[Thatpearl26]

I don’t think anyone deliberately wants to show you there bum but to each there own.

I have this firm belief that if you want to see something you will see it because everyone has different lenses. Remember it’s all perspective if you want to believe that they are trying to show their bottoms to you, you will look for any and anything to support your belief.

Maybe stop looking at women’s backsides in general. Honestly it does seem like this question came from an insecurity about your bottom. Basically that your constantly comparing body shapes and sizes with others. However it may just be a genuine question.

My advice is to stop obsessing over whose butt is bigger and just get on with your life. There are more pressing things than that.

[Asker]

I don't look that's where you're mistaken
I don't obsess over whose butt is bigger second mistake.

[Thatpearl26]

Well you do look if your noticing that. Also it does seem like you obsess over it from your question you say “I'm minding my business then here's an obnoxious white girl with a large ass walking my way”. Which from “large ass” you can tell that you’re paying attention to sizes.

[Asker]

I'll glance around and when women are parading in my face or bending down or squating infront of me your eyes automatically go there. TRUST white girls arnt my thing lol

[Thatpearl26]

Again I’ve met zero people who have gone out of their way to parade their butts in my face. Squatting I doubt is the best choice if someone did want to show you their bum. Also it seems that you have this hatred towards white people. I’m pretty sure people with many different racial or cultural backgrounds have bent down in front of you to pick up things they drop. Heck I’m pretty sure guys have done that. It’s not to show you there butt’s, it’s just to pick up something and get on with their day.

[leahzrc]

As a white women, I cannot explain. I wouldn't want to make you uncomfortable and I wouldn't want either of us to think about our asses if we met eachother.

[Ben487]

I don't think they show you in particular... they kind of just show everybody. Its what they like to do

[Anonymous]

Sounds like this is all in your head.

[Luckycharms12]

I've no idea