If your wife turns into a raging psychotic bitch during Menopause, should you feel obligated to stick with her?

[Charliefretz329]

[CheeseMonster]

Luckily a lot of people don't have to raw-dog menopause anymore. There's hormone replacement therapy now. My first turn If she became very unstable or psychotic or anything like that, would be to help her go to see a specialist and have her hormones checked. Then she could have the option of getting a prescription to help balance them out again. Help relieve the symptoms she's having.

[DermalPunch]

There have been natural remedies that are ancient. Plenty of women get through menopause without those disruptive hormone therapies that make you feel worse.

[Charliefretz329]

She’s tried so many.

[Charliefretz329]

What do you suggest?

[DermalPunch]

What dietary changes has she made?

[humanearth]

Got no choice, because of you leave. She'll kill you

[Charliefretz329]

That’s a definite possibility

[TooHot2Care]

What makes you think she isn't already plotting your death now? You know WAY too fucking much and are asking WAY too many fucking questions. Hell, if I were her? Your ass wouldn't live through the night.

[DermalPunch]

If your husband turns into a total douche cheating on you and spending money on stuff he can't afford to impress women half his age during a mid-life crisis would you stick with him?

[Charliefretz329]

Not if I could afford
To leave without hurting the kids

[Vegasrunner]

@DermalPunch I'm guessing it would depend on your age. The older a women gets the less options she has.

[Apple1996]

Yes a woman can't help it if her hormones are changing her moods. I'm sure they don't wanna come off as bitchy but can't control it

[Charliefretz329]

What’s the limit?

[Apple1996]

There is no limit. If you really love her then you'll stay. My father in law made the mistake by divorcing my mother in law while her bipolar and menopause was mixing lol. They are now remarried since she got better but still wasn't worth it. Would have been better if he stayed and support her through it

[Charliefretz329]

I’m having a real rough time. I’m trying real hard but the violence is really fucking with my PTSD.

[Apple1996]

ptsd is very difficult too. y'all both dealing with your own issues so hard to support each other

[Charliefretz329]

Truth

[BlackJeep]

I feel your pain. Menopause completely changed my exwife. It was like her maturity peaked at 39 and 5 years later she had the maturity of a 15 year old. When our kids said they couldn't live there anymore and had moved out, I divorced her.

[AngryCarl2]

Normally I'd say yes but obviously there are limits. Like if she becomes physically violent.

[Charliefretz329]

Yeah…

[nolabels]

Yep.

I made vows.

Damn, I made vows!

[Vegasrunner]

@charliefretz329 Good question. Absolutely not. You shouldn't feel obligated to stay w/ anyone that treats you poorly.

[DextroShade]

She can either keep that shit in check or die alone.

[Billlewis]

Yes, because I always accept whatever she wants to do to me, and I obey her every command at the snap of her or her boyfriend's fingers.

[worldscolide]

No, life changes are no excuse.. Period..

[Charliefretz329]

Thanks

[Pete671]

Get a hotel for a week,

[Charliefretz329]

Good idea

[Anonymous]

If we make it to menopause I believe he would

[exitseven]

The deal was in sickness as in health

[Charliefretz329]

That’s true.

My second wife completely lost her mind due to her drug addiction and became physically violent. Got a real bad concussion from her punching me.

I left her but I still feel guilty.

[slatyb]

No, I wouldn't.

[sirderpsalot123]

Nope.